@lbpersonal_trainer (Luca Barone)

But isn’t that typical for most escorts or people who make money from the gays, especially the gay for pay ones. They need the gays to pay their bills but many of them are also homophobes. It’s like a toxic cycle no one can escape including the gays. That’s sad.
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He is my guilty pleasure honestly.
He's entitled and opinionated on EVERYTHING...but ends up being a basic personal trainer with a questionable body shape. The way he filters his face close ups and he deforms his full body images are always had me hollering LOL
Few days ago he threw a rant and a tantrum about some random user accusing him of being an escort cause of his busy traveling schedule LOL
 
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He is my guilty pleasure honestly.
He's entitled and opinionated on EVERYTHING...but ends up being a basic personal trainer with a questionable body shape. The way he filters his face close ups and he deforms his full body images are always had me hollering LOL
Few days ago he threw a rant and a tantrum about some random user accusing him of being an escort cause of his busy traveling schedule LOL
I have a photo of his real body! Let me find it...
 
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I suppose I’m the person you’re alluding to; please, do continue; I find it rather amusing; next time, though, have the courage to speak directly to me; say it to my face; I appreciate honesty; it gives me the opportunity to respond with clarity and help you see things more accurately;

You see; I am not disturbed by what has been written; not emotionally; not personally; we live in a democratic world; and you are free to express your thoughts; your judgments; and your opinions on whomever you choose; that is your right;

However; I would invite you to reflect more deeply before expressing opinions about someone you don’t actually know; because often the person you describe exists only in your mind; and in doing so; it is not that person you expose; but your own projections and unresolved discomforts;

I believe we all carry a duality; each of us has admirable traits and imperfections; and the real task is not to hide the flaws; but to grow from them; I am working every day to strengthen my better sides; and to accept the parts of me that are still evolving; and truthfully; I see value even in my imperfections;

Perhaps your current flaw is choosing to indulge in malice; hiding behind a blog; behind a screen; because expressing what you think in person requires more integrity than you’re willing to bring forward; and that says much more about you than it ever could about me;

I did not ask for your opinion; yet you offered it freely; I respect your right to speak; but let it be known that I have never disrespected you; I have never attacked or judged you; and when I use bold words in my posts; when I challenge conventions; it is not to offend; it is to communicate with strength; conviction; and clarity.

I live by my principles; I defend my beliefs; but I do not use them to belittle anyone else; I speak strongly; but I do not speak with cruelty;

If some of my clients work in ways that disturb your personal sensitivities; that remains none of your business; I treat every human being with equal dignity; regardless of what they do; I care about who they are; not how they earn a living;

So I will kindly suggest this; raise your tone; elevate your thoughts; aim for dialogue that inspires; that moves people; that uplifts; rather than diminishes;

I am not shaken by this; I know my worth; I stand above it; whether we speak of roles or bodies; whether you project onto me terms like “top” or “bottom”; “escort” or “not”; let me assure you; I rise far above the need to explain myself to those who lack the courage to be honest with their own shadows;

And yes; I work at a gym; maybe even the one where you spend your time; the one where I am “always in the shower”; perhaps you noticed the scent of my mint body wash; I use it on my hands because I appreciate small rituals of care; not because I play the games you’re imagining;

Cruising is not my thing; I prefer meaningful connection; in private spaces; with people of value; in moments that nourish the soul; not feed the ego;

But even this is not about me; it’s about all of us; some of you may think that harsh words on social media are harmless; but let me remind you; not everyone has the strength to endure mockery; not everyone has the resilience to laugh at being targeted; and some wounds; especially those delivered through a screen; can cut more deeply than you realise;

I am not here to teach you; nor to moralize; I do not pretend to be better; I do not claim sainthood; but if I may; I would rather inspire you to look inward; than waste breath trying to correct you;

Because behind every story; behind every profile; there is a human being; with fears; with dreams; with dignity;
And that; I believe; is worth remembering.

PS:

And if my photographs do not reflect who I am; whether you think I look older; younger; bigger; or smaller; I would honestly be curious to see your own physical shape; because the path of a person; and especially the path of an athlete; which I proudly am; is built on phases; on cycles; on discipline;

There are periods of bulk; and periods of cutting; and if during a bulk someone appears less defined; less lean; that is absolutely natural; because physical development is not a fixed state; it is a living process; and those who truly understand the body know that growth requires strategy; time; and purpose;

When a person dedicates years to improving their body; to building muscle; to investing effort and knowledge into something real; I do not believe this should ever become a subject of superficial critique; it should be seen for what it is; a reflection of commitment; of intention; of long-term vision;

Each individual has the right to pursue the aesthetic that represents them; and no one should feel entitled to mock or diminish that journey;

If you truly wish to have a conversation; I invite you to meet me in the space of technical clarity; and I will share with you; respectfully and precisely; how I see your body; not with judgment; but with professional perspective;

I am deeply satisfied with the body I have; with the choices I make; with the way I think; with the way I live; and with the person I am becoming;

My confidence is not the product of arrogance; but of work; years of effort; and inner peace;

The real question is not how I look; but whether you are as at peace with yourself as I am with myself.

