You could have spent that 3K on multiple guys who escort instead of throwing your money at these OF guys…To be fair, I recently spent $3k on gifts for a guy (who has a thread on here btw) hoping he would eventually fuck me. Now we don’t even talk.
Sometimes you get caught up in the illusion. But I agree, hard lesson learned. R—tmen is the way to go. Or at least finding people with little to no ego. A lot of these beautiful insta/OF gays are hustlers and I can’t even fault the player. It’s all a part of the game.