Licked a man's ass for the first time and enjoyed myself.

Do you eat ass?


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I know this is under " Women's Issues" and wanted to relay my wife's feelings on it:
You have to be with someone you really trust (no diseases), someone you have strong feelings for and someone who is sqeeky clean. We've been married four decades so the trust and strong feelings are there, cleanliness is my first priority before any sex we've ever had.
She says she likes it okay when I rim her but prefers I eat her pussy first. A hard dick in her pussy and a vibrator is much better. She'll rim me on occasion when she feels it would enhance my sexual pleasure. We don't rim each other everytime we have sex but when we do it's nice.
 
K, you have a few things going on here that you are going to need to sort out and well, because there is a third party here.

1. Asses, Vaginas and Penises are not dirty innately, they will not make you sick, you cannot contract diseases from them. Genitals don't have to be disinfected for sex and in fact this may elevate risk in some cases.

2. The concept of trust is key. However, having trust is not "no diseases" I have to really hammer this point home because this is the #1 mistake people make that leads to STI infection. Trust in a relationship you have built over decades is established. You will not be able to make that standard in any other hookup and you cannot hold yourself to it, it is deceptive at best and destructive at worst. Regular testing is the only way to know what your status is, and status (unless you are on one of several studies) is indeterminate.The term "negative" is used but that value is only as good as your last test, which usually has sex after it so it is invalid.

The only way to be sure that you have little to no risk is to not do certain things. Analingus is not high risk in men or women if there has been no fucking or fisting or fingering. Clean the bum well if you need it, but don't go overboard.

It also seems to me that you slipped your riming in there when she wasn't present and are feeling "dirty" as a result. This is the worst place to be as you are now losing the pleasure of the acts and just getting drama from shame and guilt and love for your wife. Cleanliness before sex shouldn't be your first priority. You can only wash the smell of another person off your body, you cannot wash sins or guilt. The idea that washing will fix the body is an old one and it is misleading. If your concern is her health and the health of your relationship, the most important thing is honesty, both to yourself and to her.
 
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K, you have a few things going on here that you are going to need to sort out and well, because there is a third party here.

1. Asses, Vaginas and Penises are not dirty innately, they will not make you sick, you cannot contract diseases from them. Genitals don't have to be disinfected for sex and in fact this may elevate risk in some cases.

2. The concept of trust is key. However, having trust is not "no diseases" I have to really hammer this point home because this is the #1 mistake people make that leads to STI infection. Trust in a relationship you have built over decades is established. You will not be able to make that standard in any other hookup and you cannot hold yourself to it, it is deceptive at best and destructive at worst. Regular testing is the only way to know what your status is, and status (unless you are on one of several studies) is indeterminate.The term "negative" is used but that value is only as good as your last test, which usually has sex after it so it is invalid.

The only way to be sure that you have little to no risk is to not do certain things. Analingus is not high risk in men or women if there has been no fucking or fisting or fingering. Clean the bum well if you need it, but don't go overboard.

It also seems to me that you slipped your riming in there when she wasn't present and are feeling "dirty" as a result. This is the worst place to be as you are now losing the pleasure of the acts and just getting drama from shame and guilt and love for your wife. Cleanliness before sex shouldn't be your first priority. You can only wash the smell of another person off your body, you cannot wash sins or guilt. The idea that washing will fix the body is an old one and it is misleading. If your concern is her health and the health of your relationship, the most important thing is honesty, both to yourself and to her.

I didn't realize this was a test and we were being graded graded on my wife's opinion. Don't remember asking for a critique or answer on my post.

Sorry it affected you so negatively.

I asked a Urologist friend if diseases could be transferred vaginally, orally or anally? He raised his eyebrow and said, "Absolutely." "Why?" And I told him of your comment. He was astonished as was I.

Stay uninformed, stay in the dark.
 
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I didn't realize this was a test and we were being graded graded on my wife's opinion. Don't remember asking for a critique or answer on my post.

Sorry it affected you so negatively.

I asked a Urologist friend if diseases could be transferred vaginally, orally or anally? He raised his eyebrow and said, "Absolutely." "Why?" And I told him of your comment. He was astonished as was I.

Stay uninformed, stay in the dark.
Please don't take THAT post seriously, sounds like some chain pulling is going on here....your reaction makes their day brighter....they live among us...-:)))
 
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