My girlfriend is too much into edging me.

[Max ostetsky]

So my gf and I’ve been together for about 6 months. We do have sex once a week mostly.
The first time we had sex is the most wildest experience ever.
I was told not to cum for a week and I agreed.
When I went to her place and we were making out and she asked me if I wanna get tied so I said sure. She literally tied all my hands and legs on the bed. I seriously can’t break out from it. Then I was fully naked and she put so much oil on my body and she asked me if I ever been edged and I said no
She was massaging me for a while then edge me for 3-4 hours. I was so close but she didn’t let me cum. I was literally tearing up asking her to let me cum. She didn’t for so long. She sat on my face and squirt on me.
Finally after 3-4 hours later. She let me cum, it was the craziest cumshot ever in my life I think I passed out from it.

Since then, whenever we have sex I can never get to cum easily. I’m always been edged or tied and edged. I can go rounds and rounds but I can only cum once.

Do you guys think this is hot or am I letting her too much in control

 

[deleted581546]

So my gf and I’ve been together for about 6 months. We do have sex once a week mostly.
The first time we had sex is the most wildest experience ever.
I was told not to cum for a week and I agreed.
When I went to her place and we were making out and she asked me if I wanna get tied so I said sure. She literally tied all my hands and legs on the bed. I seriously can’t break out from it. Then I was fully naked and she put so much oil on my body and she asked me if I ever been edged and I said no
She was massaging me for a while then edge me for 3-4 hours. I was so close but she didn’t let me cum. I was literally tearing up asking her to let me cum. She didn’t for so long. She sat on my face and squirt on me.
Finally after 3-4 hours later. She let me cum, it was the craziest cumshot ever in my life I think I passed out from it.

Since then, whenever we have sex I can never get to cum easily. I’m always been edged or tied and edged. I can go rounds and rounds but I can only cum once.

Do you guys think this is hot or am I letting her too much in control

Yeah it's hot when it happens but too much of a good thing can leave guys ( and girls ) frustrated.

I see where you are coming from..no pun intended.

It's great that she gets some kind of pleasure from it as do you, but a sex life needs to be varied.

Imagine if the tables were turned & you tied her up & teased her with a vibe or other toy for hours on end, demanding that she don't cum until you say so..would she enjoy it ALL the time?

Ask her if you can try something different, maybe like a fast n furious fuck or a prolonged session with varying positions.
She can only say no & if she does ask her why.
Variety is the spice of life after all.

 

[Evenflow618]

It’s the best

 

[cofrader]

So my gf and I’ve been together for about 6 months. We do have sex once a week mostly.
The first time we had sex is the most wildest experience ever.
I was told not to cum for a week and I agreed.
When I went to her place and we were making out and she asked me if I wanna get tied so I said sure. She literally tied all my hands and legs on the bed. I seriously can’t break out from it. Then I was fully naked and she put so much oil on my body and she asked me if I ever been edged and I said no
She was massaging me for a while then edge me for 3-4 hours. I was so close but she didn’t let me cum. I was literally tearing up asking her to let me cum. She didn’t for so long. She sat on my face and squirt on me.
Finally after 3-4 hours later. She let me cum, it was the craziest cumshot ever in my life I think I passed out from it.

Since then, whenever we have sex I can never get to cum easily. I’m always been edged or tied and edged. I can go rounds and rounds but I can only cum once.

Do you guys think this is hot or am I letting her too much in control

What we think is hot is irrelevant what do you think?
She is in total control sounds like a dominatrix ( never met one ) if this story isn't spiced by fiction I don't think she would agree to let go power.
There is a debate about squirts if they are real, spontaneous squirt is a new one.
Did you have any vaginal sex?
Anyway 4 hours of sex would be impossible if you plan to have kids.

 

[stretch8888]

once in a while it's hot, regular i could see the frustration. From the sounds of it as mentioned, good luck getting her to give up control.

