Is getting head Dom or is it just an equal action?

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Do you think getting your dick sucked is a dominant move, a non dominant thing, or is it just a 50/50 thing? Do you think that the sucker is being submissive to the one being sucked? Or is it a mutually enjoyable thing? And does it matter if the one being sucked is vocal about what he likes? Maybe giving direction to the sucker?
 
Do you think getting your dick sucked is a dominant move, a non dominant thing, or is it just a 50/50 thing? Do you think that the sucker is being submissive to the one being sucked? Or is it a mutually enjoyable thing? And does it matter if the one being sucked is vocal about what he likes? Maybe giving direction to the sucker?
I've always had the exact same questions as you.
Me personally, I feel the one getting head is a dom.
 
There's a lot of tops that love to suck cock. It's just part of great sex and their cravings. As a highly preferred bottom, I love to make my Sir explode inside me, and get the pleasure and satisfaction that he craves and deserves. But I don't think most tops want to suck a load out of the bottom's cock. They're still being a dom, Just sucking it because they love cock!! And then have the bottom, or themselves, stroke the bottoms cock to orgasm. Which I've only had done to me 1 time. All the rest have ended without me cumming. Which is just fine. I rarely ever think about me having an orgasm until well after we're done. It's all about making him happy. This is all based on my own experiences and interactions with tops. I'm sure there's tops out there that want that load in their mouth just as much as me lol.

As for being vocal. I love it. Everyone's cock has a unique pleasure sensory, so I always tell my top to let me know when I hit the good spots while sucking, and riding them. After all, we all want the experience to be as hot and pleasurable as possible. Damn, now I want a cock!!
 
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I asked a dom guy once if I could service him and he said no because he was dom. This question is not so easily answered. I think getting head, but you're laying back and the other person is doing all the work is less than dom. Grabbing someone by the hair and face fucking them is apparently the dom thing.