Before someone here goes crazy in fury.... I actually DID use the search function.... and besides, I hardly ever write a thread so, please :wink: I was told that water based lubricants are the best when it comes to sex with a condom, since apparently the other ones might "render the effect of the condom useless". So as first I'd like to know if that's true... Second, I was wondering what'd be the best when not using a condom... Third... where do you get lube... some people speak of getting them at a local chemist's, other say about online shops.... is the deal that big? And last.... is Vaseline really not a lube at all? When I came to this website people said vaseline could be used as it, but now I hear some people say it can't so could some tell me how it looks in reality? Thanks for your time and effort.