My Wife And My Super Hung Best Friend.

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“You understand we are not going to fuck, right?” Here we were on our big couch with my wife and my best friend about to have him show her his very big penis. We all had plenty to drink and smoke, but I was not so out of it that the tension and sexual excitement was off the charts. My wife who had a great sense of humor and outgoing style is never shy but not promiscuous by any means, In fact, sexually quite the opposite as she normally only wanted romantic intimate kissing styled sex with me. My mind raced over all the events that lead us to this moment and how crazy it was. So, let’s take a step back on how this happened (and what happened).

Elmer (yes I know but that is his name) and I grew up together although we were not really friends just in the same school up through High School. But, in the gym showers everyone saw and discovered that Elmer had a huge cock, well at least soft. It was one of those Elephant Trunk type penises that would swing back and forth when he walked and the kind all of us straight guys could still envy. But, it wasn’t like some major focus by any means well at least for me. More like a notation you can’t help but observe and otherwise really more of a non-issue. Well at least that was my attitude at the time. Plus, Elmer was not like some great looking guy and in fact a little short in height and more of an easy going type than outgoing or aggressive.

For several years in my twenties I worked at a marina. One day there was Elmer seeking to get repairs on a small boat he owned and kept there. I reminded him of who I was and he was genuinely happy to see me acting more of a friend than I recalled. In any event, we sometimes would then go fishing and became occasional drinking buddies over the weekends. Our companionship truly evolved where we liked some of the same sports to go to games or watch at a bar, and he was a fun guy to be around. Plus, at the bars, we occasionally had the opportunity to meet women although I would say I had more success normally than he did. I sometimes would joke with him that he should whip it out and show the women and his luck would change. He would laugh it off and again it wasn’t like some major discussion. In fact, he was very unassuming about it.

One time we were both propositioned at a late night bar by a prostitute stripper. We took her up on it and of course the funny part was she knew this nearby motel you could rent by the hour (which I didn’t know existed). Neither Elmer nor I wanted to give the motel a credit card or fill out anything so we gave the rental money to her; she left and went to the front office. It then occurred to me that she might just take the money and leave. I told Elmer we were two idiots which he laughed about and then so did I. However, I was wrong as she came back to where we were waiting with a room key. I was surprised that although a very small motel room it wasn’t really bad.

She told us we needed to take off our clothes to prove we weren’t cops and so we stripped. When she saw Elmer’s big penis hanging there she laughed and said to him, “I should charge you double.” I joked that I should then get half off. Now, I am not a small guy maybe even a little above average but next to Elmer I looked pitiful in comparison and that was while he was still mainly soft. She said to me, “you probably need to go first” and so without really any preparation I put on a condom and easily slipped right in to her. Meanwhile she motioned Elmer over and started sucking him so his cock was actually not far in front of my face. It was huge to start and even more huge erect. I will admit that it was sort of a turn on to see, actually amazing to see so close up and I came quickly with the combination of fucking her and the entire situation.

Elmer then put on a condom (and by the way all this B.S. with Magnums, he had to be a good 9” plus and I would guess comparing my somewhat thick cock a good 6 ½ around, perhaps more and a condom fit on him stretched. She knew what she was doing by spitting on his cock and really lubing it up and then letting him get on top. However, she still struggled at first to take him even after me, but soon he was all inside her. Even though I had cum it was fascinating to see the type of pounding a guy with a long penis can do because he could pull out pretty far and then force it back all the way in so the degree of that length allowed such force that soon the noise of their bodies smacking together was intense. He also changed a bit in personality where he was more animalistic in a way and I have no idea if she had an orgasm but the sexual intercourse was significantly different than how I fucked or the interaction she had with me. In other words, he not only had a big cock but really could fuck. He finally went all in, held still grunting and watching from behind I could see the shaft spasm right below his decent size nuts. It was soon over, we got dressed and left. However, the entire experience was a male bonding. We by now were good friends and that has continued.

Now to my meeting my wife and more, but you have to wait a little bit.
 
I met my wife ironically through another friend who lives in a nice trailer park. I had gone to his place to help him put a trailer hitch on his truck. It was late in the day and we were banging with hammers and drilling when this nice looking woman came out of another trailer and said, “Are you two going to be finished soon, I am trying to watch my show and can’t hear it.” If she hadn’t been attractive we probably would have told her to fuck off. But, she was so instead, I started joking, “I won’t ever make any noise, I will get a silent hammer, a silent drill, anything to make you happy.” She had a good sense of humor and we started talking. I asked her what shows she liked and she proceeded to tell me all about this one show. I felt comfortable and asked her if I could call her sometime and she agreed. Well, I don’t have to go into long details about our courtship but about 10 months later we were married. Also during that time I got a job offer by another Marina to do management which meant more money and no longer having to do the physical labor. Of course Elmer and I remained friends but once married the drinking late night ended.

One thing my wife is not into is sports. So on occasion Elmer would come over to watch a game or the 3 of us might go to a sports bar and we would watch and have a drink, while she might have a drink and watch something else on her phone. She also didn’t mind if Elmer and I went to a ball game if we could get tickets because the once or twice she went it was boring to her. Also, there were times where we went on double dates with Elmer and a girlfriend of his but over a year of so it was rarely the same girl. My wife liked Elmer but I don’t think gave him much thought in terms of any attraction. Elmer was just a nice guy I think from her perspective and didn’t bother her in anyway.

Eventually, Elmer did have a steady girlfriend (Becky) and my wife got to know and like her too. They were together for maybe 6-8 months but then broke up. One evening soon after, my wife was talking to me and said, “You know your friend Elmer isn’t the best looking guy out there and he can’t seem to keep a girlfriend.” “Yeah, I know,” I said, “I really don’t know why.” “Maybe you need to have a heart to heart with him sometime to find out why,” she suggested. “I liked Becky” she added.

