I have been with my girlfriend now for a long time, she is beautiful, petite fit body, dirty blonde hair, cute innocent face, glasses, D tits. Whenever I get horny I fantasize about how hot it would be to watch her suck and drool all over a massive dick with no holding back, I'm way too nervous to tell her about this fantasy and am 99% sure she wont go through with it, anyone wanna talk about it or have advice? DM's are always open too
I wasnt much into it, but long time ago i was introduced to this type of social structure.
And ive done it twice afterwards. Ofcourse with my actual gf.
Once i invited a man for my gf's birthday.
Another time i actually arranged for a man to join us somewhere and surprise her.
Both were paid escorts, who i had previously met privately, or looked up on a german source.
Imho thats the way i prefer it to happen. So beforehand i know who he is, and if hes not going to be shy of my bi advances on him.
Either way, totally go for it. Just be safe and make her really get into the idea. If shes okay with it, you will have an amazing love life
And ive done it twice afterwards. Ofcourse with my actual gf.
Once i invited a man for my gf's birthday.
Another time i actually arranged for a man to join us somewhere and surprise her.
Both were paid escorts, who i had previously met privately, or looked up on a german source.
Imho thats the way i prefer it to happen. So beforehand i know who he is, and if hes not going to be shy of my bi advances on him.
Either way, totally go for it. Just be safe and make her really get into the idea. If shes okay with it, you will have an amazing love life
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always remember that in your fantasy, everything goes exactly as you want. in real life though, things can always turn south. what if she likes this big dick too much? what if she starts meeting him outside of your relationship? what if she cuckolds you? what if she starts disrespecting you because she no longer sees you as "man enough"... and the list goes on and on...
how do i know this, well, i've seen this in real time enough times at swingers parties when a new couple shows up and she gets her brains fucked out like never before and the husband/boyfriend starts to realize that it was a big mistake then we never see him again but she will show up by herself here and there.
be careful what you ask for.
if you're not confident enough in yourself to openly talk to her about it then you won't be strong enough to handle it when she becomes the biggest slut you've ever seen to that big dick and never to you. if you're 99% sure she won't go through with it then don't bring it up because even if she ultimately won't do it, she won't ever look at you the same again. hell, it might even end your relationship.
good luck otherwise. my advice based on your few sentences: keep it in fantasyland in your head.
how do i know this, well, i've seen this in real time enough times at swingers parties when a new couple shows up and she gets her brains fucked out like never before and the husband/boyfriend starts to realize that it was a big mistake then we never see him again but she will show up by herself here and there.
be careful what you ask for.
if you're not confident enough in yourself to openly talk to her about it then you won't be strong enough to handle it when she becomes the biggest slut you've ever seen to that big dick and never to you. if you're 99% sure she won't go through with it then don't bring it up because even if she ultimately won't do it, she won't ever look at you the same again. hell, it might even end your relationship.
good luck otherwise. my advice based on your few sentences: keep it in fantasyland in your head.
As this guy says.. best of keeping that one in your head I reckon, sounds like you got a good one, why risk losing her?
Being married to a lady confident enough to seduce other men for her own pleasure is the best kind of marriage
Forgive my ignorance but do you not just feel a bit left out? A bit, well useless? Your Mrs has to go else where to get some?
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some men are into the cuckold/hotwife lifestyle and are genuinely true to this sexual preference.
i've met plenty of men like this in my swinging days and they've all been really cool and down-to-earth guys. i'm still friends with a few of them and have fucked all their wives in front of them. their wives are not over-bearing or domineering at all. in fact, they're very friendly, nice, and usually have a very high sex drive and down to fuck anytime or anywhere.
this lifestyle gets a negative reputation as most guys cannot handle or want their women with other men, and i totally get that as well. i've simply seen both spectrums and totally respect these men whom choose this lifestyle.
it's not for me though. i'm all for swinging and doing our own thing with fucking other people but me being cuckolded is a no-go.
I totally get your side of it, it’s just a fuck, probably a good one.. I just don’t get the wanting to watch some geezer fuck your Mrs... just interested in how it makes them feel..
My wife has a lover/sexual partner that she sees regularly for sex. I don’t watch them but have met him a few times, hosted him for dinner a couple of times as a kind of getting to know him sort of thing. There are a million ways to have a relationship or marriage and as long as you are all happy it’s good.
Nothing wrong with telling her about your fantasy. If nothing else, might lead to some good sex or a great bj for you. But in my experience (and I've watched my wife do it and had someone else's wife do it to me in front of him), it really needs to be the woman who requests it in order for it to happen.
I know that makes some long odds for you, but it is what it is.
I know that makes some long odds for you, but it is what it is.
Thank you for replying, I appreciate it. I agree, Happy consenting adults and all that, I’m not judging you, if You don’t mind me asking, what did you think of him and does he have a bigger dick than you?
Thank you for your reply. Before I met him I was slightly worried he would be a brash domineering asshole, but he turned out to be a really nice guy, which I should have expected really as my wife had chosen him. He is older than me in his early 50’s, divorced and not looking for anything with too much commitment. The only time he showed his dominance was when telling me that he had had a vasectomy and he won’t need to use condoms when they have sex (which clearly my wife had told him I do, although for more than just for birth control). From what my wife has told me, his penis is bigger than mine and he is better in bed than I am. She prefer sex with him.
thanks for being open, did you always know that this was happening or going to happen?or did something change in your relationship?
are you still intimate with her?
do you think it’s common for a girl in a relationship with a smaller sized guy to seek a guy with a bigger dick for extra?
are you still intimate with her?
do you think it’s common for a girl in a relationship with a smaller sized guy to seek a guy with a bigger dick for extra?
I’ll happily talk more in a direct message.
