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  1. rabbit12345

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    Do women get insecure if a guy has some or all of the following: a good body, friendly personality (friendly with everyone, but not a flirt), ambitious, status, academic/clever, etc

    Not that I am the above, I am just wondering.
     
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    Those all sound like positive qualities. If a friend OR a lover is threatened by your positive qualities, they are not liable to remain your friend, are they?

    If a female is threatened by your positive qualities, don't get intimate. If you are threatened by a female having these positive qualities, leave her alone.
     
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    I would consider these positive qualities.
     
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    No I find them desirable traits in anyone not just the man I'm seeing.
    I don't feel insecure because I know my own worth and I'm not threatened by positive traits in others.
     
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    I'm confused. Why would his traits make me any less of a person?
     
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    I would not say 'insecure'... but I'm intimidated by some things like that.
     
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    Insecure? In what sense? About my own self-image or my relationship with him? A really ugly, unattractive man with a personality of a doormat and a wandering eye can just as equally make me feel insecure. I think it really depends on how he is with me.
     
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    My husband has all those qualities, and not only am I not intimidated, I'm very proud to be partnered with him. He's super-intelligent and very outgoing, not to mention handsome. So yeah, I consider myself very lucky.
     
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    Oh you! You lucky thing. You seem to have a template for a perfect life!:smile:
     
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    A woman with high self esteem wouldn't feel threatened
     
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    I will be very proud to have a man like that.. Actually I am already insecure about myself, so if I have someone like that who actually likes me, it would definitely improve my self esteem and self confidence instead of making me more insecure :)
     
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