The way my wife likes to fuck involves a lot of preliminary kissing foreplay, and often with music and romance or romantic words expressed. She also would sometimes like to get high smoking a joint first. She is not that sexually active but enough to keep me satisfied because one thing she enjoys doing are blowjobs and is really good at it. She told me she learned to do them to avoid intercourse when she was younger. Of course she did fuck some boyfriends, but on causal dates if it were going to lead to sex that was her way to prevent it. She said that she had had sex before me with 3 different boyfriends and otherwise had done blowjobs on 4 other guys where it would never lead to intercourse. One evening after we had sex and were talking I shared that Elmer had called and had tickets to a basketball game, I was going to go with him to the next day. My wife said, “You have to talk to your friend and find out what is his real problem, maybe he isn’t good in bed.” I laughed and said “That can’t be it.” She asked what I meant. I told her about the prostitute experience and the huge cock that Elmer had. She was shocked and laughed saying you would never know by looking at him. I agreed and said, “I guess that is how nature it, he didn’t get much in the looks department but it is made up in the cock department.” We laughed about it and that was about it.

When Elmer and I went to the game the next day I asked him about his latest break-up. He told me he was bad at picking women as it always boiled down to money. He said Becky wanted him to pay for everything as that would lead to arguments. He joked that he was going to give up on women and become a priest. In fact, for maybe the next 3-4 months he didn’t date or mention any female involvement.

A few months later, Elmer had come over but the game that evening was cancelled due to bad weather. My wife said, “Why can’t we just go out for a casual dinner instead?” We sat around and had a beer or two and then went out to dinner. We all had wine with dinner and then drove back. There was a game on and we started to watch but this time my wife got mad. “Why do you guys always have to watch games, can’t we do something else?””Like what, we asked?” “I don’t know, she replied, let’s get high!” The 3 of us had never really smoked joints together that typically was reserved for my wife and me and not even that often. However, I did have a vape with some good weed and Elmer just shrugged his shoulders like it was OK. Now, we already had drinks so we all got decently wasted.

We were sitting around and my wife said to Elmer, “I miss Becky, I liked her, and you need to settle down.” Elmer laughed and replied, “Yeah I made a mistake for sure and I haven’t even had a date for several months and I am climbing the walls.” She said in a more serious but still inebriated state, “What is your problem Elmer?””I hear you have a really big penis is that it, they don’t like it? Becky never once mentioned it to me?" There was stunned silence in the room as Elmer looked shocked by her comment and I was upset that he likely was mad or wondering why I shared that observation. My wife broke the awkward silence laughing out loud, grinning, and said, “I’m joking, I am sure that wasn’t the problem.” Elmer looked at me inquisitively and I said, “It’s OK, I told her about our experience with that prostitute, she’s cool and it was before we were married or knew each other.””Elmer, my wife said, “women like romance, tenderness, you need to call Becky and tell her you miss her if you do.” “I guess, Elmer replied still seemingly uncertain of what to say.”Well do you miss her” my wife persisted. “I do but she always wanted me to pay for things and that got to be too much.” “Did you tell her that,” my wife asked. “Not really” Elmer replied. I echoed in the conversation laughing, “And now you are not getting any either which sucks.” “Yeah that’s the worst of it, man, Elmer laughed, and like I said I am climbing the walls.”

Perhaps because I was stoned or maybe I thought it was funny, but I turned to my wife and said, “I use to tell Elmer if he wanted women he should whip his big dick out and show them.” “Yeah, Elmer, my wife said laughing, “Whip it out, but I am not going to fuck you.” Silence hit the room again and Elmer turned to look at me as I turned to look at my wife. She was laughing so we weren’t sure if she was serious. :”Seriously, I would like to see it Elmer, is it really that big, I’ve never seen a big one before for real” “Honey, I said, you are embarrassing Elmer. “No she isn’t, Elmer replied, but she has to show me first,” he laughed. “That’s right honey fair is fair,” I said also laughing but also the sexual tension was something we could all feel. My wife stood up without hesitation, lifted up her shirt and pulled up her bra to flash Elmer. My wife has pretty decent sized boobs and they flopped out a bit but then she quickly pulled her shirt down but took off her bra and threw it behind her. “OK, Elmer, your turn.” Elmer looked at me and I shrugged my shoulders and said to him, “Fair is fair.” Elmer stood up, unzipped his fly, and pulled out his penis and let it hang there for a few seconds and then pulled it up and put in back in his pants. “Oh wow” my wife responded, that is big and not even hard, OK honey I am divorcing you and marrying Elmer,” she laughed. Elmer smiled and joking said, “Well I am single and I haven’t been with a woman for months now.” “Elmer if that thing grows it’s probably too much for me” my wife joked back. Then she in a calmer voice said, “Could Becky handle all that, she’s not a big girl, are you gentle with it?” Elmer answered very seriously as he could, “Everyone is different but believe it or not she could take a pounding.” "Elmer", my wife gasped, I didn’t know you had that in you, you are so relaxed and shy all the time.” “Honey” I said, “I have seen Elmer in action and he is Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde when he gets going.” “Ha-ha”, she laughed, “Dr Jekyll when soft and Mr. Hyde when hard. I’ll have to call Becky and get all the gory details. Elmer, like I said I am not going to fuck you, but can I see it again not so quick?” “Fair is fair, Elmer replied, you first.” My wife took off her shirt and Elmer went to unzip his fly. “No Elmer take your pants off. Elmer looked at me and I nodded it was OK with me. Elmer stood up and dropped his pants. But, before he could pull down his underwear, my wife laughingly said, “Fair is fair” to me and said looking at me, “You too.” I was reluctant because I had been turned on by all the banter and although not fully erect I was on the way there. However, when I hesitated they both kept saying you go to do it too. I got up and about the same time I was removing my pants and underwear, Elmer removed his so now his big cock was hanging down swaying with his sizeable balls whereas my cock was standing up.

to be continued
 
My wife put her hands on her hips and just stared at Elmer standing naked. In a softer voice she said, “Elmer, you know I have never seen an uncircumcised man before up close, I don’t understand where does the skin go?” Before Elmer had a chance to respond, she said, “Can I touch it.” My cock shot up super hard at her question and Elmer turned to look at me like was this all OK? My wife started laughing and pointed at my cock and said, “Well I see I have your permission.” “Go for it” I said standing there with a mix of intense excitement but also some nervousness.

