Husbands... how much of your sex life do you share with friends!?
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My buddies know I'm a lifestyle bull, if they ask I'll tell them what I can but obviously discretion and anonymity is very important in the lifestyle community so there's only so much I can discuss.
Most of my friends are in their late 60s. Outside of a teasing, "did you get laid on your birthday?", sex is never discussed. Two of my closest friends have both had either strokes and/or heart attacks. They are on several meds which quite likely inhibits their erections. I doubt that's something they'd openly discuss.
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Lol. I am kind of a slut. I would fuck all of my wife friends, if I could.
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I don’t and never have shared anything about our sex life with my work friends. I’ve never had anyone I’ve worked with talk about that with me or anyone we know mutually that told me second hand.
For me at least, it’s about respect for the one person I this world that will always have my back.
I’m not trying to come off judgie just honest.
For me at least, it’s about respect for the one person I this world that will always have my back.
I’m not trying to come off judgie just honest.
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This so much echoes our situation.Despite the fact I've posted stories of our sex life on various forums as well as pictures of the both of us, this has always run counter to my "real" offline life where I've always been a very private person who has rarely discussed even G-rated marital and family stuff, let alone sexual details to friends, co-workers and sometimes even other family members.
In fact, back when we were swinging, this was the one thing I worked very hard to keep under wraps from anyone I knew, although a handful of times I'd admittedly test the waters by making a joking statement which predictably they would dismiss me as just being facetious, despite the fact it was 100% true. Such was the advantage of being seen as strait-laced, where I could admit the contrary and no one would believe me. I often thought my wife and I did such a good job of appearing as a "normal" couple, even those who knew us best had a hard time thinking we even had sex with each other, let alone other people.
Two examples of this were the separate times we ran into someone I knew from work and a former co-worker of hers at sex parties, both of whom were totally taken aback anyone like us would be there.
While I may personally feel I'm the more extreme version of not sharing sexual information with others, but I've rarely had friends or close co-workers be open with myself or others either. Yes, there have been instances when we have mentioned sexual topics, made jokes or what one would call "locker room talk", but it was always in a general sense rather than as it related to current girlfriends or wives.
A strange exception to this seemed to be ex-partners, as the few times friends or close co-workers have mentioned sexual details have all been about women they were no longer with. Examples like "My ex-wife was a real freak." or "I once had a girlfriend who would... *insert sex act*". I guess for them, that was considered acceptable discussion versus a current relationship. Not having an ex and having only been with one other person before my wife, I guess I never understood the difference.
Maybe it's more of a frequent thing with gay or bi men to be more open about their sex lives with friends and talk about what they do with their boyfriends or husbands. Or maybe it's just the straight men I've personally known that have been more buttoned up discussing such things. I don't know. I can only speak for myself and just as I've never pried into the sex lives of those I've known, I think most of them would consider it crossing the line if I did and I know I would if it was vice versa.
I tell strangers in here about our former crazy sex life, swinging, chaturbate etc.
The only thing our friends know about is the naked art instillation we did. They don't even know about my life modelling.
Some things are best kept under wraps. I think the only thing I've ever discussed with a friend was when he complained he couldn't convince his wife to give him anal, and I tried to lesson his annoyance by saying that I'd never fucked my wife in the ass either.
Not much. Some joking around from when I was not married but I keep things vague.
Aside from work, the only people I really hang with I know from gangbangs or the swinger scene. Makes it easier to talk about hobbies.
I guess I'm out there but I have a very close friend who is single and I actually share video of our sex with him. It's a turn on to know he is jerking off to my wife. He sees her clothed, prime and proper when he visits then he gets the treat of seeing what she's got. She doesn't know of course.
He's even showed me some cum tributes to her. It has made us fairly close.
He's even showed me some cum tributes to her. It has made us fairly close.
We do this -- I send vids of wifey to a buddy, he sends me pics of his.
I know she has seen me cum to her content.
Very hot!We do this -- I send vids of wifey to a buddy, he sends me pics of his.
I know she has seen me cum to her content.
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