Lap Dance

[Act2_Begins_Now]

I need to prepare. Your help would be appreciated.

Have you done it? If the results were beyond exceptional ... please share your secret.

 

[whatireallywant]

I'm wanting to learn how. There are instructional DVDs you can get to teach you. Look on Amazon.com and they have some. I don't have any of the lap dance instructionals but I did order two exotic dance workout DVDs. I'm really clumsy at it right now because I can't dance worth anything! Too uncoordinated! About the only workout class/DVD I've been any good at is Tae Bo, because my body seems to flow better in a martial arts context (I took karate for a year, too) rather than a dance context. I'd like to be able to do both, though.

 

[transformer_99]

Lap dance or friction ? Trust me you don't even have to be good at it if you're hot to start with.

 

[Gillette]

1. Sit on man's lap.
2. Wriggle and jiggle. (some bouncing)

 

[Act2_Begins_Now]

But I want to leave him breathless ...

 

[No_Strings]

But I want to leave him breathless ...

Do this;

1. Sit on man's lap.
2. Wriggle and jiggle. (some bouncing)

For 2 minutes.

:biggrin1:

 

[Act2_Begins_Now]

how about for really breathless?

 

[WildHoney]

I have worked as a stripper and lap dancer.

The most imprortant part, in my opinion is lusty eye contact and a good slow build up to the actual "lap grind" .....great sexy music and some hot dirty whispers in his ear while you are undressing help too.

A guy wants to know that you are into it and it is turning you on..tell him

Take you time, make him gag for your body.

When actully lap dancing him keep eye contact with him, be sexy, think porn star.
Simulate actual sex, grind on his hard on, rub your breasts across his lips, kiss his neck, tell him how good he smells....use the floor front of him, on your hands and knees, show him what he is going to get

Appeal to his visual nature, rub your breasts and tease your clit , suck your fingers, be nasty....tease, tease , tease and remember lots of eye contact, hot sexy music and your good to go...


xx

Honey

 

[Act2_Begins_Now]

Slow and torture, thats what I am hearing from you WildHoney, right?

Planning on it being in public ...

 

[WildHoney]

Slow torture and hot whispers. Men dont get subtle usually, so sexy it up, be braver and more blatant than you usually are. Unleash your inner slut.

xx
Honey

 

[B_horribleperson]

just go to a strip club.
you will get in for free
you will get all the lap dances you want almost all will be free

 

[transformer_99]

Think of it as having sex with the guy as he sits in a chair with his clothes on. Even there think of the positions that are possible, if you are limber enough use various bady parts to massage his penis, that is your foot, a knee and my all time favorite, turn around facing away from me, use that hot bubble butt for all it's worth. The bouncing up and down that can be painful, but grinding and withing that booty does the job.

To be honest, if you can lap/friction dance him in those positions, why not sex and just do him in those positions ?

 

[Fire Agate]

i love lapdances. if you wear tight pants and then pop a boner in them your almost garenteed a sticky mess in them walking outta there:biggrin1:

 

[Drifterwood]

how about for really breathless?

Punch him hard in the guts :tongue:

 

[Neveragain4]

Kick him in the nuts and steal his wallet.. pretty sure he will be breathless ...

 

[DeepCurve]

It's been a few years since I've been in Vegas and gotten lap dances (hmm, maybe time for a road trip? ) but WildHoney has it right. The idea of a lap dance is to convince the guy that if there was one extra song he'd be spending it inside the dancer. And in part to see if she can get him off even with his clothes on. An ex-gf of mine who'd worked as a stripper used to say that it was a total female power trip.

The only thing I would add to WildHoney's prescription is to make sure not to do anything too fast. If you're not racing against the end of a 5-minute song, there's no reason to lose articles of clothing too quickly. Take some time to tease first, flash some nipple, show some cameltoe, and so on. Narrate how increasingly turned on you're becoming, and when he gets hard let him know his hardon is making you crazy. Don't let him sneak a lick on your tits, stuff them down his throat. It's about convincing the guy that you're absolutely crazy with lust for him. Works every time, even when it's 100% acting. :biggrin1:

 

[AlteredEgo]

just go to a strip club.
you will get in for free
you will get all the lap dances you want almost all will be free

Not where I live. I get into strip clubs for free only because I insist on being reimbursed by the males with whom I'm hanging out. I'm all for tipping the girls, but I'm completely against paying to get into a club to see what I could see in any mirror or pond.