How To Stop Cumming Quickly ?

[goldscorpguy]

I never seem to have a problem when I'm fucking but being sucked and I really have to work on not cumming within seconds. If I can last through the first few minutes I'm ok.
It has been mentioned already but grasping the base and pressing quite hard can work for me. On a similar tack wearing quite a tight cock ring around the base also helps.
The other, fairly obvious tip is to talk to your lover. If they start off sucking too vigorously then a quick "mmm slow down stud" usually does the trick. If you're inside them and feel things hotting up too quickly then try changing positions. I have always last longer when my partner is riding me.
Last tip, if you're with a regular partner where you normally bareback them, then try wearing a condom, it will help desensitize you.

 

[deleted1025121]

I tried something new last night and really worked. Skyn Endurance Delay Spray. Its basically lidocaine and a few sprays and it kind of does desensitize your dick. It was great at first. I was really jerking and had no urgency to shoot my load. But then it kept going on and on and I wasn't cumming. I felt less and then I couldn't cum and was losing my erection. First time in my life I've ever not shot a load when I started out. It turned out to be a miserable experience. Maybe I used to much or maybe next time spray it and then wipe it off. So it worked...but maybe a little too good.

 

[kubiot]

If your straight, picture this in your mind:https://thumb-p2.xhcdn.com/a/xc5OwX74XVvgn5edQb23rA/000/005/324/392_1000.jpg

If you're gay, picture this: https://rasica.files.wordpress.com/2010/04/graham3.jpg?w=775

You won't be able to cum....ever.

Oh no, I opened the straight one too. I regret it.

 

[smoltwerp]

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Update from me:

I have been doing kegles for the last 3 weeks, honestly not very constant and some days I forget. Including all these facts I have seen a massive improvement in my ability to control when to cum (not pefect yet but improving every day).

this makes me feel more and more confident and safe in safe. Also I am asking my partner to help me with this and not focus that much in my dick and masturbating me.

I am very surprise how I quickly get better in doing kegels, in lasting more seconds while doing them and in breathing normally while doing the exercises (at start I wasnt able to not match the tension and breathing).

definetely worth for everyone to try it

any tips on how to do it effectively?

 

[NickJ21]

practice kegel excersizes, pull down your balls, flex all muscles in your body...and practice all of this... you will gain time and experience