Is it strange to look for a hung boyfriend?

[cockloveroslo]

Hey guys.

I am a masculine gay guy, been in two ltr where both guys where hung. Myself i am average sized. For some reason I have never dated/been in a rel with a guy with a small dick. I sure have had sex with smaller guys, but as I am considering starting to date again I come to think that a mans huge dick is such a central part of my dreams of a boyfriend/husband. I kinda get confused over my own thoughst, for after spending many years aiming my life away from the club scene, shallow lifestyle I believe I nowadays look for total different qualities in a man than I used to. But still. When it comes to cocksize I seem to have a way to go....

Do you guys find this strange? Would it be shallow, to put out an and for a man tha BOTH have great moral/personal values AND a big cock?

 

[dad4you]

Go for it. The qualities in a man that satisfy both physical and emotional must be balanced in order for any long term relationship to flourish.

 

[cockloveroslo]

Thanks for the reply! Wonder if you hung guys find it awckvard to talk about size on a date?

 

[deleted278588]

If someone asked me that, girl or guy, I would immediately consider them not a potential person to date/relationship. Although sex is important I don't want someone to want to be with me because of the size of my dick (or money in my bank account)

 

[cockloveroslo]

Totally understand BKBLL08! That`s why I ask. I do look for a rel based on the size of the dick. But still.....

 

[marlins]

Good question - as has been mentioned, a balanced outlook is what you should try to achieve. I have been with some potential BF material BUT the sexual aspect just wasn't there. Are you looking for a relationship or just a quick roll in the hay?
Good Luck in your search.

 

[cockloveroslo]

marlins: I am more leaning into a ltr. I have no prob hooking upr with hung guys for a roll.... Happens all the time

 

[MisterSlave]

I do not think it is strange to go after what you want.

Most guys who approach me for intercourse, usually feel like a cocktail frank, when inside my body. I came here, because one of the factors I wanted when I was searching for a mate, was a fairly sizeable endowmment. I honestly found my husband on LPSG in the chat room. I got to know him and dated him online for a year.. and then we met up and got married.

Its possible to have an (aspect) of your man, be his endowment.. but I urge caution to not have that be the end all be all of why you would get with someone. My hubby's endowment was just one of the factors I decided to (date him). . I decided to MARRY him,for other reasons.

 

[Black_Frost]

If you've a fetish for large penises (Phallophilia,) then knock yourself out. If it turns you on, there's nothing to be ashamed about.

That said, it's not an excuse to be an even bigger dick to the guys who don't measure up to your preferences than the dick you're looking for. The fact that you don't find them as sexually attractive doesn't mean that there's actually anything 'wrong' with them.

 

[CUBE]

You like what you like. Some people marry on a person with certain hair color. Why not a big cock

 

[unzipped]

What mr cube says....so to each his /her own...and to thine ownself be true....go for the gusto....whatever floats your boat is my motto....life is short..enjoy!

 

[Candidate]

Even tho I don't let ppl know in real life, I too fantasize and search for guys with an 8 plus inch dick. My criteria in finding a potential date or bf is either he's attractive to me (no penis size in the equation) or he's real hung, or even better, he fits both.

 

[Road_cyclist]

I think it is VERY strange tbh.
If you want a guy with a horse cock for casual sex: go for it. If you want to risk spending the rest of your life with an asshole with a horse cock: have fun!

Think about it. Why would you not want to be with the perfect, beautiful, interesting, funny, sharing, amazing, loving companion for life, if he has a small cock?

Maybe. Just maybe you may find all of the above AND a large cock. But since only a few out of hundred man have a large cock...what are the odds to meet the perfect partner?

I must admit. Easy for me to talk like this. I am happier on my own.

 

[cockloveroslo]

Thanks guys for all your comments and point of view.

 

[malakos]

Not strange, per se. You like what you like and want to fulfill that desire.

But many desires can only go so far. Particularly the superficial ones eventually become no longer fulfilling.

Plus, as was mentioned, there are a fair amount of hung guys out there who do not want to be pursued romantically primarily on the basis of their size.

 

[Rubix]

My biggest concern and piece of advice to you would to be careful about how you convey you desires. If you truly seek a romantic attachment with another person, sometimes the discussion of sexual topics, specifically those that are very specific or kinky in nature can derail your interactions and make it look as though you are pursuing casual sex over romance.

 

[HairyBootyBottom]

This is my exact predicament !

 

[eschnarf]

I could only date a hung guy. it sucks, but I need to be sexually satisfied.

 

[HairyBootyBottom]

I could only date a hung guy. it sucks, but I need to be sexually satisfied.

Me too... But how do you go about it ? Do you ask before the date?

 

[nineinchnail4u2c]

Hey guys.

I am a masculine gay guy, been in two ltr where both guys where hung. Myself i am average sized. For some reason I have never dated/been in a rel with a guy with a small dick. I sure have had sex with smaller guys, but as I am considering starting to date again I come to think that a mans huge dick is such a central part of my dreams of a boyfriend/husband. I kinda get confused over my own thoughst, for after spending many years aiming my life away from the club scene, shallow lifestyle I believe I nowadays look for total different qualities in a man than I used to. But still. When it comes to cocksize I seem to have a way to go....

Do you guys find this strange? Would it be shallow, to put out an and for a man tha BOTH have great moral/personal values AND a big cock?

It is shallow and I find it hypocritical that your partner has to be large for you to be happy, but that he should be happy with you at the size you are.