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hi, i just joined MEETUP to meet more women, maybe size queens, i dunno, more alternative, open minded women... but i noticed despite the promise of these events and group labels like for example, "TANTRA SEXUAL PROSTATE MASSAGE GROUP" only 3 people were attending. and they were all dudes.

Has anyone had any luck meeting women or events on MEETUP? Any groups you recommend?

thanks!
 

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I found the same w MEETUP bro. More for men into men it seems. Btw, one damned impressive schlong there buddy. Bet that thing does some damage bro. Also, its tough to find women who truly know the art of tantric prostate massage, a shame, but that has been my experience. Peace
 

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thank you for the compliment.

yes, i'm glad i'm not alone. i wonder if i'd have more success meeting girls to hook up with if i went on a "Hiking Meetup" or "Farmers Market Meetup."

the sexual arts ones, just have creepy old guys RSVP'ing. No beautiful women.

I'll keep looking. Thank you for your feedback.


I found the same w MEETUP bro. More for men into men it seems. Btw, one damned impressive schlong there buddy. Bet that thing does some damage bro. Also, its tough to find women who truly know the art of tantric prostate massage, a shame, but that has been my experience. Peace
 

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hi, i just joined MEETUP to meet more women, maybe size queens, i dunno, more alternative, open minded women... but i noticed despite the promise of these events and group labels like for example, "TANTRA SEXUAL PROSTATE MASSAGE GROUP" only 3 people were attending. and they were all dudes.

Has anyone had any luck meeting women or events on MEETUP? Any groups you recommend?

thanks!

True tantra followers and practitioners won't use social sites like 'meetup' to get together. If it's tantra that you are interested I suggest looking into joining classes. Do a google search. I take tantra classes in London but can't help you out where you're from. I'm sure you'll find something.

The kind of 'tantra sexual prostate massage' you'll find elsewhere will be the kind you pay for. True tantra is a spiritual experience. You don't meet someone for a tantra quickie. It's much deeper than that.

Perhaps you need to decide that you are really looking for. Size queens, alternative and open minded ladies won't necessarily overlap in their personality traits. And you might not find the right person on the internet.

Have you tried the personals section in this forum?

I don't know you at all but I've been reading your posts and I hope you don't mind me saying that you come across as quite erratic in your wants and needs. Large breasts. Not BBW. Slim. etc etc. Maybe you're making demands that you won't be able to satisfy.

Focus on one thing, one quality and see how it goes. Like I said, if it's tantra you're interested in then learn more about it. Read books. Go to a tantra class. Do an online course. You'll eventually meet likeminded people. It's certainly not a way of getting a quick hook up.

For size queens; well I think you're in the right place. As for the rest I'm afraid I can't help you.

Hope you find what you're looking for
 

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sure. but as you may well be aware of, even in the realm of tantra, there are lots of different modalities, teachers and philosophies, much like martial arts or any other endeavor, there are lots of different approaches.

i was worried that people were going to focus on the "Prostate massage" and miss the point, as it seems to be, my point with that was just offering a specific and an arbitrary example as to what's out there. it's not the goal or the focus.

as i say above, i'm just curious with people's experiences with Meetup. Being that this is the LPSG message board, implicit in that, is that it would be of some kind of sexual nature, not just "rock climbing or wind surfing."

and finally, yes, i'm a man with specific interests, preferences and attractions. I didn't realize that was such an oddity. When you post on these boards, as often the case, it goes misunderstood and the true intention of the question is never resolved or answered, it merely just becomes a tangled, snarling string for people to air their personal grievances and offenses.

As stated above, i'm just throwing a friendly line out there about people's experiences if any with Meetup as a form of meeting like-minded people, since I just joined. Whether they be good, bad, etc. Hopefully without any detours of politicizing.



True tantra followers and practitioners won't use social sites like 'meetup' to get together. If it's tantra that you are interested I suggest looking into joining classes. Do a google search. I take tantra classes in London but can't help you out where you're from. I'm sure you'll find something.

The kind of 'tantra sexual prostate massage' you'll find elsewhere will be the kind you pay for. True tantra is a spiritual experience. You don't meet someone for a tantra quickie. It's much deeper than that.