I wish you a good life !
 
I suppose I’m the person you’re alluding to; please, do continue; I find it rather amusing; next time, though, have the courage to speak directly to me; say it to my face; I appreciate honesty; it gives me the opportunity to respond with clarity and help you see things more accurately;

You see; I am not disturbed by what has been written; not emotionally; not personally; we live in a democratic world; and you are free to express your thoughts; your judgments; and your opinions on whomever you choose; that is your right;

However; I would invite you to reflect more deeply before expressing opinions about someone you don’t actually know; because often the person you describe exists only in your mind; and in doing so; it is not that person you expose; but your own projections and unresolved discomforts;

I believe we all carry a duality; each of us has admirable traits and imperfections; and the real task is not to hide the flaws; but to grow from them; I am working every day to strengthen my better sides; and to accept the parts of me that are still evolving; and truthfully; I see value even in my imperfections;

Perhaps your current flaw is choosing to indulge in malice; hiding behind a blog; behind a screen; because expressing what you think in person requires more integrity than you’re willing to bring forward; and that says much more about you than it ever could about me;

I did not ask for your opinion; yet you offered it freely; I respect your right to speak; but let it be known that I have never disrespected you; I have never attacked or judged you; and when I use bold words in my posts; when I challenge conventions; it is not to offend; it is to communicate with strength; conviction; and clarity.

I live by my principles; I defend my beliefs; but I do not use them to belittle anyone else; I speak strongly; but I do not speak with cruelty;

If some of my clients work in ways that disturb your personal sensitivities; that remains none of your business; I treat every human being with equal dignity; regardless of what they do; I care about who they are; not how they earn a living;

So I will kindly suggest this; raise your tone; elevate your thoughts; aim for dialogue that inspires; that moves people; that uplifts; rather than diminishes;

I am not shaken by this; I know my worth; I stand above it; whether we speak of roles or bodies; whether you project onto me terms like “top” or “bottom”; “escort” or “not”; let me assure you; I rise far above the need to explain myself to those who lack the courage to be honest with their own shadows;

And yes; I work at a gym; maybe even the one where you spend your time; the one where I am “always in the shower”; perhaps you noticed the scent of my mint body wash; I use it on my hands because I appreciate small rituals of care; not because I play the games you’re imagining;

Cruising is not my thing; I prefer meaningful connection; in private spaces; with people of value; in moments that nourish the soul; not feed the ego;

But even this is not about me; it’s about all of us; some of you may think that harsh words on social media are harmless; but let me remind you; not everyone has the strength to endure mockery; not everyone has the resilience to laugh at being targeted; and some wounds; especially those delivered through a screen; can cut more deeply than you realise;

I am not here to teach you; nor to moralize; I do not pretend to be better; I do not claim sainthood; but if I may; I would rather inspire you to look inward; than waste breath trying to correct you;

Because behind every story; behind every profile; there is a human being; with fears; with dreams; with dignity;
And that; I believe; is worth remembering.

PS:

And if my photographs do not reflect who I am; whether you think I look older; younger; bigger; or smaller; I would honestly be curious to see your own physical shape; because the path of a person; and especially the path of an athlete; which I proudly am; is built on phases; on cycles; on discipline;

There are periods of bulk; and periods of cutting; and if during a bulk someone appears less defined; less lean; that is absolutely natural; because physical development is not a fixed state; it is a living process; and those who truly understand the body know that growth requires strategy; time; and purpose;

When a person dedicates years to improving their body; to building muscle; to investing effort and knowledge into something real; I do not believe this should ever become a subject of superficial critique; it should be seen for what it is; a reflection of commitment; of intention; of long-term vision;

Each individual has the right to pursue the aesthetic that represents them; and no one should feel entitled to mock or diminish that journey;

If you truly wish to have a conversation; I invite you to meet me in the space of technical clarity; and I will share with you; respectfully and precisely; how I see your body; not with judgment; but with professional perspective;

I am deeply satisfied with the body I have; with the choices I make; with the way I think; with the way I live; and with the person I am becoming;

My confidence is not the product of arrogance; but of work; years of effort; and inner peace;

The real question is not how I look; but whether you are as at peace with yourself as I am with myself.

I wish you a good life !
I feel for you but don’t waste your time on people who don’t appreciate you. In this virtual world, most of us have been on either side of things and sometimes there’s just no clear explanation why. When I come across people who don’t like me, I simply move on.

Remember when people were calling Sydney Sweeney ‘ugly’? Chances are many of them didn’t look half as good themselves. I’m not here to defend anyone in particular, I just hope people don’t take online comments too seriously. In the end, they only hurt you, not the person behind the screen.
 
No Luca I don’t know you and have never seen you in real life.

I’ve only been to that awful gymbox elephant and castle once, long ago before I even knew you existed.

If you put yourself out there publicly then of course people will have opinions about you. You surly cannot be surprised especially as you give your opinion on so many issues so often and sometimes on very controversial issues, so of course people will have reactions to that.



The issues/questions people seem to have are :

1…. Your body seems so disproportionate that it’s inconceivable to many that it’s natural.

2…How can a personal trainer earn so much that he can rent an entire apartment by himself in London!!!.

