Most Attractive Physical Traits in Men For Women?

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So... men are obviously obsessed with their penis size and many think it's what women care the most about, while for most women it's far from the truth.

There's obviously personality, success and other "non-physical" traits that attract women, but physically, what makes a woman "swipe right" on a man on dating app, or feel stare at a man a random man they see on the street feeling attraction?

Face? big shoulders? strong arms? height? clothing style? etc.
(I know all women are not the same, but answer what you personally are attracted to).
 
So... men are obviously obsessed with their penis size and many think it's what women care the most about, while for most women it's far from the truth.

Splaining is unnecessary. And offensive. We know you are obsessed with your peens.


There's obviously personality, success and other "non-physical" traits that attract women, but physically, what makes a woman "swipe right" on a man on dating app, or feel stare at a man a random man they see on the street feeling attraction?

Not wanting a homosexual isn’t leaning on success as an attractant. Typically, people like to date those with similar situations.

Many women don’t feel random attraction. It’s tied up in knowing the person.

What made me swipe right on my partner was his words. His appearance was nice, loved his curls. He seemed open, and I liked his schnozz.


Face? big shoulders? strong arms? height? clothing style? etc.
(I know all women are not the same, but answer what you personally are attracted to).


Style and attitude catch my attention. A guy with genuine humility, a little humor, both come across in how they move, how they smile.

Height doesn’t matter to me, but a guy’s attitude about height or his misconceptions of how women see height is a huge turn OFF.

I have a quirk around voices. There needs to be something unique. Pitch isn’t important. I was married to a guy in the contralto to tenor range who was pretty much a muppet. My partner now is a baritone.
 
@Scarletbegonia Thanks for the reply.
Not sure how I offended you...? If anything, I offended men.

I also find it hard to believe there are no physical attractions at all. They may not play as big of a role as personality, but I doubt you'd date with anyone and enjoy being intimate with him no matter how he looks as long as he has a great personality.

A proof to that would be all those "nice intelligent guys" on dating apps that struggle, compared to better looking less-successful men.

Not trying to say it's all about looks, just saying looks definitely do play a role for (most at least) women.
 
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@Scarletbegonia Thanks for the reply.
Not sure how I offended you...? If anything, I offended men.

I also find it hard to believe there are no physical attractions at all. They may not play as big of a role as personality, but I doubt you'd date with anyone and enjoy being intimate with him no matter how he looks as long as he has a great personality.

A proof to that would be all those "nice intelligent guys" on dating apps that struggle, compared to better looking less-successful men.

Not trying to say it's all about looks, just saying looks definitely do play a role for (most at least) women.
You immediately dismissed the honesty of the one woman that responded. Why even ask?
 
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So... men are obviously obsessed with their penis size and many think it's what women care the most about, while for most women it's far from the truth.

Splaining is unnecessary. And offensive. We know you are obsessed with your peens.


There's obviously personality, success and other "non-physical" traits that attract women, but physically, what makes a woman "swipe right" on a man on dating app, or feel stare at a man a random man they see on the street feeling attraction?

Not wanting a homosexual isn’t leaning on success as an attractant. Typically, people like to date those with similar situations.

Many women don’t feel random attraction. It’s tied up in knowing the person.

What made me swipe right on my partner was his words. His appearance was nice, loved his curls. He seemed open, and I liked his schnozz.


Face? big shoulders? strong arms? height? clothing style? etc.
(I know all women are not the same, but answer what you personally are attracted to).


Style and attitude catch my attention. A guy with genuine humility, a little humor, both come across in how they move, how they smile.

Height doesn’t matter to me, but a guy’s attitude about height or his misconceptions of how women see height is a huge turn OFF.

I have a quirk around voices. There needs to be something unique. Pitch isn’t important. I was married to a guy in the contralto to tenor range who was pretty much a muppet. My partner now is a baritone.
Make that hoBo sexual. Damn auto incorrect,
 
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@Scarletbegonia Thanks for the reply.
Not sure how I offended you...? If anything, I offended men.

I also find it hard to believe there are no physical attractions at all. They may not play as big of a role as personality, but I doubt you'd date with anyone and enjoy being intimate with him no matter how he looks as long as he has a great personality.

A proof to that would be all those "nice intelligent guys" on dating apps that struggle, compared to better looking less-successful men.

Not trying to say it's all about looks, just saying looks definitely do play a role for (most at least) women.
You already know it all why ask us?
 
You already know it all why ask us?
The post title literally says "Physical Traits", and I also explain in the post body I know personality is important, but I'm asking specifically about physical traits, which you didn't address, hence my answer.

It also doesn't cost money to be respectful to other people. I was genuinely asking a question. But you do you. You have the right to feel offended by this comment as well, although there is no intention to offend you.
 
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