What constitutes a date vs. just hanging out? Here are the options y'all tell me is it a date or just hanging out? 1) Shooting pool followed by coffee at the waffle house 2) Dinner - appetizers, salad, entree, dessert, drinks, coffee the whole 9 yards; and he pays. 3) Just coffee or tea at a coffee stand, it's Dutch Treat 4) Dinner and a movie, he doesn't pick you up. You meet at the theater. 5) Just a movie but you split a big popcorn and each have your own soda. 6) You go to his place and play video games. 7) He's a groom, so you pack a picnic lunch, and eat in one of the stables he's just cleaned out. 8) He comes to your place you order in Chinese food and watch a video. 9) He teaches you how to drive his 18 wheeler. Then you makeout in the cab.