Hahahaha! I don’t watch his videos anymore, too depressing. So this blog has been like a highlight reel to keep up with what’s going on. Mark if you’re reading this, get a job outside that apartment man, the smell of your own smug is driving you insane!
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I think haphazardly co-opting female traits, as seen in this pic, makes gay men look like literal clowns and is super unattractive.
If you like guys... be a guy.
wearing nailpolish is a female trait?
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Plenty of straight guys these days even wear nail polish. Chill. Lol.
Mark is straight presenting so he wants to signal to others in the Midwest he is gay. This way he can be approached by gay guys or straight ppl who like gays.
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Interesting idea, which hanky would it be and which pocket?
IDK but someone who knows these ancient protocols should enlighten us so we can bring them back.
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This chart pretty much has it all, my best get white velvet, left pocket.
https://gaydesertguide.com/do-you-know-the-hanky-code/
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It’s better than Mark’s fingernail polish, in my opinion.
i think the hanky is still somewhat used in bdsm. like, if you see dudes in leather at pride and they have different color hankies, chances are they're using the hanky code.
it's a good visual representation when you're out and about, but then it requires others to know wtf every color means and which pocket it is. also, there's different sources on what the colors might mean. so in one decoder white means vanilla, on another it means masturbation only(as in, bate buddies).
for an in person signifier, if you live in a less progressive area, painting your nails is a good choice. but if you live somewhere that's super lgbt friendly and the lines between what gay and straight people style themselves are paper thin, not so much. you'll find straight dudes with painted nails just because they like it. in the midwest tho, it's a good way to let everyone know you like the cock.
when it comes to online signifiers, most people just use emojis. like they'll have the up arrow to say they're a top, the eggplant or horse to say they're hung, water droplets if they're into piss, poo emoji for scat, diamond if they're into pnp, dog if they're into pupplay, devil if they're super kinky, etc.
i think for mark, who spent a long time trying to be as straight passing as possible, wearing nail polish is a big step. i think he realized he was somewhat alienating himself from connections in the community by trying to be as straight passing as possible, and now that he's trying to find a community in a place where it's lacking it, he finds himself trying to use aspects that are deemed more feminine, such as painting your nails, so he can be seen as queer and be able to be identified by other members of the community.
solely based on what we see, he seems to spend most of his time by himself, with his dog, visiting his parents, or with donny. he might be lacking in friends and might be having a harder time to make queer friends than when he was living in l.a. so he might be trying to push himself to be less straight passing in hopes to find some friends
it's a good visual representation when you're out and about, but then it requires others to know wtf every color means and which pocket it is. also, there's different sources on what the colors might mean. so in one decoder white means vanilla, on another it means masturbation only(as in, bate buddies).
for an in person signifier, if you live in a less progressive area, painting your nails is a good choice. but if you live somewhere that's super lgbt friendly and the lines between what gay and straight people style themselves are paper thin, not so much. you'll find straight dudes with painted nails just because they like it. in the midwest tho, it's a good way to let everyone know you like the cock.
when it comes to online signifiers, most people just use emojis. like they'll have the up arrow to say they're a top, the eggplant or horse to say they're hung, water droplets if they're into piss, poo emoji for scat, diamond if they're into pnp, dog if they're into pupplay, devil if they're super kinky, etc.
i think for mark, who spent a long time trying to be as straight passing as possible, wearing nail polish is a big step. i think he realized he was somewhat alienating himself from connections in the community by trying to be as straight passing as possible, and now that he's trying to find a community in a place where it's lacking it, he finds himself trying to use aspects that are deemed more feminine, such as painting your nails, so he can be seen as queer and be able to be identified by other members of the community.
solely based on what we see, he seems to spend most of his time by himself, with his dog, visiting his parents, or with donny. he might be lacking in friends and might be having a harder time to make queer friends than when he was living in l.a. so he might be trying to push himself to be less straight passing in hopes to find some friends
texting codes is interesting
I have this straight guy friend who uses
emoji and says sus things, only to find out he has girlfriend lol
It sucks though when in straight places it’s hard to tell and signals could be mixed.
I have a crush on this guy and I have no clue if he is straight or gay.
I have this straight guy friend who uses
emoji and says sus things, only to find out he has girlfriend lolIt sucks though when in straight places it’s hard to tell and signals could be mixed.
I have a crush on this guy and I have no clue if he is straight or gay.
It’s 2022. Everyone is gay.texting codes is interesting
I have this straight guy friend who uses
It sucks though when in straight places it’s hard to tell and signals could be mixed.
I have a crush on this guy and I have no clue if he is straight or gay.
Fuck I wish that was the case. My recent crushes have all turned out to be straight