My wife walked right up to Elmer and grasped his penis in her left hand about halfway on his long soft shaft and pulled his foreskin back to uncover the head of his cock. She studied it moving it back and forth like a scientist making a discovery. “I like it” she said, “it’s so fleshy, does this feel good or hurt.” Elmer said, “Oh my God, it feels really good.” Hmm” she said still studying it and she now squeezed his shaft and laughed as that caused his penis to expand.” “Elmer, it’s so big does it get really hard like that” pointing to my cock.? “Keep doing that and you will see,” Elmer laughed. “Let’s sit down,” my wife said and she moved to the couch and motioned for Elmer to join sitting next to her.

I sat down in a chair across from them just watching and sometimes giving a reassuring nod to Elmer as my wife hardly removed her eye sight from his penis. She reached over to her side again grasping his penis and masturbating it up and down.. “This is not working,” she said and motioned Elmer to get up and stand in front of her. Now having done that his penis was at her eye level, and without any warning or hesitation, she closed her eyes and took his penis placing it into her mouth. As I have shared, she is really good at doing blowjobs as I think part of the reason is she has a certain sensitivity but also uninhibited to trying different things. She pulled his foreskin forward over the head of this cock and ran her tongue underneath it and then also sucking it in again experimenting with how to do it. Both Elmer and I were shocked at her willingness to be doing oral on him. Without even realizing I was jacking my cock watching. Elmer was now erecting and so she started sucking harder like pulling with her mouth on his penis stretching its length. Elmer now was huge and in fact, to me it looked even bigger than I remembered it to be. Perhaps because this time it wasn’t so close to my face I had a better perception. He was so much bigger than me but I had to admit to myself that this was a turn-to see my wife. But, the sheer size was immense as now Elmer also had his eyes either closed or occasionally looking down at his penis in my wife’s mouth and hands. My wife backed off finally after a few minutes but continued to hold his penis in her hand just evaluating it. She looked up at Elmer and said, “This is amazing, I had no idea a penis could be such a big size, but my jaw is getting tired, and I can’t even begin to imagine how Becky or any woman could accommodate this. Elmer of course now was so turned on and Mr. Hyde was starting to appear, he said in a very confident voice, “You would be surprised what you or any woman can handle.” She let go of his penis which stood like a loaded huge missile aimed right at her. “I told you I am not going to fuck you” but said with a smile. Elmer looked at her and said, “You are not going to leave me like this are you?” She replied, “It’s so big I have a hard time sucking it this way, let’s go to the bedroom guys.” We got up and with Elmer’s big penis jutting out we walked into our bedroom. My wife started laughing hysterically watching Elmer and said, “Don’t trip over it or let it weight you down.” But, by now, Elmer was not in the same joking mood as that Mr. Hyde horniness and perhaps the months of no sex were impacting him.

“Lay down Elmer” my wife instructed and he lay on the bed with his long penis pointing up to the sky. She turned to me and said, “Look at this isn’t it something. Elmer you are a testament to masculinity.” My wife got next to him and said to me, “Hand me some lube (which we kept in a drawer by the bed) and after I did she coated his penis and her hands to start jacking him off. She moved so she was on her knees in between his legs and Elmer had his head back on a pillow just enjoying himself. My wife was using both hands and seemingly measuring him with them to see how much would still be visible along the upper portion of his penis. Elmer was obviously getting more and more turned on and finally looked at her and said in a pleading but strong voice, “Take off your panties.” My wife with his big cock in her hands looked right at him and again reminded him that they were not going to have sex. “No, Elmer, I am keeping them on, I have to resist that big cock of yours” she said with a hearty laugh. “You can play with my balls too” Elmer instructed. She moved one hand and grasped them in one hand and commented how sizeable they were as well. “Elmer, you have some big nuts too, everything down here is huge. Is this where a guys growth hormones are” as she tugged on his testicles.

