Missing A Grindr Ons Guy

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Is this normal?

I just got fucked really good.
He was such a good top. Gentle, gentleman, well groomed, smelled good. Started easy. Eased me into it with patience and care. Quite good looking. He came really hard. I almost came twice hands free which never happens. But I didn't come completely. He left, after a few words, a shower and a glass of water. It was a good quick fuck. And now I miss him? like I fell in love a little... a barely know the guy.

Am I just being desperate, or what?
 

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Sounds like he was charming and made you feel good and that rapidly induced some intense affections. That's different from what people usually mean by love, though. But you should come to terms with what the encounter really was. One-offs are designed to be just that, one time and done, no continuing interaction, and the odds of this guy being interested in remaining in touch are very low. It's probably best you just accept that and move on. If you do reach out to him, try to keep what you're doing in perspective: it would just be a shot in the dark, and it would be risky (emotionally) to get your hopes up about it.
 
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It feels intense now but it’s just the great sex, it effects you. You’ll remember it fondly but the feelings you have now will fade quickly. You had a great night with a guy, but understand that it’s a one off. Remember it fondly and move on.
 
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He couldn't even make you cum and it sounds like you didn't cum at all, not even on your own. I wouldn't have been impressed overall.