I suppose I’m the person you’re alluding to; please, do continue; I find it rather amusing; next time, though, have the courage to speak directly to me; say it to my face; I appreciate honesty; it gives me the opportunity to respond with clarity and help you see things more accurately;
You see; I am not disturbed by what has been written; not emotionally; not personally; we live in a democratic world; and you are free to express your thoughts; your judgments; and your opinions on whomever you choose; that is your right;
However; I would invite you to reflect more deeply before expressing opinions about someone you don’t actually know; because often the person you describe exists only in your mind; and in doing so; it is not that person you expose; but your own projections and unresolved discomforts;
I believe we all carry a duality; each of us has admirable traits and imperfections; and the real task is not to hide the flaws; but to grow from them; I am working every day to strengthen my better sides; and to accept the parts of me that are still evolving; and truthfully; I see value even in my imperfections;
Perhaps your current flaw is choosing to indulge in malice; hiding behind a blog; behind a screen; because expressing what you think in person requires more integrity than you’re willing to bring forward; and that says much more about you than it ever could about me;
I did not ask for your opinion; yet you offered it freely; I respect your right to speak; but let it be known that I have never disrespected you; I have never attacked or judged you; and when I use bold words in my posts; when I challenge conventions; it is not to offend; it is to communicate with strength; conviction; and clarity.
I live by my principles; I defend my beliefs; but I do not use them to belittle anyone else; I speak strongly; but I do not speak with cruelty;
If some of my clients work in ways that disturb your personal sensitivities; that remains none of your business; I treat every human being with equal dignity; regardless of what they do; I care about who they are; not how they earn a living;
So I will kindly suggest this; raise your tone; elevate your thoughts; aim for dialogue that inspires; that moves people; that uplifts; rather than diminishes;
I am not shaken by this; I know my worth; I stand above it; whether we speak of roles or bodies; whether you project onto me terms like “top” or “bottom”; “escort” or “not”; let me assure you; I rise far above the need to explain myself to those who lack the courage to be honest with their own shadows;
And yes; I work at a gym; maybe even the one where you spend your time; the one where I am “always in the shower”; perhaps you noticed the scent of my mint body wash; I use it on my hands because I appreciate small rituals of care; not because I play the games you’re imagining;
Cruising is not my thing; I prefer meaningful connection; in private spaces; with people of value; in moments that nourish the soul; not feed the ego;
But even this is not about me; it’s about all of us; some of you may think that harsh words on social media are harmless; but let me remind you; not everyone has the strength to endure mockery; not everyone has the resilience to laugh at being targeted; and some wounds; especially those delivered through a screen; can cut more deeply than you realise;
I am not here to teach you; nor to moralize; I do not pretend to be better; I do not claim sainthood; but if I may; I would rather inspire you to look inward; than waste breath trying to correct you;
Because behind every story; behind every profile; there is a human being; with fears; with dreams; with dignity;
And that; I believe; is worth remembering.
PS:
And if my photographs do not reflect who I am; whether you think I look older; younger; bigger; or smaller; I would honestly be curious to see your own physical shape; because the path of a person; and especially the path of an athlete; which I proudly am; is built on phases; on cycles; on discipline;
There are periods of bulk; and periods of cutting; and if during a bulk someone appears less defined; less lean; that is absolutely natural; because physical development is not a fixed state; it is a living process; and those who truly understand the body know that growth requires strategy; time; and purpose;
When a person dedicates years to improving their body; to building muscle; to investing effort and knowledge into something real; I do not believe this should ever become a subject of superficial critique; it should be seen for what it is; a reflection of commitment; of intention; of long-term vision;
Each individual has the right to pursue the aesthetic that represents them; and no one should feel entitled to mock or diminish that journey;
If you truly wish to have a conversation; I invite you to meet me in the space of technical clarity; and I will share with you; respectfully and precisely; how I see your body; not with judgment; but with professional perspective;
I am deeply satisfied with the body I have; with the choices I make; with the way I think; with the way I live; and with the person I am becoming;
My confidence is not the product of arrogance; but of work; years of effort; and inner peace;
The real question is not how I look; but whether you are as at peace with yourself as I am with myself.
I wish you a good life !