While I'm absolutely not ashamed of what I've been given, I also want to have full control over who I give a thrill to. I'm not what I'd call "gay"--the 1% gay that I noted in my profile is a referent to the fact that I can appreciate the sight of a large cock (especially in straight porn)--so if I would dress so that you could see my soft dick riding down my inner thigh, I wouldn't like to think that I was giving some strange guy a thrill. Actually, the same would go for a strange woman. Now, if I had sexual feelings for someone, and I thought showing off my endowment would be an effective tactic to move things further in that area, I'd have no problem wearing tight jeans and going comando, as I was fond of doing in my (rather slutty) late teens. I remember once asking a girlfriend of mine to go out wearing a skirt sans underwear and she responded "when I'm with you, you can have me any way you want, but when I'm out in front of other people, I don't want them to see my private parts." Now, many years later, I know exactly how she felt. I want to be a sex object to just those who I want to be one for, and nobody else. I guess it's all about control.