Now what was interesting in all of this was the friendliness and comfort my wife felt. It occurred to me we were like 3 friends sharing. In fact, there was a small part of me that wanted to reach out and touch his big penis too wondering what it was like to touch. But, I didn’t’ know how either of them would react or even me so I kept that thought only to myself. Mr. Hyde was now getting in full force as his penis was so big and hard that you could see the veins pulsating and the head had grown to a big purple. Elmer started talking to my wife as he was obviously so turned on. “You should let me inside you, I can make you feel so good, I want to make you feel as good as you are making me, I will be gentle and you will love it, you deserve some pleasure too and I can make you feel everything so much, try it” and so on. My wife didn’t respond for a minute and then said, “Elmer I am going to help you out and she leaned forward and took the big cock head in her mouth once again and maybe an inch or two below. She jacked him with her other hand and vigorously sucked him the special way she know how to please a man and bring him to orgasm. “I’m getting close” Elmer warned and my wife responded with a hmmmm sound as she continued to suck. I think Elmer then realized it was OK for him to cum. He announced it, “I’m cumming and my wife actually prefers to swallow as she always has said to me she doesn’t like the mess. “Oh OH OH, Elmer cried out as she squeezed his upper penis with one hand and continued sucking in all juice. Finally, she moved off his penis for a moment pulled up the foreskin and went back down licking it and the top of his cock. Then she let go as his still big but softening cock bounced against his thigh to the left. We all were quiet for just a few seconds and then Elmer still laying there partly erect said, “Guys thank you thank you thank you, I needed that, you both are the best.” My wife said, “Well that was fun for me too but none of us can ever tell anyone.” Elmer said, “Oh course not, we are friends to the end.” My wife got up and said I am really tired, and looked at me and said, let’s go to bed, Elmer you go ahead and sleep on the couch (which he had done on occasion). He said, “Good, if you think you’re tired, trust me you drained me in several ways.” My wife laughed and slid under the covers while Elmer walked out to the living area. I started out with him but my wife whispered to me, “Close the door, and come to bed.” I called out to Elmer that we were going to sleep and to take care of himself.

My wife waved me into bed and whispered fuck me. Now this is a woman almost anytime wanted some foreplay, kissing, etc to start. But, when I moved to go down on her, she said, No, fuck me now.” Of course I was still turned on and got on top of her and slowly was going to push my penis inside but there was almost no resistance. She was super wet or lubed and it felt like melted butter in her vagina, slippery and I never had experienced her being this turned on before. I whispered in her ear, “Elmer turned you on did he?” She whispered back, Oh my God can you believe the size of him, it was all I could do not to just climb on top of him. I have never felt such desire when holding any cock feeling it so big and hard. That doesn’t upset you, does it? I whispered, “No, I would have loved to have seen you do just that.” We were fucking and she was moving on my cock and still talking. “Can you imagine what that might feel like, I kept thinking when I was playing with his cock about Becky fucking that monster and my imagination was going wild. I love you honey, you know that but it was so exciting what we were doing. Fuck me as hard and deep as you can. However, after just about 30 seconds of the best fucking I could do, I couldn’t hold back and shot a tremendous load. I lay there but my wife turned over and lay on her stomach feverishly rubbing her clit to an orgasm. We talked only briefly after that and fell asleep.

The next morning when I woke up my wife was in the kitchen fixing Elmer and me breakfast wearing panties and a big shirt of mine. She looked so cute and what was most fascinating was there was no discomfort amongst the 3 of us, just perhaps even closer as friends.

Yes there is more to continue later.
 
The next time I saw Elmer was one week later. The first thing he said to me, “Are we alright?” “I guess you are referring to our time last week with my wife. She is your friend too and yes we are fine, better than fine. You did me a great favor? “What do you mean”, Elmer asked. “Shit, since last week she and I have fucked like 3 or 4 times and she is never that active, you really turned her on.” Elmer smiled and said, “Glad to be of assistance then.” He then said in a more serious tone, “I was worried that maybe you would have been upset.” Elmer, I said, I am going to be really open with you as we have been friends for a long long time. I might have been if you had a cock like my size because then it might have felt like something else going on. But yours is obviously a lot bigger and it’s kind of fun to see and if that is making my wife excited I get the reward.” In fact, “I would love to convince her to fuck you.” “Really” Elmer said a bit stunned. “Yes,” I replied. “I know you take it for granted your cock, but it is really a very special gift you have and I admire it and I always admired the way you fucked that woman we had the 3some with. I can tell you just never let her know I shared this but my wife wanted to and was scared that I might get hurt or you might be a bit too much for her to handle. I know how much she would enjoy it though. To me, it’s like you are the Lebron James of penises (I said with a laugh). If I got to play basketball with Lebron I know I couldn’t begin to compete skill wise and that wouldn’t upset me it would be awesome just to get to play with him. I think that is how my wife felt too, she has talked about how big and nice looking your cock was and how much fun she had playing with it. I really think we are all good close friends so if you have a gift and shared it all the better as far as I am concerned. “I never knew you felt that way” Elmer said with a genuine soft smile. He then reached out and shook my hand. “I said, I just have to figure out a way, we can get her to do it.”
 
“Do you ever talk with Becky” I asked my wife one evening when we were in bed. “No, I guess I should I mean we were friends when she was with Elmer. I don’t know I guess maybe I feel it awkward about it now. It’s like why didn’t I stay friendly with her.” I said, “Well it’s too bad she and Elmer don’t get back together, he tells me that he made a big mistake by breaking up with her. I wonder if she feels the same. Also, don’t you have any curiosity about what she thought about when she saw and experienced Elmer’s cock?” My wife looked at me like I was crazy. “Despite what you think, women don’t sit around and talk about their husband’s or boyfriend’s dick,” my wife said. I laughed and said, “But aren’t you curious?” My wife laughed back and said, “Good point.” I had started this conversation with a secret intent of course which was to stimulate my wife’s thinking about sex with Elmer.

