Is Sending Nudes To Guys Cheating In A Relationship?

[Athleticlad]

Wondering if there are any guys on here who are in a relationship and still send nudes to guys either on Snapchat or wherever and whether they consider that cheating?

I’m in love with my partner and happy in our relationship but I just get such a thrill from showing off my hard dick and ripped body to other lads.

Wanna hear your thoughts on this!

 

[HungThickProf]

Wondering if there are any guys on here who are in a relationship and still send nudes to guys either on Snapchat or wherever and whether they consider that cheating?

I’m in love with my partner and happy in our relationship but I just get such a thrill from showing off my hard dick and ripped body to other lads.

Wanna hear your thoughts on this!

I think that's a question you should ask your partner. Would he consider it cheating?

 

[ronin001]

Our thoughts really do not count, only the dynamics of your relationship and the boundaries you and your partner have set count.

 

[Athleticlad]

He has no idea I do This! I just love being such a voyeur and showing off for boys! We have a great relationship but it’s so hot when guys comment on my ripped bod and 8” dick. We have been together 8 years and sometimes I miss the fresh praise for my body and cock which I just don’t get anymore from him!

 

[malakos]

He has no idea I do This! I just love being such a voyeur and showing off for boys! We have a great relationship but it’s so hot when guys comment on my ripped bod and 8” dick. We have been together 8 years and sometimes I miss the fresh praise for my body and cock which I just don’t get anymore from him!

Going behind his back instead of just talking to him about your frustrations is surely the way to go!

 

[wilsonthevolleyball]

Bill Clinton said "eat'in ain't cheat'in" so sending pics can't be either.

 

[dreamer20]

Wondering if there are any guys on here who are in a relationship and still send nudes to guys ... and whether they consider that cheating?

I’m in love with my partner and happy in our relationship but I just get such a thrill from showing off my hard dick and ripped body to other lads.

You are not cheating. You just haven't told your partner you are an exhibitionist. If he truly loves you, isn't an insecure and controlling person your habit of showing off shouldn't be a problem for him.

 

[yymmuser]

You are not cheating. You just haven't told your partner you are an exhibitionist. If he truly loves you, isn't an insecure and controlling person your habit of showing off shouldn't be a problem for him.

Yeah without letting your partner/boyfriend know you are like this - if they aren’t like that as well or cool with that type of arrangement it could tarnish their feelings some for the relationship or their opinion of you. It’s always good to have good communication no matter what kind of relationship/arrangement you are in!

 

[Athleticlad]

Thanks for the advice guys. I’m really not sure he would like it so I need to decide whether to tell him or just stop sending snaps!

 

[yymmuser]

Thanks for the advice guys. I’m really not sure he would like it so I need to decide whether to tell him or just stop sending snaps!

You’re welcome! If I were you, I’d tell him. It may not end well but if you are asking people here what you should do than you probably already know the answer yourself.

 

[seattle_unicorn]

Every relationship is unique. The people in the relationship get to decide what is acceptable and what is not. For many couples, this would be cheating, for many couples this wouldn't matter at all, and for many couples this would be encouraged. Communication and honesty are the most important thing. Ask your partner how he feels about it. If he's not ok with it, then stop, and if he is ok with it, then have a blast.

 

[DiamondJoe]

Going behind his back instead of just talking to him about your frustrations is surely the way to go!

Umm... unless you're that kind of voyeur who likes this kinda shit stirring...?

 

[malakos]

Umm... unless you're that kind of voyeur who likes this kinda shit stirring...?

I'm the kind of sh*t stirrer who likes being sarcastic about it when I see people doing really dumb sh*t.

 

[DiamondJoe]

I'm the kind of sh*t stirrer who likes being sarcastic about it when I see people doing really dumb sh*t.

You can say "shit" tho'

You could even simply quote me saying it. That's perfectly acceptable

 

[socalfreak]

If your other half wouldn't approve, then it's cheating. Betrayal of trust & being intimate in this context would definitely count.
But, like others have said, it's up to you AND your partner to define the boundaries of your relationship.
However, I do think if you want to be in a serious relationship, it's time to grow up & deal with whatever issues are causing you to seek out attention from others. Stinks of insecurity.

 

[Notaes]

Yes I would think this is cheating in a cheap sort of way.

 

[deleted4499]

He has no idea I do This! I just love being such a voyeur and showing off for boys! We have a great relationship but it’s so hot when guys comment on my ripped bod and 8” dick. We have been together 8 years and sometimes I miss the fresh praise for my body and cock which I just don’t get anymore from him!

I’m in the exact same spot man. I do the same thing and wonder about this myself. The fresh praise of guys going crazy for my dick is a huge turn on. So the pics and what not are a good way to get the fix with out actually meeting up. I know he wouldn’t like it but it’s just something I need out of my system if that makes sense.

 

[TouchMeHere]

It's not cheating any more than looking at porn is cheating. It sounds like you're letting yourself feel guilty over something harmless that you enjoy doing.

In an ideal world, sure it would be better if he knew and accepted your harmless activities. That isn't how the world works though. People love to judge and control our behavior, especially where sex is involved.

Be free, do what you want, it's a private matter not hurting anyone. It might be better if you tell him but you also might find he's done the same thing before himself. We all do pretty much the same goofy horn-dog stuff, don't we.

 

[ladukbi2820]

I do feels wrong but I love it

 

[elklindoxxx]

Wondering if there are any guys on here who are in a relationship and still send nudes to guys either on Snapchat or wherever and whether they consider that cheating?

I’m in love with my partner and happy in our relationship but I just get such a thrill from showing off my hard dick and ripped body to other lads.

Wanna hear your thoughts on this!

What are the ground rules in your relationship? Have you asked your partner if it's OK for you to swap dick pics with other men?