My husband was a virgin when we met so I was able to train him in exactly how I like it.
I like to be teased by licking the outer lips and slightly pushing the tongue in my slit and going all the way up to my clit. When I am writhing around on the bed, just wanting his tongue on my clit, he just grabs my lips and spreads me wide.
Then he uses a soft tongue at first and licks up and down, then with a hard tongue he works my clit, with tiny circles of his tongue.
My favorite is when he is licking my clit just the way I described and fucking me with my 8 inch dildo.
Hmmm, I wonder if he's busy....