Matteo Berrettini

he's just straight

It will be nice when we stop giving identities to folks, especially people we don’t know. At the end of the day, all we have are what people present and what we can guess/speculate. Beyond that, we don’t know the dimensions of folks’ sexuality, sexual journey, lifestyle, where they are in the gender, sexual, affection, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum. It’s always best to say something “appears” whatever or that they embrace whatever identity than to flat-out hand folks identities.
 
It will be nice when we stop giving identities to folks, especially people we don’t know. At the end of the day, all we have are what people present and what we can guess/speculate. Beyond that, we don’t know the dimensions of folks’ sexuality, sexual journey, lifestyle, where they are in the gender, sexual, affection, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum. It’s always best to say something “appears” whatever or that they embrace whatever identity than to flat-out hand folks identities.
ok so he identifies as straight I guess
 
ok so he identifies as straight I guess

I don’t recall him ever presenting an identity in general. We are queer and we’re in 2023. We should know better. Just say someone seems “straight” or there’s no indication of queerness. If someone doesn’t present an identity, simply don’t give them one. And that includes saying dudes who seem to the public to only date men or who seem stereotypically queer are “gay”.
 
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I don’t recall him ever presenting an identity in general. We are queer and we’re in 2023. We should know better. Just say someone seems “straight” or there’s no indication of queerness. If someone doesn’t present an identity, simply don’t give them one. And that includes saying dudes who seem to the public to only date men or who seem stereotypically queer are “gay”.
so are we all queer in 2023? In what sense? I think he's straight. However, you are right about your point