Jeff seid

I honest-to-god don't understand why any straight guys religiously follow these fitness guys.

Well, naturally, most heterosexual guys don't feel particularly interested in watching nearly ned men flaunting their muscles for obvious reasons. How many gay men follow female bodybuilding? I bet none.

But there are some heterosexual guys who follow bodybuilders because they project themselves on them, they wish they had the muscle and the sex appeal they see in bodybuilders which still makes it a homoerotic interest. Now, when they show some kind of strong interest in bodybuilders I think we may be talking about some degree of bisexuality.
 
Most of it has been deleted but he used to say "nohomo" very frequently and other things that let you understand he looks down on homosexual people. A few times called out on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram.

As far as I know he has never tried to clarify things or show any respect for gay fans. Even though what he does is homoerotic to the core he wants to present himself as a sex object for women.
 
Most of it has been deleted but he used to say "nohomo" very frequently and other things that let you understand he looks down on homosexual people. A few times called out on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram.

As far as I know he has never tried to clarify things or show any respect for gay fans. Even though what he does is homoerotic to the core he wants to present himself as a sex object for women.


OMG. Just stop with you’re sensitivity to words. My brother says “nohomo” all the damn time and hasn’t a ton of gay friends. Stop making a deal about a fuckn word. It’s ridiculous and makes you sound like a pussy. Get over it. The dude is hot and I want him to choke me with his cock.
 
OMG. Just stop with you’re sensitivity to words. My brother says “nohomo” all the damn time and hasn’t a ton of gay friends. Stop making a deal about a fuckn word. It’s ridiculous and makes you sound like a pussy. Get over it. The dude is hot and I want him to choke me with his cock.
Agreed. Being so emotionally delicate just does not come off as masc and is a huge turnoff.

Outright hate is not attractive, but casual homophobia exists. Clutching our pearls in moral outrage at every transgression is not going to gain us much respect.
 
stop attacking him on something he personally feels and honestly if y'all come from gay privileged backgrounds where everything is hand given this is what happens, y'all take it for granted. I'm literally from two countries that hate homosexuality and have been teased mercilessly and words like "no homo and fag " yes do affect me. Its not even being "emotionally delicate" its about being human and we as gay men dont have to be "masc" to be a turn on to anyone . Jesus Christ the gays really do hate each other. When the fuck are we going to debunk the necessity to be masc or fem or just a fucking human being.
 
Jeff was born and raised in the same town I was born and raised in. There were many gay students at his school, Kentridge, when he was there. My nephew is in high school and he says "no homo." He is not homophobic. His best friends say it, even his gay friend. It's just like saying, "that's gay." I was bullied for being gay in school so I know how words hurt. But saying those sayings does not mean someone is homophobic. It's stupid young guys.
 
stop attacking him on something he personally feels and honestly if y'all come from gay privileged backgrounds where everything is hand given this is what happens, y'all take it for granted. I'm literally from two countries that hate homosexuality and have been teased mercilessly and words like "no homo and fag " yes do affect me. Its not even being "emotionally delicate" its about being human and we as gay men dont have to be "masc" to be a turn on to anyone . Jesus Christ the gays really do hate each other. When the fuck are we going to debunk the necessity to be masc or fem or just a fucking human being.

Being masc is a prerequisite for MY interest. I am not going to play social deconstructionist games with people. I am and have always been attracted to men that demonstrate traditionally masculine behavior with traditionally masculine secondary sex characteristics. My cock responds to that and I am not going to send myself to a shrink because that physical response is not in keeping with the academic intelligensia's current concept of an open and progressive mind.

If that is not who you are, that is fine. I don't hate you. You are entitled to a fulfilling, peaceful existence just like everybody else. I am not going to shame you in the slightest. You don't need to change who you are. But if you want my cock, those are the parameters of my attraction and I am entitled to own them, be confident in my sexuality and pursue my fulfillment from the pool of candidates that are available.

Expecting the rest of society to conform their thoughts, feelings and words to your personal sensitivities, that is kind of entitled and oppressive.

I am asserting what I will accept, not what I expect (demand) of others.