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Being more of a bear, I've never really had the chance to feel up, cuddle, or have sex with a muscular man. In my area none of them seem attracted to a bigger guy with a belly.

Experiences? What is it like? Big difference from an average body?
 
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Muscled gay men only go for other muscled gay men.

Sure one of the very, very few will protest to the opposite; but 99% of the guys only want other muscled gay men.

Advice from them? Get into shape like they did. They wanted to sleep with muscular men so they got in shape and we should do the same. It's healthy and good to take care of yourself.

I mean, they are right that we should get into shape and we shouldn't be upset for their preferences but, I dunno... It just seems so vain at times.
 
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I mean, they are right that we should get into shape and we shouldn't be upset for their preferences but, I dunno... It just seems so vain at times.

Seems pretty obvious to me that what follows is: for those who are aware of this dynamic, persisting in wanting to sleep with such vain people reveals that one's sexual priorities are in turn rather shallow. In a way, one who wants to sleep with such men knowing what they are like personally means one is no better. Or maybe they are better, because at least they are succeeding in getting what they want.
 
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Being more of a bear, I've never really had the chance to feel up, cuddle, or have sex with a muscular man. In my area none of them seem attracted to a bigger guy with a belly.

Experiences? What is it like? Big difference from an average body?
It's overrated.

I'm more attracted to a person that is comfortable about themselves. You can't beat how sexy personal confidence and charisma make you look.

That said, if you want something, then make it happen. Just be mindful that chasing ideals tends to disappoint.
 

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tomorrow I have a muscle worship session with a bodybuilder that I meet on this site - not cheap, but I get to feel his muscles, lick him all over - pits, butthole (my favorite), and he will nut in my mouth - no topping first time but I know he does top - he is very large down there and I don't even know if I can take his dick
 
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its not 100% true that muscular guys only date other muscular types - certainly from my experience - i've dated a number of very muscled guys; i think they fall in to two categories, those who train for themselves to make themselves better (which can include body builders who do competitions) and those who do it for the vanity.

I think the former certainly appreciate all types of guys more especially other guys who appreciate them for who they are too, not just because they have muscles.

my current bf is muscly and he's got no issues with me being a little bit on the cuddly side and i'm very happy with his hard body.

so don't judge all muscle guys, there are definitely some nice guys wtih muscles out there
 
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Bobblework nailed it.
It's way too easy to put all the gay muscular population in the vain muscle fairy bag, this segment of the community is, unfortunately for all, extraordinarily overrepresented in social media and the media at large, therefore the illusion of all gays ought to be forever young, ripped and fabulous.
From my experience with bodybuilding types, I can say that if there is an preference for other muscular lads it's mostly due to compatible lifestyles and the general population apprehension to approach the big guys.
They are generally just big cuddly lads, that long for the same things we all do.
 
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I have had sex with a few very muscular men. Although I am relatively muscular myself now, when I had sex with them I was much younger and slimmer, so there's definitely muscular guys out there who enjoy sex with guys of different body types to themselves.

One thing I found surprising is that I expected them to be very hard, but even big pumped up muscles can be relatively soft when not flexed - especially pecs.

My experiences also dispelled the myth that all muscular men are tops - in my experience there's far more muscular bottoms than tops around, in fact the bigger the guy the more bottom they were.
 
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My experiences also dispelled the myth that all muscular men are tops - in my experience there's far more muscular bottoms than tops around, in fact the bigger the guy the more bottom they were.

thats definitely been my experience too, that all the really muscled guys i've been with loved to bottom and i certainly loved topping them too.
 

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I made a decision long ago that I would be happier if I was more fit.
Later I figured out that I should try to emulate the kinds of physical characteristics that I admire.
Then I discovered that I was more likely to attract the physically active fit guys I wanted sex with if I kept to this path.
It has worked out very well! Even at age 68 I have had some great sex (well until Covid19) and I've had several regular bottoms who were quite muscular and great personalities, too.
So, yeah... don't generalize about all muscular guys.
 
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I made a decision long ago that I would be happier if I was more fit.
Later I figured out that I should try to emulate the kinds of physical characteristics that I admire.
Then I discovered that I was more likely to attract the physically active fit guys I wanted sex with if I kept to this path.
It has worked out very well! Even at age 68 I have had some great sex (well until Covid19) and I've had several regular bottoms who were quite muscular and great personalities, too.
So, yeah... don't generalize about all muscular guys.
So... basically I'm right? Muscle men only really like other muscle men and if you want to sleep with muscle men, take their advice, like you did and get muscle yourself?

I mean, yeah it makes sense and I don't blame them for wanting to sleep with other muscle men, but so far everyone has been proving that you need to be muscled or fit to have a chance with muscle men. With the exception of bobbleworc(Which honestly isn't even bad looking bodywise so...) most men they have slept with are fit themselves. Bear is usually more of a muscled hairy man. The op was asking about having a belly.

I make no judgement against muscle men for the preference. I don't think they are bad people so I don't know why everyone is reassuring they are just normal nice people. But lets be real, its because they like muscle men and can attract other muscle men easily.
 
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Being more of a bear, I've never really had the chance to feel up, cuddle, or have sex with a muscular man. In my area none of them seem attracted to a bigger guy with a belly.

Experiences? What is it like? Big difference from an average body?

I've been with quite a few muscle guys - Used to be pretty built myself but, i'm 53 now and, while in pretty good shape, not what I once was .. so, to answer your question based on my own personal experience. Muscle guys - like all guys, go for different things depending on the guy .. I think, in general, people go for any sort of ideal whether you think that ideal is huge built, toned, classic bear, twink, daddy - whatever I think the reason why a person works on getting into whatever you believe your ideal shape is to maximise widen the pool of people who are attracted to you so you have choice. When I was in my best shape, I didn't always go for other built guys - sometimes it was a great face, or a great arse or just some instant attraction. My goal was to open myself up to having the choice to be with someone who I felt attracted to on the day.. not to always attract like for like
Personal experience I've had with muscle men .. I'm visually attracted to guys that are in perfect shape but almost every time I've been with one, once you get over the eye candy and get down to business, I personally find a rock hard arse less tactile than one with a bit of natural wobble. Classic example - Was horny AF last night and decided to hook up with a 25 year old who was hotter than hell, built somewhere between a smaller version of Jason Mamoa but bigger than a worked version of Zac effron .. pretty much my ideal eye candy .. but once we got down to it. kinda didn't like that he was so hard all over, just didn't get that bury your head deep in his body feel that a nice juicy fleshy but still in shape arse provides..
Everyone has their own tastes and I think what is being leveraged here is that most people are attracted - at least visually, to people who are in shape in general - doesn't mean that is a hard stop or even a overwhelming preference
 
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