insecure

[rabbit12345]

Do women get insecure if a guy has some or all of the following: a good body, friendly personality (friendly with everyone, but not a flirt), ambitious, status, academic/clever, etc

Not that I am the above, I am just wondering.

 

[helgaleena]

Those all sound like positive qualities. If a friend OR a lover is threatened by your positive qualities, they are not liable to remain your friend, are they?

If a female is threatened by your positive qualities, don't get intimate. If you are threatened by a female having these positive qualities, leave her alone.

 

[rabbit12345]

Those all sound like positive qualities. If a friend OR a lover is threatened by your positive qualities, they are not liable to remain your friend, are they?

If a female is threatened by your positive qualities, don't get intimate. If you are threatened by a female having these positive qualities, leave her alone.

I would consider these positive qualities.

 

[The Dragon]

No I find them desirable traits in anyone not just the man I'm seeing.
I don't feel insecure because I know my own worth and I'm not threatened by positive traits in others.

 

[B_subgirrl]

I'm confused. Why would his traits make me any less of a person?

 

[DasLeezard]

I would not say 'insecure'... but I'm intimidated by some things like that.

 

[cece]

Do women get insecure if a guy has some or all of the following: a good body, friendly personality (friendly with everyone, but not a flirt), ambitious, status, academic/clever, etc

Not that I am the above, I am just wondering.

Insecure? In what sense? About my own self-image or my relationship with him? A really ugly, unattractive man with a personality of a doormat and a wandering eye can just as equally make me feel insecure. I think it really depends on how he is with me.

 

[EllieP]

My husband has all those qualities, and not only am I not intimidated, I'm very proud to be partnered with him. He's super-intelligent and very outgoing, not to mention handsome. So yeah, I consider myself very lucky.

 

[B_crackoff]

My husband has all those qualities, and not only am I not intimidated, I'm very proud to be partnered with him. He's super-intelligent and very outgoing, not to mention handsome. So yeah, I consider myself very lucky.

Oh you! You lucky thing. You seem to have a template for a perfect life!:smile:

 

[FeroxFemina]

A woman with high self esteem wouldn't feel threatened

 

[deleted639306]

I will be very proud to have a man like that.. Actually I am already insecure about myself, so if I have someone like that who actually likes me, it would definitely improve my self esteem and self confidence instead of making me more insecure