I bet I'm in the wrong forum for this but I have a problem...

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Cross, Jun 14, 2007.

  1. Cross

    Cross New Member

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    This is going to be a wall of text, and I'm not exactly sure where I'm going with all this, but if any of you are willing to lend a helping hand, please do so.

    Alright, so I know that this is the LARGE Penis Support Group. Now that that's out of the way, I registered to this forum simply to ask those who are well endowed on their opinion on others who are...not as well endowed (very good word choice, I know). I am part of the latter. So in other words, I would like support as the owner of a small penis.

    I've had this insecurity for a few years already, when I found out what the average size of the adult penis is. I'm 18 years old, and I'm at 4 inches in length, full erect. I haven't measured my girth yet, but...that length is not at flaccid length. It's at Full. Erect. From what I've heard from other places, that's probably as big as its going to get by itself.

    Personally, I don't think I can get over this small penis complex just by getting a bigger one. But I guess it'll at least make it easier to accept myself if I did. Maybe because I have a small penis, I don't feel as manly, as potent as other men, even though we are all human beings - beings with unknown potential. But even with that being said, if I find a girlfriend, I'm afraid that I won't be able to satisfy her with what I've got now.

    Okay, so that's generally my current situation, my thoughts, and my feelings about my manhood. If there are any suggestions or comments, any at all, please say something. I know that people here have reported success in penis enlargement exercises too, so if this would work for someone of my size (well, I'm guessing it would if it worked for everyone else, but I just wanna make sure), I'd like to know what to do.
     
  2. snoozan

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    My advice to you is to accept it and concentrate on developing yourself as a well-rounded person and not hate your cock or yourself for being on the small side. It's fully functional, it's able to satisfy a woman physiologically, and it's a hell of a lot easier to give a good blowjob to.

    If doing PE will make you feel more confident and better about yourself, give it a try. But, even if you choose not to or it doesn't work for you, know that there's nothing at all wrong with your cock.

    If you're worried about being a bad lover, concentrate on being good at foreplay, cunnilingus, fingerplay, etc. There are plenty of women out there who aren't size queens and who would swoon over any man that is excellent in bed no matter what the size of his penis is.
     
  3. D_Garmanswait Glassnads

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    Someone on this site could possible link you to sites helping you with penis enlargement, I don't know them sorry :S

    The thing is though is that they consist of very time consuming routines that work very slowly with possible side effects. I'm not even sure if they've been proven.

    I would suggest you try your hardest to focus on something else in your life, when I was younger I was really worried about my size and it's all ever I thought about. Eventually it passed but not out of my own will, I was just lucky.

    If you think about it too much you'll start to obsess about it when in the end it really dosn't matter, if a girl says she dosn't like your size then she's not for you basically.
     
  4. fortiesfun

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    First, I am not at all sure you have fully developed. Depends on how early you hit puberty, but some men continue to grow after that age. I did.

    Second, size matters less than you think. There is some information in this thread that might help you. Look especially at the final section of the first post.
     
  5. Blocko

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    At 18 years old you sound articulate and intelligent. Trust me, there are a lot of well hung guys your age who can't bang too words together, let alone talk someone into looking past their massive ugly to see their penis.

     
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    If you don't accept and feel sad about it , go for it man, do PE, besides the size enlargement, your penis (if you do it consistently and without overdoing) will be healthier.

    The best site ever for this thecniques is Free Penis Enlargement ^^
     
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    Cross, since you are only 18, you could well grow more. I know I grew into my early/mid 20's. Both in height, musculature, and penis size.

    I don't know anything about penis enlargement, so I won't comment on that. Other than I have read that it can be harmful if not done properly.

    Four inches is very much functional and isn't a micro penis. Don't be shy or insecure about your body. Get out there and find a girl friend. If she cares anything about you, your size won't matter. Yes, there are size queens. Just stay away from them, and move on to one who isn't. I have been insecure about my size, too. I am getting over it though. There are some really big guys here who have been turned down for being TOO big. Some have been picked at and ridiculed for being so large. What's the difference?
    Rejection and insecurity is the same regardless of the reason, and it comes in all shapes and sizes. The grass ain't always greener...even if we tend to think it is. You can certainly satisfy a woman with your four inches.

    Don't let your size get rule your life. You aren't less masculine, less potent,
    or less of man because of that. Just put that out of your mind and get on with what you want to do and be in your life. You'll do fine. Your physical attributes don't make you more or less of a man. It's whats inside. It's how you see yourself and others, and how you treat them that makes you who you are, and how much of a man or woman you are. For example: does being 5'8" tall and 150lbs make you less of man that a guy who's 6'2" and 220lbs? No! Is a woman with small breast less of a woman than someone
    who's has Dolly Parton breast size? No! Get out there and grab life by the horns! Do visit measurection.com they have some good stuff for average and smaller guys there. I don't belong to that site, but I read on there.
    Good luck, man!
     
  9. katsboy

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    Cross, you're getting some good free advice here. Snoozan must be a shrink or something. Read some of her previous posts. Track14 and Viking always seem to be on point too so trust them. Closer to Vikings' age I can tell you a lot of what you think you are dealing with will pass. My revelation came when Dr. Ruth (!) told a caller to her show to try masturbation infront of a full length mirror. With all the porn we see its quite possible to have a distorted image of what is normal. And here especially but there have been a couple of threads on the subject you can look up. When you see yourself in the mirror you may be somewhat surprised and impressed.
    You'll do just fine.
     
  10. chesz001

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    Yeah..it's good that youre here..try P.E. (penis enlargement) exercise..maybe itll help you..
     
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    Coming back here to check on my thread made my day. Reading all the advice here made me feel a lot better about myself. It all sounds like a load of truth. I think I'm still going to give PE a shot so I'm going to be reading up on that, but now I'm not afraid of not getting results. A man can be a man in more ways than one, right? I'm going to focus more on myself as a whole and I won't be bothered by the "shame" of having a small penis in the back of my head all the time (or at least not as much, anyway). Thanks everyone, especially viking and snoozan.

    If there's anyone else who would like to give advice, please do so. I'd appreciate it.
     
  12. bboy24

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    Having a small penis does not make you less of a man. Having a large penis does not make you more of a man. Penis size does not make a man. A man is someone who cares about others, who doesn't belittle others, who is there for others. Who is a good friend.
    As others has stated, there is still a good chance that you will continue to grow and develop. Hell, I'm 21 and still developing.
    And contrary to what a lot of people say, size is not important to all women. I know plenty of guys who have big dicks but can't use 'em for beans. There are other ways to satisfy a woman than with your penis. Good head is something that women crave. Learn how to do that.
    And don't let the name of the group scare you. You don't have to have a large dick to post here. There are girls who post here. It's a pretty friendly community. Enjoy. :D
     
  13. B_HappyHammer1977

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    I wanted to give some sound, refreshing and helpful advice...but the folks above are right. Having a smaller penis is only a problem if you make it a problem. Your insecurities over your penis make you think that a girl/guy may leave you over it...they won't. Just make sure you are a good lover...and a good boyfriend in general...and all will be fine and dandy.

    HH
     
  14. amiegrrl

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    You know, after ten years of being sexually active, I would MUCH rather have a man that is willing to get me off every time (and trust me, four inches will hit the G-spot) whatever the method versus a man that is 8x6 and lazy.

    I dated a man for almost a year with a penis about the same size as yours, and we had a great sex life. If you know (and implement) ten different ways to get your woman off, she'll crow about you way more than if you were hung like a donkey! ;) Best of luck!
     
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