Looking 4 First Bi Experience

[Malik-the-freak]

I have lived as a straight male for all of my 54 years of life, but I have fantasized about being with another man for the better part of the last 20 years. For most of those 20 years I told myself I would leave my fantasies in my imagination and never actually go through with any of them. But the older I get, the more I want to make my fantasy a reality. I tell myself I don't want to leave this world without trying sex with a man at least once. I may like it or I may not, but I'm at a point in my life where I'm ready to make it happen.

The difficulty I'm running into when looking for ways to make my fantasy a reality is my need for safety and discretion. I need safety, of course, to avoid STI's (especially the 3-letter ones) but I also need discretion because I never want any of my family and friends to find out.

For any of you that lived straight and finally took the plunge, how did you make your first time happen? Was it what you thought it would be? Better? Worse? Any advice you can offer would be appreciated.

 

[bijockfl]

Congrats to you for deciding you want to take the plunge. My first question to you; do you just want to try it and then "cross it off your bucket list"?

 

[Malik-the-freak]

Congrats to you for deciding you want to take the plunge. My first question to you; do you just want to try it and then "cross it off your bucket list"?

Not necessarily a bucket list item but something I needed to muster the courage to say to hell with it and do what I've been wanting to do for so long. Truthfully, I have no idea if I'll even enjoy the experience, or whether or not reality can measure up to my fantasy, but I'm ready to find out.

 

[theplayerking]

Not necessarily a bucket list item but something I needed to muster the courage to say to hell with it and do what I've been wanting to do for so long. Truthfully, I have no idea if I'll even enjoy the experience, or whether or not reality can measure up to my fantasy, but I'm ready to find out.

I think the question is: What have you been wanting to do? Jack off with guy? Get sucked off? Or go all the way and fuck and get fucked?

 

[Malik-the-freak]

I think the question is: What have you been wanting to do? Jack off with guy? Get sucked off? Or go all the way and fuck and get fucked?

Ok, gotcha. I'm hoping to start off slow with me jacking off a guy and working my way to giving a blowjob and eventually me getting fucked by him.

 

[elklindoxxx]

Ok, gotcha. I'm hoping to start off slow with me jacking off a guy and working my way to giving a blowjob and eventually me getting fucked by him.

I've been going to my bate club and others for a number of years. And I've been saying on this board for the longest time...to find a bate club in your area. When you finally get the courage to go, attend a session to see how you like it. They are always looking for willing 'members' in the literal and figurative sense.

I'm telling you at these places there are plenty of men who are fucking looking to get their 'work' in.

You will find no shortage of men who will want to be jacked, blown and top another man, myself included.

 

[super-pidor]

I have lived as a straight male for all of my 54 years of life, but I have fantasized about being with another man for the better part of the last 20 years. For most of those 20 years I told myself I would leave my fantasies in my imagination and never actually go through with any of them. But the older I get, the more I want to make my fantasy a reality. I tell myself I don't want to leave this world without trying sex with a man at least once. I may like it or I may not, but I'm at a point in my life where I'm ready to make it happen.

The difficulty I'm running into when looking for ways to make my fantasy a reality is my need for safety and discretion. I need safety, of course, to avoid STI's (especially the 3-letter ones) but I also need discretion because I never want any of my family and friends to find out.

For any of you that lived straight and finally took the plunge, how did you make your first time happen? Was it what you thought it would be? Better? Worse? Any advice you can offer would be appreciated.

you are 54 years old, no gay needs you anymore))))

 

[daftman]

Super pidor, poor guy….no clue whatsoever

 

[TheInvisibleMan]

I have lived as a straight male for all of my 54 years of life, but I have fantasized about being with another man for the better part of the last 20 years. For most of those 20 years I told myself I would leave my fantasies in my imagination and never actually go through with any of them. But the older I get, the more I want to make my fantasy a reality. I tell myself I don't want to leave this world without trying sex with a man at least once. I may like it or I may not, but I'm at a point in my life where I'm ready to make it happen.

The difficulty I'm running into when looking for ways to make my fantasy a reality is my need for safety and discretion. I need safety, of course, to avoid STI's (especially the 3-letter ones) but I also need discretion because I never want any of my family and friends to find out.

For any of you that lived straight and finally took the plunge, how did you make your first time happen? Was it what you thought it would be? Better? Worse? Any advice you can offer would be appreciated.

If it makes you feel any better, I’m in the reciprocal situation - in my 50’s and realizing im attracted to women as well as men (have been in a relationship with a man for 7 years). Wish I’d started sooner!

 

[kev89]

I've been going to my bate club and others for a number of years. And I've been saying on this board for the longest time...to find a bate club in your area. When you finally get the courage to go, attend a session to see how you like it. They are always looking for willing 'members' in the literal and figurative sense.

I'm telling you at these places there are plenty of men who are fucking looking to get their 'work' in.

You will find no shortage of men who will want to be jacked, blown and top another man, myself included.

Do you go to NY Jacks?

 

[dickthrobbing]

The difficulty I'm running into when looking for ways to make my fantasy a reality is my need for safety and discretion. I need safety, of course, to avoid STI's (especially the 3-letter ones) but I also need discretion because I never want any of my family and friends to find out.

For any of you that lived straight and finally took the plunge, how did you make your first time happen? Was it what you thought it would be? Better? Worse? Any advice you can offer would be appreciated.

The first always insist on a condom ask if they are clear (not 100% grantee though), s

Be prepared for a possible guilt trip after your first time sex with another guy, butt don't let that put you off; sex with another guy is really hot and you will want more