I leaned over her and started kissing her and moving do go down on her. I thought to myself, I first need to get her turned on and then talk more. I started tonguing up and down her pussy lips and lightly sucking and then licking her clit the way she liked. She grabbed a pillow and held onto it as if she was hugging someones back while I worked on her lower region. When she was good and wet a few minutes later, I stopped and said, “I have a surprise.” She looked around at me to know what that was but also made a disappointed face that I had stopped what I was doing. I reached over into the night table drawer and withdrew a lifelike large penis dildo I had purchased at one of those Hustler Adult Stores. I said, “It’s almost as big as Elmer (it was 8” by 6”). She said, “You are full of surprises lately.” I took some lube and liberally lathered it after slipping a condom over it as the store clerk had recommended for ease of cleanliness. I slowly watched her vagina lips spread around the head of the dildo as I then began sliding it in. I felt some resistance when I was only a bit more than halfway, so I started moving it back and forth to coat her inside vagina with her natural lubrication and the lube I had put on. I returned to licking her clit as I continued trying to slide the dildo back and forth. I pushed in about 6” and she looked up at me and that that’s enough. I tried moving the dildo faster back and forth but she didn’t like that. She said just move it slow. Every once in a while I would try to ease it deeper but she would look up and tell me no. However, she then started that obvious dive into the orgasm pattern kind of keeping her eyes closed and moving her pussy side to side. She then started the moaning while I still was licking her clit and she was thrashing about a bit more. I knew she was very close and so now I tried pushing the dildo in and the resistance was gone and it went totally inside to the fake balls. Moments later she grabbed my arm pinching it hard and I knew she was having an orgasm which of course made me hard as a rock. Finally, she finished relaxed back now with her eyes open as I slowly withdrew the dildo.

I held the dildo up and said, “You took this balls deep!” “I did” she said looking surprised. “I guess you can handle a big cock”, I said smiling. The truth was I was really really really turned on and although she started to move to go down on me it wasn’t necessary. My cock felt like it was going to burst from the inside out. I just moved right on top of her and went right in fully. I started fucking my usual somewhat slow back and forth as I looked down at her in the missionary position face to face. “Now be totally honest with me, no lies, did the bigger dildo feel better than my cock, be honest!” “No, she replied, the real thing feels better she smiled. But, could you tell it was deeper? Yes, I couldn’t tell how deep but yes, but that doesn’t mean I liked it better than your cock. You are the perfect size for me." I actually was a little disappointed and wasn’t entirely sure that she was being fully honest or not. “Don’t worry about hurting my feelings, I want you to be honest”, I said again. “I am" she replied, "you can tell what feels like a real penis versus that toy.” So a real big penis like Elmer’s might feel better, his is real, I asked! She didn’t answer but said fuck me harder. Now I really am not good at fucking hard, as when I do that I usually cum pretty quick. But, I tried my best and again probably not even 20 seconds I was cumming. I wondered to myself, did she want me to fuck her hard to get the sex over with as she knew I didn’t last long like that. Or, did that style of fucking feel better to her. One thing I knew was she could take a penis at least 2 inches longer than mine to the hilt and had an over the top orgasm at the time it went that deep. We lay there for a minute or two and then as things were returning to normal, I said, “You should call Becky and at least fish around but also maybe you can get them back together.” She said, “Good idea, I think I will.”
 
Elmer had been over a few times and the oral or nude experience we all had especially between my wife and Elmer was never mentioned. It did appear we all were even more comfortable with one another as a consequence though. I thought my wife felt a certain closeness as now instead of it being Elmer and I as two friends, we were all friends. It was a shared positive experience but no one felt the need to talk about it or push anything further that might create a discomfort. There possibly were a few flirts or maybe joke or two about Elmer’s endowment but if there was it was subtle.

One day Elmer and I returned from an afternoon game, my wife suddenly blurted out to us, “I talked to Becky.” Elmer looked a little puzzled and I was uncertain that my wife telling us both was a good idea. Nevertheless, my wife said to Elmer, ‘You should call Becky.” “Why,” Elmer asked. “Well, Becky says and don’t tell her I told you this, that she was tired of the dating scene and wish things had worked out between you two. I can’t say for sure how she would respond if you called her, but I think she would talk to you.” Elmer nodded and nothing more was said. Later that evening, as my wife and I were getting ready for bed, I asked her about the conversation. “Did you learn anything intimate?” “Sort of” my wife replied. “Did Becky talk about Elmer and how big is cock is?” My wife looked at me and rolled her eyes. “No, how was I supposed to bring up that subject or know about it” However, she told me that she had dated two other guys since their break-up and I tried to ask whether she was being active. She only would say that she was tired of dating and the stuff you have to go through with guys. I told her you still were best buddies with Elmer and I would see him all the time. She said she missed him but that he also was an asshole! I then asked her what went wrong. She said he was a cheapskate, and actually she sometimes resented the time he would spend with you. I then asked if he had any redeeming qualities and she did say and I know you are going to like hearing this, that their love making was the best. I didn’t ask for details as I know you want me too but she did say that at least. I joked and said well that’s good and she said that Elmer was full of surprises but didn’t elaborate and I couldn’t ask more.

I took the opportunity after this conversation to say to my wife, “You know, as I told you I did see Elmer in action that one time and it was impressive.” My wife said, “Well you are impressed because he has a big penis.” I said, ‘Yes but he really uses it well.” “Honey, you have a one track mind” my wife laughed and then we went to sleep. Well sort of. I lay there quietly and thought, she is right. I often would fantasize about having a 3some with Elmer and my wife. Why I questioned myself. The more I thought about it however the more I wanted it to happen. I felt I wanted to see my wife in ecstasy, taken to a level that I know sexually I couldn’t achieve but also felt that if that occurred the shared experience would be something she and I would enjoy time and time again alone. In fact, now anytime I had sex with my wife, I would fantasize that Elmer’s penis was mine and what it would be like to have that big penis and fuck her with it. It was why I bought the like like looking dildo. I tried to imagien how it would feel to be able to go so deep into her, how it would feel to me, her, and the motions and strong powerful movements I could do having that much length. It became a routine to use the dildo to first bring her to orgasm and then fuck her after that. Several times I would ask how it felt compared to me but she always said the real thing is better.

