Hung close friend

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  1. BIGMIKE

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    I have a real good friend that I have been very close to, he is somewhat homophobic, which really doesn't bother me. I am more or less a brother and a son to him and his entire family. The one thing that gets under my skin is he is always talking how big his dick and balls are. I know hes got a BIG package, I've seen him in certain clothing such as sweat pants and basket ball shorts and he has a MASSIVE bulge. I am not gay but for some reason, big dicks and balls facinate me for some reason. I have always wanted him to pull it out on me but I'm afraid he'll think I'm gay when I'm really not. What should I do in this situation.
     
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    The next time he is discussing his big balls etc. simply state, "Prove It!!"

    He may be talking this talk to check you out, but if you are not sleeping with him he certainly can not say you are nothing but hetro.

    You have nothing to hide.
     
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    I agree. This is the way to go.
     
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    then let us know how big it is!!!!
     
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    ... i personally would say... nothing... and not have ANY chance of ruining any friendship with a close friend such as that.... i don't it's worth possibly screwing things up over a curiosity ... but if u do go through with that plan.... i hope nothing gets screwed up.
     
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    A guy wanting to see a big dick is str8? I don't know any str8 guys that have the least interest in dick.
     
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    I guess all the men on this site are gay, then.
     
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    Dont you find it a bit strange for him always to be talking about how hung he is?
    Isnt it sort of put out or shut up almost like poker.
    If he wants to do a show and you challenge him , let him, and if not then maybe he will shut up about it.
     
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    Not all, just most.
     
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    my bud used to say shit like that all the time when i was younger. How he had huge nuts and a huge dick. then he got pants-ed one time. He started bragging solely on his nuts thereafter.
     
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    For me, if he is always talking about his assets, he is desperately wanting to show you what he is packing. Just tell him "either prove it or quit coming back to same boring topic"
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    ya you dont have to be gay to admire a nice cock
     
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    Maybe some people are just insecure. I am straight, I would never ask a friend of mine to show me his dick. I would say, listen bitch, no one cares about your big dick. Now shut the fuck up about it.

    I do have to say though I am fascinated by penis' in general but leave that for this site. I guess its just based on my insecurities vs wanting a penis sexually.
     
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    do nothing and enjoy his freindship
     
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    Curiosity about and a limited, yet healthy fascination with penises does NOT make one gay. I feel the same way, yet am totally disinterested in gay porn, watching men kiss, etc. It is of no erotic value to me at all. However, watching a big cock on screen turn on my wife is a big-time thrill. Maybe it's this curiosity about cock that drives the OP to judge himself 1% gay. He's not gay, and I'd say I'm not either...in the least. "Not that there's anything wrong with that."
     
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    lol jus browsing, did you ever get to see it??

     
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    yeah, have you seen it yet?
     
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    ...except maybe a couple of hundred on this site! :biggrin1:
     
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    It's been over a year since the original post, so unless someone sends the op
    a note, he likely won't respond to your queries.

    Personally, I don't subscribe to there only being "absolutes " in terms of being
    straight or gay, for many it may be on a "sliding scale"....;-)

    F.Y.I. If you do read this...Some "homophobic guys" are actually "closeted gays", (possibly very deeply), so be
    aware that he may be wanting to find someone he can confide in, or more.
    Are you comfortable with that role?
     
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    Say you're bigger. End of story.
     
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