Massage

[Growing123]

I went to a straight man for a massage. He has young children and a wife. He tried to find a male to do his male clients as he only massaged women but eventually he started to massage men himself.
When I went last I was given a happy ending but it seemed more a matter of course than an indulgence on his part.
I got dressed. We politely said goodbye and transaction concluded.

I cannot fathom what was going through his mind. Was he just helping out as he knew I needed relief and he wanted a client or did he enjoy offering that service. Since then I got a message offering a massage with extras such as him being naked whilst massaging and with touching but no groping for an extra $30.

I am of the mind that a straight man can emotionally detach and perform such an act as part of his role and responsibility. But do you think he might be enjoying it in some way?

 

[liquiss]

No part of his role or reponsiblity includes happy endings or being naked while massaging you. Based on the details you’ve shared, I would argue that he’s either had a sexual awakening and is open to experimenting with new things, or has always been bisexual and not forthcoming about it (or closeted gay and hiding it from society).

Either way, I wouldn’t have done or offered any of those things as a straight man. That’s not to say that I speak for all straight men, but I don’t see that he’s so invested in his career that he’s jerking guys off without any attractiction or emotional attachment.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

That's a hot mess.

 

[marriedasian]

No part of his role or reponsiblity includes happy endings or being naked while massaging you. Based on the details you’ve shared, I would argue that he’s either had a sexual awakening and is open to experimenting with new things, or has always been bisexual and not forthcoming about it (or closeted gay and hiding it from society).

Either way, I wouldn’t have done or offered any of those things as a straight man. That’s not to say that I speak for all straight men, but I don’t see that he’s so invested in his career that he’s jerking guys off without any attractiction or emotional attachment.

this...

 

[purepilot73]

I went to a straight man for a massage. He has young children and a wife. He tried to find a male to do his male clients as he only massaged women but eventually he started to massage men himself.
When I went last I was given a happy ending but it seemed more a matter of course than an indulgence on his part.
I got dressed. We politely said goodbye and transaction concluded.

I cannot fathom what was going through his mind. Was he just helping out as he knew I needed relief and he wanted a client or did he enjoy offering that service. Since then I got a message offering a massage with extras such as him being naked whilst massaging and with touching but no groping for an extra $30.

I am of the mind that a straight man can emotionally detach and perform such an act as part of his role and responsibility. But do you think he might be enjoying it in some way?

Pay the extra $30, lay back and enjoy it without trying to put a label on it. Keep your expectations in check but he clearly is open to more so why not enjoy the hell out of it?

 

[goander]

Agreed. Just roll with it.