It was several months later that Elmer had a new girlfriend and the 4 of us went to dinner. We didn’t’ ask about Becky and this new girlfriend was kind of wild, drank a lot, had her hands on Elmer constantly and to a certain extent inappropriate in our minds in public. My wife told me later that evening when we were going to bed that the new girlfriend bragged to her in the bathroom that Elmer had an amazing penis. My wife said she smiled but of course didn’t really respond. We started kissing and I was going for the dildo but my wife stopped me and said, “Just go ahead and stick it in.” I was surprised that she was pretty ready and we started fucking in a position where she had her back to me and I was holding her. I whispered in her ear imagine if it was Elmer fucking you what do you think it would be like? “Painful, she first responded chuckling.” I said, “Well his new girlfriend evidently doesn’t mind. Tell me what a penis like mine would feel like to her versus one like Elmer’s. My wife started getting into it a bit perhaps really only to turn me on. “Well his would fill her up completely and stretch her out a lot.” Mine doesn’t do that does it?”, I replied hearing my husky excited voice. My wife said, “No, it just feels nice. Of course sometimes a girl might just want to be fucked hard” my wife again chuckled. However, that comment sent a certain shot to me as I knew I am not good with doing that. So, I tried to start pounding but in this position it keep feeling like my penis was hardly inside her and ready to fall out. I whispered, “You know in this position Elmer’s cock could probably hit a lot of deep spots and fuck you hard.” My wife didn’t respond but moved her hand to rub her clit while I was trying to pull her tight to stay inside. “I started talking, “Imagine that you are his girlfriend experiencing that big cock, what she is enjoying.” My wife’s breathing was getting shallow and I could tell she was masturbating herself into an orgasm. Imagine how good his cock would feel inside you, I whispered. My wife moaned and her orgasm was pushing my cock out of her as I had to really pull her to stay inside. For me it was frustrating because I was also wishing to have a much longer penis picturing Elmer's, so this wouldn’t be occurring of feeling this way to me. Finally my wife said, “Yes Elmer’s cock is feeling so good, it's, so big, hmmmmm, and I knew she was saying this to get me to cum. And, guess what? It worked.

To be continued
 
For a few months after meeting Elmer’s new girlfriend we really didn’t get together. Elmer and I talked a few times on the phone but it was summer and the things we like Football, Basketball, and some local stuff was not in season. Plus, I am the type that if I call a few times and don’t hear back I am not persistent. I figured the new girlfriend might have also picked up on the vibe that we weren’t too impressed with her or that the 4 of us were not really a good match friendship wise. Then, at the end of the summer, Elmer called me and said would my wife and I like to come over to his place (which normally wasn’t what we did as he would usually be at our place) and by the way he had a surprise. I tried to find out what that was but he said you guys come over to dinner and you will learn. Now that was very unusual as Elmer wasn’t exactly a cook but of course we agreed. That Saturday early evening we went to Elmer’s condo and when the door opened the surprise was discovered. Becky! Yes, they had gotten back together and in fact she had just moved in a week ago with him. My wife and Becky hugged and they told us they had gotten engaged. It was a big happy reunion.

Fortunately, Becky had fixed dinner so it was good. We sat around drinking wine and smoked a little grass after dinner. They told us how Elmer had reached out to Becky and thanked both my wife and I for our individual conversations to bring them back together. We laughed as they said it was all thanks to us. Becky then said with a big smile to my wife, “Well I hear you gave Elmer some needed stress release while we were apart.” My wife stammered not knowing what to say and I looked at Elmer shocked that he had told Becky. “We decided that to make this work, we have no secrets” Elmer said. “You’re not upset with me I hope” my wife pleaded with Becky. Becky stood up and walked over to where my wife was sitting and gave her a big hug. “Of course not, I appreciate everything and I heard it was an awesome time.”Becky stated. Then Becky gave a hearty laugh and said, “Now you know why I couldn’t give up on Elmer.” “Lucky girl” I said to Becky with a smile. She got back up and went over to Elmer and gave him a kiss, “I know in so many ways” Becky said. She added, “Not many like him out there.” I laughed and said, “I hope not or I am in trouble.” Becky smiled and said with a pretend anger, “Well I am mad at you guys for doing that without me, leaving me out wasn’t fair.” Elmer then said, “We talked about wanted to do some swinging with you guys.” There was some silence as this was something new and unexpected. Yet we were all friends and three of us had been intimate to a certain degree so it wasn’t like something so off the wall. “Don’t be intimidated” Becky said to me, “I am sure we will have fun, we thought maybe we leave these two alone and you and I go to the bedroom. I want to play too.” My wife then spoke up, “I don’t know Becky if this is a good idea, I love you guys of course you know that. But, what happened with Elmer wasn’t intercourse and I don’t know how you handle him but I think he is a bit too much for me.” Becky said, “: You guys had that fun without me, I want to share too. Let’s take care of our boys together like you did for Elmer and leave it at that?” “Elmer said, “Becky really wants to be as close with you guys like we all shared, that is really the idea.”

Without much more hesitation, Elmer stood up and started removing his pants very quickly. “Becky looked at me and said, “Well?” I really didn’t want for her to see how I paled in comparison to Elmer and was very reluctant. “Come on Becky said, OK here.” She then removed her top and to my surprise two very big breasts flopped out. I knew she had some decent size, but perhaps just like Elmer’s penis, you had no idea what was really hidden behind clothes as they were very large and beautifully shaped. My wife was not so hesitant after Becky removed her top and immediately took off her to too. Becky then proceeded to remove her shorts and a thong revealing what I liked a nice trimmed but not bald fluffy bush. I thought to myself she didn’t know that my wife hadn’t fully stripped when we she did oral on Elmer. However, my wife perhaps not to embarrass Becky followed her lead and stripped off her bottoms too. Elmer was already sticking out partially erect and so I was the only one still with clothes on. Come on my wife instructed me and so with some hidden reluctance I stripped. I was still pretty soft due to nervousness and I saw Becky give a good look at my cock but without much facial expression. The one thing clearly appearing different between Elmer and myself besides my smaller size than his was that I am circumcised. Becky moved right next to me and without any question took hold of my penis and sucked it into her mouth. She, in my mind, tried to pull on it like it would be Elmer’s stretching out real far but soon realized that my length would be considerably less expandable. She looked over at my wife and said “so this is what you guys were doing” looking at Elmer and her. Elmer looked at my wife and she started playing with Elmer’s cock while watching Becky and I. It was all happening so quickly and I wondered if Becky’s aggressiveness was because she had felt left out of an intimate situation.

