i dont feel all too welcome here

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  1. panther07

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    i was kinda hopeing members would give opinions about my photos or help about how to post links to pictures on forums. but whenever i post i never get any feedback.

    am i doing something wrong, or dont that impresive size others have?

    i'm feeling kinda low confedent here.
     
  2. nudeyorker

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    Give it some time and get to know some of the members here. You have been here for a couple of months and just like life you are the new kid on the block. Don't feel insecure I think I have the lowest gallery comments of anyone on the site.
     
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    I often feel the same way and I've been a member here for a long time and a lot of people here know me. (or used to).
     
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    Oh, no, don't feel sad. Please just keep exploring the site. Stay tuned for fun and adventure buddy!
     
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    Welcome to the neighborhood, panther07. Come and give me a freakin' hug. You can sit right here next while I write these words. A very smart member here told me once that if I wanted to feel more 'in the midst' of things that I should say 5 nice things to 5 random people and things would take care of themselves from there. And he was so right:cool:.

    It will take more than just 'the run of the mill' choice of words to get know the people here so you can feel like a part of the gang. This community here is like any other relationship that you might have in life. You need to cultivate it with tidbits of information, random tales, colorful jokes; leave pieces of your personality and spirit on a couple of threads and profiles & actually have something to say because this place is driven by WORDS, more so, the delivery of them, and the 'love' will most certainly find you.

    This is a support group:smile:. Support and criticism can go hand in hand here. We talk about everything here. Nothing is exempt as you will see once you become one of us...so to speak. So, what you feel now as discouragement is not that at all. It's just that we don't know you...and it's a lot of us here and we're already talking about something, more than likely the very thing that you just mentioned:redface:. Just come harder, but correctly, because if your word delivery is ill, you'll feel it. I, we, want you to be strong enough to get through it and keep it pushin'. This is not the playground, this the Neighborhood where 'grown folks music' is played and your song is up next.

    So, take this brotherly :hug: and have a walk around; you've got friends to make. And feel free to stop by anytime you feel kind of lost or discouraged, I'm always home...when I get back to my inbox:biggrin1::cool:

    Peace
     
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    Come into the chat room and I'll rate your dick.
     
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    thanks everyone, i just didnt want to feel like i was left out or anything.

    as for 8060 i'll be sure to take your advice ^^ thx
     
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    Panther, relax and enjoy the ride:):):)
    And what Patchos said-come to the chat room, and I`ll rate your dick:):):)
     
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    Hey Panther,

    8060 knows what he's talking about. He's a very bright, sexy, loving person. Try what he suggests.

    :biggrin1:




     
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    Very well said!
     
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    Don't worry Panther, you'll settle in soon enough, and catch ppls attention. ;)
    Patchos now can't wait for you to get in the chatroom. :D

    Plus, if you pic your best photos, and limit the gallery to about 5 for now, more ppl will view each one, rather than being spread across so many. ;)
     
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    I only have 2 photos, and they are both legendary!!!!:eek:
     
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    LOL!
     
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    neither do I but the porn is good!
     
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    and dude...that .gif rocks!
     
  16. panther07

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    i'm still sorta new here so i dont know how chat would work o.o
     
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    8060 makes me feel so touched... literally (kinda) and technically... Very well said. :)
     
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    Plus, as a panther, if you get hungry, you can always take a bite outta the panda :biggrin1:. I'll warn ya, he's kinda sour, but after a while his taste grows on ya. :tongue:

    As far as chat it's really simple. Just click on the "Chat" option up there^^ to the right of the header bar. In the drop down menu, I always click on "Video Chat" (not sure what "Text Chat", or the other one does)

    It will take a bit to load, but then the chat room should come up and a pop up box will appear. If you have a cam and want to let others see you, click "Allow". If not, click "Deny".

    One side note, just because you are on cam, doesn't necessarily mean that you have to show cock or anything like that. Many of us just use it for the interaction. Of course "shows" are ALWAYS appreciated :wink:

    Down at the bottom, you'll see a long text box at the bottom of the screen. That's where you will be typing your words.

    It's a lot of fun and you can really get to know people in there.

    Try it, and Welcome :smile:
     
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    You have a really nice gallery and I'm sure many enjoy it even though they may not post a comment. I rarely do anymore, but that doesn't mean that I don't look or appreciate the men who put pics up. For some, lpsg is mostly about the forums and sharing of opinions, experiences, etc.
     
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