I am friends (more where I used to live than here - don't think I know any here) with several nudists, but I don't know of any good nude beaches. I've lived too far from the beach to know. The interesting thing is that not everyone who goes to nude resorts is "hot" - in fact, they are more likely to not be "hot" but just be regular people with regular bodies. That actually made me feel more comfortable with the idea of going to a nudist event (I've been to I think 3 of them - hot tub parties rather than resorts or beaches). I'm afraid that I compare myself to the other women at these things too much, although I was relieved to find that I had a favorable body compared with the other women at the parties. (I've gained a bit of weight since then though - but I'm probably still favorable to this day, although I know I bitch and moan about my body an awful lot...problem is that I want to be one of those "hot" women...)
And while nudist events are generally non-sexual, I can't help but notice the men there, and yes, compare... (I suppose that's where it comes in handy to be a show-er, right?) I've not seen all that many men (they were smaller parties, not big beaches/resorts), but my bf at the time came out as the "best" :smile: Only one guy I met at a massage demonstration (as part of a "fun" type convention - not all sexual mind you) could favorably compare to him. I did try flirting a bit with said massage guy, but he was oblivious.