3…how can he travel so frequently on that salary.

4….He must supplement his income (some have suggested escorting, wealthy family).

5…..how can he complain about the hyper sexualisation of the gay community but train porn performers !!
 
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I suppose I’m the person you’re alluding to; please, do continue; I find it rather amusing; next time, though, have the courage to speak directly to me; say it to my face; I appreciate honesty; it gives me the opportunity to respond with clarity and help you see things more accurately;

You see; I am not disturbed by what has been written; not emotionally; not personally; we live in a democratic world; and you are free to express your thoughts; your judgments; and your opinions on whomever you choose; that is your right;

However; I would invite you to reflect more deeply before expressing opinions about someone you don’t actually know; because often the person you describe exists only in your mind; and in doing so; it is not that person you expose; but your own projections and unresolved discomforts;

I believe we all carry a duality; each of us has admirable traits and imperfections; and the real task is not to hide the flaws; but to grow from them; I am working every day to strengthen my better sides; and to accept the parts of me that are still evolving; and truthfully; I see value even in my imperfections;

Perhaps your current flaw is choosing to indulge in malice; hiding behind a blog; behind a screen; because expressing what you think in person requires more integrity than you’re willing to bring forward; and that says much more about you than it ever could about me;

I did not ask for your opinion; yet you offered it freely; I respect your right to speak; but let it be known that I have never disrespected you; I have never attacked or judged you; and when I use bold words in my posts; when I challenge conventions; it is not to offend; it is to communicate with strength; conviction; and clarity.

I live by my principles; I defend my beliefs; but I do not use them to belittle anyone else; I speak strongly; but I do not speak with cruelty;

If some of my clients work in ways that disturb your personal sensitivities; that remains none of your business; I treat every human being with equal dignity; regardless of what they do; I care about who they are; not how they earn a living;

So I will kindly suggest this; raise your tone; elevate your thoughts; aim for dialogue that inspires; that moves people; that uplifts; rather than diminishes;

I am not shaken by this; I know my worth; I stand above it; whether we speak of roles or bodies; whether you project onto me terms like “top” or “bottom”; “escort” or “not”; let me assure you; I rise far above the need to explain myself to those who lack the courage to be honest with their own shadows;

And yes; I work at a gym; maybe even the one where you spend your time; the one where I am “always in the shower”; perhaps you noticed the scent of my mint body wash; I use it on my hands because I appreciate small rituals of care; not because I play the games you’re imagining;

Cruising is not my thing; I prefer meaningful connection; in private spaces; with people of value; in moments that nourish the soul; not feed the ego;

But even this is not about me; it’s about all of us; some of you may think that harsh words on social media are harmless; but let me remind you; not everyone has the strength to endure mockery; not everyone has the resilience to laugh at being targeted; and some wounds; especially those delivered through a screen; can cut more deeply than you realise;

I am not here to teach you; nor to moralize; I do not pretend to be better; I do not claim sainthood; but if I may; I would rather inspire you to look inward; than waste breath trying to correct you;

Because behind every story; behind every profile; there is a human being; with fears; with dreams; with dignity;
And that; I believe; is worth remembering.

PS:

And if my photographs do not reflect who I am; whether you think I look older; younger; bigger; or smaller; I would honestly be curious to see your own physical shape; because the path of a person; and especially the path of an athlete; which I proudly am; is built on phases; on cycles; on discipline;

There are periods of bulk; and periods of cutting; and if during a bulk someone appears less defined; less lean; that is absolutely natural; because physical development is not a fixed state; it is a living process; and those who truly understand the body know that growth requires strategy; time; and purpose;

When a person dedicates years to improving their body; to building muscle; to investing effort and knowledge into something real; I do not believe this should ever become a subject of superficial critique; it should be seen for what it is; a reflection of commitment; of intention; of long-term vision;

Each individual has the right to pursue the aesthetic that represents them; and no one should feel entitled to mock or diminish that journey;

If you truly wish to have a conversation; I invite you to meet me in the space of technical clarity; and I will share with you; respectfully and precisely; how I see your body; not with judgment; but with professional perspective;

I am deeply satisfied with the body I have; with the choices I make; with the way I think; with the way I live; and with the person I am becoming;

My confidence is not the product of arrogance; but of work; years of effort; and inner peace;

The real question is not how I look; but whether you are as at peace with yourself as I am with myself.

I wish you a good life !

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No Luca I don’t know you and have never seen you in real life.

I’ve only been to that awful gymbox elephant and castle once, long ago before I even knew you existed.

If you put yourself out there publicly then of course people will have opinions about you. You surly cannot be surprised especially as you give your opinion on so many issues so often and sometimes on very controversial issues, so of course people will have reactions to that.



The issues/questions people seem to have are :

1…. Your body seems so disproportionate that it’s inconceivable to many that it’s natural.

2…How can a personal trainer earn so much that he can rent an entire apartment by himself in London!!!.

3…how can he travel so frequently on that salary.

4….He must supplement his income (some have suggested escorting, wealthy family).

5…..how can he complain about the hyper sexualisation of the gay community but train porn performers !!