 

[notthatguy]

My girl friends knows it is dangerous for her to try to edge me as she is likely to drown as the result.

 

[mmmniple]

It doesn't care what we think :the important is what you think.

If that satisfy you plenty, go on.
If no talk her and proppouse new and different things.

 

[justahornyguy174]

I have had a girl who was very into edging, but kind of the other way around, I can usually cum whenever I want (unless I'm drunk and it is the third time we are having sex, I have actually faked it inside before...) so cumming was not a problem. Cumming was the problem for me, so I had not cum for a week also and she was edging me, i said "what if i cum" and she said "it's up to me" however she was fucking good with her hands and mouth so I was on the edge straight away, she was edging me but I was trying NOT to cum. She realised this and changed the game, I was trying not to cum as she played Jenga cum with me and she loved the control. I wanted to fuck her after the edging so didn't want to cum and she knew it. Was actually really fucking hot being tied up and having a girl in total control!
I've been with a lot of women and the vast majority are submissive and want it the other way around so super hot to have it turned around.

 

[Naughty Teacher]

The answers to your question are: Do you like it? How much?

 

[palakaorion]

am I letting her too much in control

So...how do you feel about it? Have you had a conversation about it, in a non-sexually-charged setting? Does she understand your boundaries/limits, and respect and obey them?

If any of those answers are "no" then you need to address it.

If she knows your limits but ignores them, you need to get out.

 

[PhallicApotheosis]

What we think is hot is irrelevant what do you think?
She is in total control sounds like a dominatrix ( never met one ) if this story isn't spiced by fiction I don't think she would agree to let go power.
There is a debate about squirts if they are real, spontaneous squirt is a new one.
Did you have any vaginal sex?
Anyway 4 hours of sex would be impossible if you plan to have kids.

Squirting is very much real. There is a gland from which the fluid originates (which I independently discovered, lies beneath the G spot, is shaped like a torus i.e. donut shaped, and which is only discernible as she becomes aroused and it begins to fill with her fluid becoming much more prominent, larger and ultimately harder coming almost to feel like her cervix does, a sort of hard hemisphere with central dimple as she gets close to an eruption) and it has been studied and the squirt fluids determined to have a different composition from urine, something that will already be evident to anyone who is intimately familiar with and has tasted it. These are admittedly recent “discoveries” officially speaking, but I would have told you all of this with 100% certainty and a money back guarantee by the time I had experienced my first couple of women. Perhaps I am more inquisitive and exploratory than virtually every man in the history of time to have readily discerned these facts anecdotally but this seems farfetched in the extreme. I cannot comprehend how this is still a ‘debate.’

 

[cofrader]

Squirting is very much real. There is a gland from which the fluid originates (which I independently discovered, lies beneath the G spot, is shaped like a torus i.e. donut shaped, and which is only discernible as she becomes aroused and it begins to fill with her fluid becoming much more prominent, larger and ultimately harder coming almost to feel like her cervix does, a sort of hard hemisphere with central dimple as she gets close to an eruption) and it has been studied and the squirt fluids determined to have a different composition from urine, something that will already be evident to anyone who is intimately familiar with and has tasted it. These are admittedly recent “discoveries” officially speaking, but I would have told you all of this with 100% certainty and a money back guarantee by the time I had experienced my first couple of women. Perhaps I am more inquisitive and exploratory than virtually every man in the history of time to have readily discerned these facts anecdotally but this seems farfetched in the extreme. I cannot comprehend how this is still a ‘debate.’

I'm glad you were there to explain how she squirts just by masturbating him.
6 to 8 hours of sex I can only imagine a LOTR extended edition marathon could explain this madness I can't imagine the day after of his sored junk after all that friction

 

[Mike hung]

Damn bro, if I don't bust my balls feel like they want to explode.
Sounds like you're letting her dominate you too much, nothing wrong with that if it's what you want.
Otherwise say something and control your bitch dude.