I'm sorta confused

[jnp]

Hello smart LPSG members-

I need some advice....well, I just started dating this girl like 5 days ago, and I need to know how long would y'all wait to have sex? I'm not in this just for the sex, I want to make it last into a real relationship, so I don't want to rush anything....She keeps saying ALOT of things about wanting to have sex, but I just dont want to rush into things and then mess it up...IDK, maybe I'm just weird...any advice?

 

[D_Landrocke DeLonguepiece III]

No you are not weird. It is good and very mature of you to not want sex to mess it up, because all too often it does. And it should be a huge red flag that she is pushing you into sex this soon into the the relationship. In my opinion, I don't think she is a long term candidate.

 

[jnp]

I hope she is...I need a long term gf for a change.

 

[D_Landrocke DeLonguepiece III]

:suspect:Not to throw cold water on your hopes, but there is often an underlying reason why girl want sex so soon in a relationship, or have sex with multiple men. And usually those reasons are not very good. Just watch out and approach with caution.

 

[darkone]

Could always just discuss it with her and if she is level headed and a keeper she will understand.