Keiynan lonsdale??

He is gorgeous. I really love when his hair is just wild and free. big ole afro.

He also strikes me as still in that coming out, fuck-anything-that-moves phase. And I'm so here for it

Well, some people stay in that stage forever.

I do question how legit into dudes he is. A lot of these guys are using having some “queer-dom” just to give themselves some edge, to differentiate themselves from the pack and to divest from masculine and hetero pressures. But ultimately, I do think people demanding he “officially” comes out and embrace an identity are being idiotic. You don’t know what someone is going through. While everyone’s sexuality is different and individual. Some people experience fluidity and contradictions and experience them in different ways. And the gender, romantic, sexual, affection, emotional investment, commitment spectrum is wide and varied. It’s not always about just not wanting to deal with homophobia, not wanting to adhere to an identity or being so scared of being perceived as “gay”. At least he isn’t flat-out “gay baiting” or pandering in order to dudes to sign up for his Onlyfans or some shit.

I’m definitely in the camp of “sometimes he does it for me, sometimes he doesn’t”. It is rather random seeing him in that Old Spice commercial.
 
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i’m confused... he came out years ago ... and he had a boyfriend for a while but i think they broke up so he’s definitely into dudes.. and the old spice commercial is just a job lol he’s hasn’t been on tv regularly so that’s why i would assume he had a small commercial moment.. and he was casted in a show recently so yea
 
There were articles featuring him and a dude hugged up, and the media assumed that was his bf. But he never really presented that dude as his bf and never confirmed any relationship. While very quickly he was seen no where with him and never mentioned him. Some folks felt his “coming out” and his teasing that he had a bf was more of a stunt or a desire to “prove” his “queer-dom” than anything else. While he’s mostly moved on from presenting a particularly “queer” of “gay” image these last couple of years. So, no one really knows what’s up, and he hasn’t really gone into any details or talked about anything beyond his initial “coming out” post several years ago.

Ultimately, nobody owes anyone anything. We’re all on our own journeys. We all have our own motivations. Some people do experiment and dip and dabble. Some people experience different types and extents of fluidity. Everyone has their own sexuality. Love is complicated. And the gender, romantic, affection, emotional investment, commitment spectrum is wide and varied. I only want people to not let psychological strife, sociological or Hollywood pressures and ego to get the best of them. And don’t indulge baiting or using “queer-dom” as a shallow way to make yourself feel special and unique. I can’t say he’s done any of that.
 
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He spent a few months hyping up kissing guys and made a whole music video about making out with dudes. So, none of that is really saying anything. My point is that some feel he never had a legit bf, was exaggerating how much he was into dudes and used “queerdom” mainly for publicity and to make himself more “exotic”. There are indeed a lot of guys on social media nowadays who are using making out with dudes, being hugged with guys, vague attachment to “gayness”, and relationship ambiguity for likes and attention and validation. I don’t know if Keinyan fits that bill. But this is how a lot of people perceived him and still do. It is perhaps unfair and much more complicated than that. Either way, he hasn’t done anything to deserve any real ire. There are definitely more problematic “queers” and egregious “gay baiting”.
 
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I don't know. I think he's probably trying to figure out how to do this when he's as famous as he is. he likely wants to be fuckin all over the place, but also doesn't want to end up on TMZ or the blogs. plus he's black and trying to maintain a career. he spent the first 2 years wilding out with nudes and dick prints and all kinds of stuff. my guess: he's focused on his career and probably got a few fuckbuddies that ain't gon put his business on the internet.
 
He spent a few months hyping up kissing guys and made a whole music video about making out with dudes. So, none of that is really saying anything. My point is that some feel he never had a legit bf, was exaggerating how much he was into dudes and used “queerdom” mainly for publicity and to make himself more “exotic”. There are indeed a lot of guys on social media nowadays who are using making out with dudes, being hugged with guys, vague attachment to “gayness”, and relationship ambiguity for likes and attention and validation. I don’t know if Keinyan fits that bill. But this is how a lot of people perceived him and still do. It is perhaps unfair and much more complicated than that. Either way, he hasn’t done anything to deserve any real ire. There are definitely more problematic “queers” and egregious “gay baiting”.


There's nothing coy about his actions since coming, out, it's nothing like queerbaiting. I don't know how he could have made it any clearer really.
 
Him & That "boyfriend" were in a open relationship at least thats what the boyfriend told me when we were dming tea
i heard a rumor about that too back then.. it’s a little weird to me that people think he’s lying about liking men but oh well... i didn’t think he would be a open relationship type person but if that’s his cup tea then good for him.