Perhaps you need to decide that you are really looking for. Size queens, alternative and open minded ladies won't necessarily overlap in their personality traits. And you might not find the right person on the internet.

Have you tried the personals section in this forum?

I don't know you at all but I've been reading your posts and I hope you don't mind me saying that you come across as quite erratic in your wants and needs. Large breasts. Not BBW. Slim. etc etc. Maybe you're making demands that you won't be able to satisfy.

Focus on one thing, one quality and see how it goes. Like I said, if it's tantra you're interested in then learn more about it. Read books. Go to a tantra class. Do an online course. You'll eventually meet likeminded people. It's certainly not a way of getting a quick hook up.

For size queens; well I think you're in the right place. As for the rest I'm afraid I can't help you.

Hope you find what you're looking for
 
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I am in some Meetup.com groups locally. I would not in a million years think of there being any kind of sexual/erotic meetup group because Meetup.com is not an adult/sex site. I am in soccer watching, wine lovers, alternative movies/foreign film groups, to name a few. You are barking up the wrong tree, except for having a the chance to meet everyday, vanilla women, who are at the meetups to enjoy activities related to their own interests. That said---every meetup group I have been to in my own town is FULL of women, normally the ration is like 80% women to 20% men, with the exception being sports related groups.

May I make a suggestion? Fetlife has a Tantric Sex group. I am a member in that group, among other groups. I have learned a lot by reading the threads in their forum and continue to use FL primarily as an educational tool. However, there are several groups that have "classifieds" sections where you can advertise for whatever you are seeking--including sex and/or hooking up. It is a free site but you cannot see the videos unless you "donate" to the site. One of my favorite groups on FL that I am a member of is "Women who love Cock" and many members of that group happen to also be LPSG members as well. I am also in Big White Cock, and other groups that are hung-cock related, haha. I am also in some of the Cougar groups, since I prefer younger, hung studs.

FL is a site full of very open, experimental and often kinky people. Like the title says, many with specific fetishes or sexual interests. Of course, it is also the primary BDSM site that I know of in the US. But not everyone on there is into BDSM---there is a little something there for everyone. Want to have an ANR with someone (Adult Nursing Relationship), find someone to spank you, piss on you, dominate you, worship you, lick your feet, stomp on your dick, become your domestic servant, dress you up in lingerie, rim your ass, tie you up, put you into chastity, fuck your gf/wife, suck on your toes, eat your cum, whatever.....you will find a group there catering to your kink. I just joined the Cream Pie Eaters group a few days ago---because I have never had that done to me and I want to learn more about it. I want to read about it, fantasize about it and get turned on by it. FL has a little bit of everything. Good luck.
 
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sure. but as you may well be aware of, even in the realm of tantra, there are lots of different modalities, teachers and philosophies, much like martial arts or any other endeavor, there are lots of different approaches.

i was worried that people were going to focus on the "Prostate massage" and miss the point, as it seems to be, my point with that was just offering a specific and an arbitrary example as to what's out there. it's not the goal or the focus.

as i say above, i'm just curious with people's experiences with Meetup. Being that this is the LPSG message board, implicit in that, is that it would be of some kind of sexual nature, not just "rock climbing or wind surfing."

and finally, yes, i'm a man with specific interests, preferences and attractions. I didn't realize that was such an oddity. When you post on these boards, as often the case, it goes misunderstood and the true intention of the question is never resolved or answered, it merely just becomes a tangled, snarling string for people to air their personal grievances and offenses.

As stated above, i'm just throwing a friendly line out there about people's experiences if any with Meetup as a form of meeting like-minded people, since I just joined. Whether they be good, bad, etc. Hopefully without any detours of politicizing.

I give up.
 

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Actually my comments were not towards the OP or the video..it was this comment

"Btw, one damned impressive schlong there buddy. Bet that thing does some damage bro"

Personally I find your comments remarkably astute and unfortunate that they have gone entirely unanswered.
 

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I've met women via meetup. I didn't meet them for sexual reasons or via a sexuality related group, but a completely unrelated group. My guess is that you need to join groups that women join and attend events. Be actually interested in the topic at hand, as that's the point of the meetup. If you hit it off with someone, that's a bonus.