Lube

[lovenuts50]

for those who use it, which brand would you recommend? i have a difficult time bringing the topic up. would you be offended if your lover told you that you needed it? thanks

 

[693987]

I like Maximus water based, and the water based brand Gun Oil is pretty good too.

..I wouldn't be offended, but I would be able to tell if I needed lube too, at least for myself. Only has really happened during extended fucking while I was on menses, or during ass play.

 

[AlteredEgo]

I like Lelo personal moisturizer. I know and I'm dry. Bringing up lube is offensive.

 

[sweetlucky12]

Probably depends on how you bring it up as to how offensive it is. My favorite is probably Wet Synergy. We actually like the Target Up and Up brand. It's cheap and easy to find.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Just buy some and lube up your cock before entering her. Chances are it's uncomfortable for her too. Maybe she's not bringing it up for the fear of offending you. I've always needed l lube no matter how turned on I am. But many guys read it as "I'm not doing a good job turning her on" when that is not always the case.

When I was exploring sex with others I just brought my own and made no apologies for it. Although one asshole tried to make be feel like I was inadequate for even needing it (even after I told him I had a hysterectomy).