EXACTLY. He would usually show up like 3 months later message me and send me a fuck ton of videos to make up for it and then ask for more money.
MOST people don’t know that Jamie even has a Twitter. I first bought Jamie YEARS ago. BEFORE twitter. This findom thing wasn’t how he INITIALLY got into selling. With that being said, I understand the findom thing, and even though it’s not my thing, I respect it. What you’re not understanding is that most guys don’t know anything about findom or that Jamie does that stuff. Jamie knows that as well. Like I said, I was buying from him BEFORE he even became popular, so we had an understanding...i send cash, you send videos. Simple. That simple exchange worked for me for about a year straight. He got on drugs and started stealing our money. Most guys have/had the same setup with him. What we are trying to get you to understand is that HE WOULD AGREE TO DO CUSTOM VIDEOS, ACCEPT THE MONEY, AND THEN GHOST US! MAKE UP EXCUSES, IGNORE US, THROW HIMSELF A PITY PARTY, ETC.! THIS HAS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH FINDOM. THATS SOMETHING COMPLETELY DIFFERENT THAT HE DOES ON TWITTER. IN THE FINDOM WORLD, HIM TAKING PEOPLES MONEY IS COOL AND ACCEPTED, BUT THE REST OF US ARENT APART OF THAT WORLD AND HE KNOWS THAT. You’re blindly defending someone who has scammed innocent people out of ridiculous amounts of money (NOT FINDOM AGREEMENTS).
I hear you. And I’ve known him for many, many years too.
What I’m trying to say is that he actually enjoys fucking with people. AND THAT HAS NEVER NOT BEEN HIS REPUTATION. The fact that findom fetish has been on the rise of the past couple years, and therefore people are wiser? doesn’t change the fact that he — self admittedly — always got a kick out of the game.
The ghosting and manipulation wasn’t a glitch. It’s literally his thrill. As weird as that sounds, that’s who the dude is. And the fact that people chose to trust a complete stranger in a vacuum is not the fault of Jamie The reputation has been out there as long as he has. That’s all I’m trying to say.
BEFORE laying down cash FOR ANYONE, ESPECIALLY someone who you find online, you should research. he’s had a reputation for several years, regardless of what people experienced when they “first met him.“
if people don’t research the person there is throwing money to, they’re opening themselves up to risk. It’s a responsible. To try to blame the person who takes a vantage of the responsibility as some sort of soul villain isn’t really accurate, especially when the person can be discovered and his tactics well known if you just paused and did some Google searching.
And likewise, even though it sucks that people believe one thing and then something else happens, there’s some degree of caveat emptor; when dealing with impulsive things online, getting burned as part of the potential price.
Not saying that sits well with anyone or that it’s pleasant, but let’s not be naïve. to me it that seems like the bulk of responsibility for not getting exploited lies on the person throwing the money.
Again, Jamie loves to seduce. That is his rush. The thrill of getting one over on dudes is no small part of his thrill. Indeed, he actually gets a kick out of fucking with people. THAT has actually always been there, even though he would (and will) often apply charm and be really sweet and friendly went first pulling someone in.
The dude has a game and he plays it. Even with his reputation.
