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Hi. I'm not sure is a good place, but I would risk. This is for Men, I have to ask you. NO one ever talked to me about these topics, and perhaps that's why I was shocked at the age of 30 to learn that masturbation is physically more pleasurable for men than vaginal sex. Probably for women too. I used to not understand it, I thought that sex, just entering the vagina would be more pleasant for a man physically. I assumed wrongly, and later, when it turned out to be definitely not the case, I was very broken. I used to not understand why my partner had a problem cumming in me, why it's easier for you to cum with our/your hand. It doesn't matter if it's our hand or yours. Today I know, its just tighter, sharper, stronger, just better. I used to think that texture, moisture, softness mattered, but that's not true, it's all about friction, just to rub against something solidly. It's not the material that counts (a hand with hydration is enough), what matters is what we do, where we press. This is missing in the vagina, it does not give pressure, friction, it is not so tight, she not fits perfectly like a hand. Two hands will give you more sensations than a
vagina..
For now i'm trying to accept this fact, its hard to want sex with this knowledge. There is no point in giving a man something worse, less pleasant. I think so. I understand that you want different flavors, but still, it's sad.
Now when just know is less pleasant but im asking you how different the feeling are?
how much does the feeling differ? how other sensations do they evoke?
Please don't say it's bullshit. With hand you can cum in a minute, and in the vagina you can last a long time, because there are no such sensations. You masturbate even though you have sex and an accessible vagina. Anyway, you probably have a hj from your partner more than once, and here's my question, why don't you stay with hands? why don't you tell us directly, do it with your hand, hands, it's nicer, more sensations, intense, you can focus more intensely on head, why are you having sex? for intimacy? Because that's how you're programmed? what is all this for?
I will never understand how it could turn out that the vagina is the worst, the least stimulating for the penis, unfortunately, in life it is always against the grain. We bad assume to vaginal sex is wonderful and a man will feel something amazing there. Masturbating turned out to be physically better. And probably if it wasn't for the proximity of contact with another person, no one would be looking for sex. Please tell me what feelings the vagina does not give you, which you have with hand. Please do not write sex is better emotionally. Be purely technical. I see your threads about masturbation, you don't prefer sex, it's the hand that accompanies you all your life, not the vagina. When there is no love, a hand is enough. So please be honest with me. I couldn't find a similar topic, only some stupid ones.
So, why pussy failed?
vagina..
For now i'm trying to accept this fact, its hard to want sex with this knowledge. There is no point in giving a man something worse, less pleasant. I think so. I understand that you want different flavors, but still, it's sad.
Now when just know is less pleasant but im asking you how different the feeling are?
how much does the feeling differ? how other sensations do they evoke?
Please don't say it's bullshit. With hand you can cum in a minute, and in the vagina you can last a long time, because there are no such sensations. You masturbate even though you have sex and an accessible vagina. Anyway, you probably have a hj from your partner more than once, and here's my question, why don't you stay with hands? why don't you tell us directly, do it with your hand, hands, it's nicer, more sensations, intense, you can focus more intensely on head, why are you having sex? for intimacy? Because that's how you're programmed? what is all this for?
I will never understand how it could turn out that the vagina is the worst, the least stimulating for the penis, unfortunately, in life it is always against the grain. We bad assume to vaginal sex is wonderful and a man will feel something amazing there. Masturbating turned out to be physically better. And probably if it wasn't for the proximity of contact with another person, no one would be looking for sex. Please tell me what feelings the vagina does not give you, which you have with hand. Please do not write sex is better emotionally. Be purely technical. I see your threads about masturbation, you don't prefer sex, it's the hand that accompanies you all your life, not the vagina. When there is no love, a hand is enough. So please be honest with me. I couldn't find a similar topic, only some stupid ones.
So, why pussy failed?