I saw Elmer’s hands reach out to caress my wife’s breasts and so I did the same with Becky. She smiled at me and I weighed them in my hands as they really felt full and awesome. Becky whispered to me you can suck on them which I was wanting to do. So, I reached forward and placed her left breast in my mouth and she went “umm” encouraging me. My cock got instantly hard. However, I looked over to my wife not sure if she was OK with what I was doing. I turned my head to look at her and we winked at one another giving approval. Becky pushed me down onto my back and to my utter shock and dismay, she moved right on top and took my penis and sat right down on it entering fully into her vagina. She leaned forward and said, “I didn’t want it to go to waste” as she began bouncing up and down on it. I kind of lay there passively because this was not planned or what we all had just agreed to I looked over at Elmer and my wife and they in a 69 position with her sucking his cock and Elmer was licking her pussy. It was erotic to see and of course feeling Becky’s movements on my cock was very pleasurable. In fact, I tried to slow her down as again those fast harder movements make me cum too quickly. She leaned over me and said you feel nice. I said, “You feel awesome but I wasn’t sure after Elmer’s cock you would want something like mine.” She smiled but said nothing. Once or twice she moved too high up and my cock would fall out but she was reach and quickly put it back inside. Unfortunately, I simply couldn’t last and made a bit of a moan which had Elmer and my wife stop for a second to look over and watch.

Becky rose up off of me and then went over to get next to my wife and Elmer. She joined my wife in sucking his cock together which of course was easy for them to do because of his major length. However, very quickly Becky pushed Elmer down and climbed on top of him as she had done for me. This was wild as she was exposing herself fully to their intercourse and again I thought maybe she believed despite what had been shared that we had all fucked too. In one long slide down she took Elmer’s entire cock right to the hilt like a bottomless pit. My wife looked over at me with a shocked face. Becky immediately was moaning and making a lot of sounds she hadn't when I fucked her. However, she was not really paying any attention to either of us as we just watched. It was very erotic and exciting to see them go at it. It was fascinating for me to see someone I knew with Elmer, and so comfortable with all of this. Yes, we were friends, it was exciting that it was the old group of us again but nothing like this had ever occurred before. Elmer moved to switch positions to missionary but instead Becky pulled and away and said to my wife, “You have to experience this” as she grabbed Elmer’s cock holding it out. .My wife looked nervous looking over at me and sheepishly saying, “I don’t know.” I can’t explain it in writing but in the situation this was all happening so fast everything, we were in their place not ours so it was on their turf so to speak, they were not pressuring us but it felt like we shouldn’t say no, I wanted my wife to do it, I think she did too but it was where you didn’t have a lot of time to think. My wife perhaps being calmer said, “I don’t think I can handle that.” Becky turned back to Elmer (still holding his fully erect cock) and said to him, "you take your time and be gentle.” Elmer moved over to my wife who again looked over at me. Even though I had just cum I could feel myself getting really turned on and hard. Becky then also moved over to my wife, her friend, and held one arm around my wife’s back as my wife laid back. Becky was over her and with her other hand was stroking my wife’s hair. “Relax and enjoy” Becky looking down at my wife. Becky’s big tits were over my wife as Becky continued to lightly stroke her hair.
 
Elmer climbed between my wife’s legs and spread her legs wide apart while on his knees. I swear his penis was even bigger than what I had ever seen in the past. it looked like a huge battering ram. My wife closed her eyes and Elmer pulled his foreskin up over the head and pushed the skin right against my wife’s vagina. He said, “Don’t worry; I have a technique where it’s not going to hurt.” He then pushed where I assumed the head was sliding out of the skin into her vagina as my wife nervously bit her lip. The head of his cock (which was the biggest part of his penis) must of entered into her but I could see a lot of his penis exposed. He pushed a bit too fast and my wife let out a yelp opening her eyes wide. Becky said, “Take your time admonishing him” and looked down at her friend my wife still holding her. Elmer slowly moved back and forth and my wife said, “God it’s so big, I feel full is it all in me.” I said, “Not even half” and my wife sort of laughed and said, “Oh Shit-I’m a virgin again.” Elmer after a minute or two sort of only slightly moving started moving a little faster but it was uncomfortable for my wife as occasionally he would push too deep and she would buck up a little. However, he now had appeared to have gotten a good 6-7 of his thick cock inside. He reached down and pulled my wife’s pussy lips apart to further accommodate his girth. Becky now was holding my wife’s hand and still occasionally stroking her and whispered something to her that I couldn’t hear. When Becky reached down to whisper her big breasts would hang almost in my wife’s face. Elmer meanwhile was continuing to test the limits but mpw seemed to be sliding back and forth a bit more easily. I could see some of my wife’s juices on his long cock when he would pull back. The whole thing was surreal. Here was my best friend fucking my wife with her best friend comforting her. Elmer was doing his best to get fully inside and started doing this motion where he was like moving his penis right to left, left to right, back and forth inside her as if trying to open up more space deep. My wife started moaning and she was sweating although with her eyes closed appeared slowly getting lost in the sensations. On a few occasions she cried out in discomfort but Becky just cuddled her and I heard my wife say in a soft voice “it hurts but so good.” “Now things were really getting focused and intense. Elmer was starting to become that Mr. Hyde I like to describe becoming more animalistic and dominant. At once he reared back and just with great force shoved his penis fully inside. My wife let out a moan like I never heard, not painful, but like ecstasy. She actually was shedding some tears but they were like pleasure perhaps combined with a slight discomfort. Becky leaned over to whisper something again and to my continued surprise and amazement placed her left breast into my wife’s mouth. My wife did not pull away but began sucking her tit like a baby while Becky continued to nurture her. Now Elmer was completely possessed fucking her with powerful strokes and you could hear the moans and grunts from my wife as suddenly she shouted out, “Jesus Christ you are a good fuck, I’m cumming oh God I am cumming.” She shook as Elmer like a mad man was pistoning in and out of her. My wife had an obvious orgasm and after a few seconds suddenly pushed Elmer to stop. She said, "I want to turn over." Elmer withdrew and that huge penis I swear was deep purple and pulsating. I stared in awe, jealousy, and humiliation as I knew I could never match his size and sexual prowess.

