Is Joe gay or not? That depends on if you take his word for it or put your believe in his actions Joe has never once said he is gay or bi. He has always identified as being straight. On the other hand his actions and lifestyle paint a totally different story. From his early days hanging out at Darren's to his latest sexcapades with Matt and then with Matt's boyfriend. He's kissed guy, gave 4 different blow jobs on cam, jacked guys off and fingered his hole. The picture of his stretched out asshole is prove that there was something of a decent size up there. Don't know if it was an actual dick or just a dildo but from the videos he did with Dor I tend to believe that he got fucked. Now he does the massage thing and you can get a massage where he is fully naked and you can touch him anywhere you like and anyway you like and for an extra $50 he will jack you off. So until Joe decides to come out of the closet you have to make up your own mind by either taking his word for it or put your trust in his actions.