Okay, so I'm doing the new member obligatory post...
First of all, I'm 9 x 6. Definitely a "shower" as flaccid I'm normally between 6 and 7.
I'm straight, and married.
So why am I here?
Here's my story:
I grew up in the US to European parents and family. Nudity was no big deal and not even thought about in my family. I grew up seeing my father, uncles, cousins nude on various occasions (changing clothes, swimming, sauna, whatever, totally normal for Europeans, no big deal).
I will say that penis size is definitely genetic, as all of the males in my family are large. I never thought anything about it, or realized that I was large until...
Junior High school. I had a growth spurt the summer I turned 13 (all in my penis) and I was a short skinny 13 year old with a 7 inch penis. (now I'm tall and skinny with a 9 inch penis).
I still didn't think much of it, because I looked completely normal and average compared to all of my male family members.
Then I started competitive sports. I did track and field with the really small shorts. For my body size and waist size the uniforms would not hold my junk, and twice during meets, my package fell out of the side/bottom for all the stadium to see.
I was then ridiculed endlessly by the boys and the girls on the team and school. Humiliating.
The coaches singled me out at one practice, and had a large adult jock cut down and tailored in the waist to fit me; that I was checked and required to wear at all practices and meets. Thanks coaches!
(I know that they were trying to be helpful, but in some ways that made it even worse).
Then I was in junior high in the 80s, where there were no big baggy styles going on, and you could pretty much see everything. More ridicule on a daily basis.
By 17, I was about 8 inches, and then by 21 the 9 inches.
I had several women turn me down for sex, saying "you are not getting that thing in me"!
Then after dating and having sex with my now wife, for 5 years, learned a lot. I could never and still can't get all the way in. When we were dating, she was asking friends and her doctors if anyone had this problem. No one in here circle of friends ever had this issue. So, they and the doctors told her that she probably had a "tilted uteris". Because usually the women that have that issue all have that. Well, doctor examination later...
"Do I have a tilted uteris"?
"No, your uteris is perfectly normal. Your boyfriend must just have a really long penis!"
We both laughed, and now have learned to just try different positions and techniques to make it work for both of us.
At any rate...
I'm now in my early thirties, been there done that, learned a lot.
Fully appreciate my size now. And probably have lots of tips, tricks, and experience to share. (although I can only share on sex with women).
So, I'm here, because I wish that there had been a place like this when I was growing up. It would have helped me tremendously.
I'm not here to show a bunch of pictures of myself, only to share advice, information, stories, and any help that I can be to others.
I feel though that I have to give you all "one" so that's me in my avatar.
Hopefully it's okay according to the rules, because I'm not "nude", I'm in a speedo. And yes, it's me.
I look forward to joining in on posting advice, opinions, etc.
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First of all, I'm 9 x 6. Definitely a "shower" as flaccid I'm normally between 6 and 7.
I'm straight, and married.
So why am I here?
Here's my story:
I grew up in the US to European parents and family. Nudity was no big deal and not even thought about in my family. I grew up seeing my father, uncles, cousins nude on various occasions (changing clothes, swimming, sauna, whatever, totally normal for Europeans, no big deal).
I will say that penis size is definitely genetic, as all of the males in my family are large. I never thought anything about it, or realized that I was large until...
Junior High school. I had a growth spurt the summer I turned 13 (all in my penis) and I was a short skinny 13 year old with a 7 inch penis. (now I'm tall and skinny with a 9 inch penis).
I still didn't think much of it, because I looked completely normal and average compared to all of my male family members.
Then I started competitive sports. I did track and field with the really small shorts. For my body size and waist size the uniforms would not hold my junk, and twice during meets, my package fell out of the side/bottom for all the stadium to see.
I was then ridiculed endlessly by the boys and the girls on the team and school. Humiliating.
The coaches singled me out at one practice, and had a large adult jock cut down and tailored in the waist to fit me; that I was checked and required to wear at all practices and meets. Thanks coaches!
(I know that they were trying to be helpful, but in some ways that made it even worse).
Then I was in junior high in the 80s, where there were no big baggy styles going on, and you could pretty much see everything. More ridicule on a daily basis.
By 17, I was about 8 inches, and then by 21 the 9 inches.
I had several women turn me down for sex, saying "you are not getting that thing in me"!
Then after dating and having sex with my now wife, for 5 years, learned a lot. I could never and still can't get all the way in. When we were dating, she was asking friends and her doctors if anyone had this problem. No one in here circle of friends ever had this issue. So, they and the doctors told her that she probably had a "tilted uteris". Because usually the women that have that issue all have that. Well, doctor examination later...
"Do I have a tilted uteris"?
"No, your uteris is perfectly normal. Your boyfriend must just have a really long penis!"
We both laughed, and now have learned to just try different positions and techniques to make it work for both of us.
At any rate...
I'm now in my early thirties, been there done that, learned a lot.
Fully appreciate my size now. And probably have lots of tips, tricks, and experience to share. (although I can only share on sex with women).
So, I'm here, because I wish that there had been a place like this when I was growing up. It would have helped me tremendously.
I'm not here to show a bunch of pictures of myself, only to share advice, information, stories, and any help that I can be to others.
I feel though that I have to give you all "one" so that's me in my avatar.
Hopefully it's okay according to the rules, because I'm not "nude", I'm in a speedo. And yes, it's me.
I look forward to joining in on posting advice, opinions, etc.
Version 9