I can't masturbate the normal way. is there anything to fix it?

[LGX]

So I've been masturbating the wrong way apparently since I've started. I'm cut by the way if that helps.

From what I've gathered, I've been ''prone'' masturbating. In my case, I would usually rub a sheet or shirt (I guess the softness) on my penis until I reached climax.

I think this is ruining my sex life though. Well, at least from mutual masturbating. I can get hard, but I can't come close to orgasming. I had a guy jerking me off, but he just couldn't make me come and he was trying hard.

I've forced myself to use my hand with some success. But I have to use lube and lots of it. I'm always jealous of guys that can just whip out their dick almost anywhere and cum. I can't. Please help?

 

[1101550]

Try ballooning instead. Feels weird at first but it also improves your erectile strength.

I'm cut too and this is the ONLY way I masturbate.

https://www.pegym.com/penis-exercises/ballooning

 

[sykray]

You could retrain your penis and nervous system to respond to more traditional ways of masturbating. It will take time and, as you say, lots of lube.. Your penis has become desensitised to the more subtle sensations.

If you're OK with wet stimulation such as blowjobs and penetrating a vagina or rectum then you may simply choose those activities when with a partner and cease expecting that manual stimulation will get you off.