I'm not gay, so I can't speak from experience. But the surveys, when averaged out, put length at around 5 3/4" and girth at close to 4 3/4". And if anyone mentions Lifestyles, their numbers are higher because they only measured the youngest during spring break and they cut out anyone who couldn't achieve and maintain a full hard-on during measuring. That number was surprisingly high, at 25-30% if I remember correctly.