My wife started seeing this guy.. they met at a sex club and all there dates have been somewhere else and not at our house. She communicates with me about all of it. My wife and I have a great relationship. The times she ends up on these dates is when I am out of town for work, because when I am back home she spends her time with me. This guy is now concerned about being respectful of our marriage and has been getting emotional. I told my wife if he is unclear on how our relationship works have him call me and I will talk with him. No one is cheating, we have a relationship that is poly and supportive of healthy relationships. If my wife wants to have a sexy Latino guy eat her ass then I am here to support that. But I think the better experience for all of us would be a threesome. I feel like the dynamic would work best if I take the dominant position and tell him what to do. We haven’t quite established that relationship yet, but I think he would be a great sub for both of us to direct. It seems like he wants the assurance that what he is doing is okay and respectful and always questioning. He respects me and is afraid of messing up.
Any tips on how to coach a guy who is new to all this on how to have a healthy sexy dynamic that works for all three of us?
Any tips on how to coach a guy who is new to all this on how to have a healthy sexy dynamic that works for all three of us?