To my suprise and amazement, my wife now face down, stuck her butt up in the air with her face cradled in the pillow. “Fuck me from behind Elmer.” We never really did this position inour own sex life. Now, my wife had no regard for herself with her asshole clearly visable in this position and vulnerable to his penis obviously capable of going in even deeper from this position. Elmer moved behind her and got above her so his penis sort of hung down and he slipped right in her vagina and when he went all the way in my wife let out a shout of pure pleasure. Elmer started fucking her holding onto her hips while Becky massaged her back and occasional even rubbed her ass. My wife was lost to the world with her face in the pillow mumbling and talking. “Elmer you penis is so fat it pulls on my clit without needing to touch it.” His size oh God Becky it feels so good, you were right this feels so good, and then saying a bit louder to me, “Honey he is hitting so deep, it feels like Elmer is so deep, so deep, I’m gonna cum again."

Now all of this left me with such mixed emotions. Seeing the huge penis of Elmer and the effect it was having on my wife was beyond exciting. The closeness of Becky and my wife in this sharing was as sensual as could be. But I also felt insecure and inadequate to ever being able to even closely achieve what Elmer could do sexually. He could fuck her so deep and hard, the way she liked the pounding where I couldn’t last. Elmer was hitting spots my cock would never come close to reaching and it was clear my wife was loving every inch of it, and he was possessing her sexually in such a Alpha male manner that I could only fantasize about. My wife was never fucked like this and never would be by me. I loved and admired Elmer and her for what was happening and yet equally jealous and with a penis envy of Elmer. I watched with jelousy and frustration on how much better endowed and sexually superior he was to me. It was clear that my wife was totally lost to the sensations that Elmer’s massive penis was causing and she had shed all inhibitions or caring about anything. Her moans and groans, and occasional comments such as OH MY God, or YOU are Filling me with a breathless expression were obvious. Elmer was also lost as his eyes were like glazed and he was pounding my wife with such force and lust with the bed shaking and the loud slapping of his balls against her. They were animals in heat and nothing else mattered. Finally, Elmer shouted he was cumming and then he pulled my wife so hard against his cock stretching her so deep she made sounds I had never heard from her in any way shape or form in our sexual intercourse. Finally, my wife’s body collapsed and for a moment I thought she might have fainted. Elmer pulled away with his big penis so long even though now slightly limp as if challenging me that you never can match this definition of maleness that I have so superior to yours. But, I was equally thrilled with all that happened and the pleasure that my wife enjoyed. Becky quickly went to grab a towel and returned with her big breasts bouncing and she proceeded to be wiping the sweat and juices off my wife. Elmer got up and went to the bathroom and Becky looked back at me looking to see if I was Ok. Maybe she was worried as she moved on the bed next to me and then gave me a kiss.

My wife finally moved and sat up about the same time Elmer walked back with his big uncircumcised masculine soft long dick swinging back and forth. He smiled at my wife and me. My wife, then said, “I love you guys; you are the best friends I have ever had.” “Elmer said, I am glad you enjoyed, I wanted to please you.” “Elmer, you did, amazing” and she turned to me and passionately kissed me and said, “Thank You Honey, no man is as wonderful as you, I love you all.” We sat around for a while talking about the next steps for Becky and Elmer concerning their engagement, talking about taking a trip together, but almost like ignoring all that had just happened. We actually didn’t stay that much longer and headed home.

In the car driving back, my wife and I were silent. “Are you OK” my wife finally asked. I said, “When we get home, I want to talk then but yes better than OK.” When we got inside our house I told my wife, “I want to fuck you so bad right now!” “Honey, I am kind of sore” she said. I explained to her that my desire for you is off the charts plus I want to talk about what it was like with Elmer. “OK, she said, but nothing rough, or too long.” “Don’t worry” I laughed. We quickly shed our clothes in the bedroom and without any preliminaries; I just easily went inside her. “Don’t be anything but honest on everything, OK” I said to her. “How does my dick feel now after Elmer’s?” “Right now”, she looked at me and I said “Yes.” It feels small, piddly” she laughed. I almost came right then. “Did his cock feel better than mine," I said with a slight quiver to my voice that I didn’t want to occur. My wife let out a breath, “Yes and no. I mean it was really intense but kind of painful too especially the first few minutes. But, I mean his dick is so big and thick it was pulling on my clit when he was fucking me and that made me orgasm twice and it felt really good like a continuous sensation after I came the first time. Occasionally though even then it would hurt if he moved the wrong way but then also it felt so good too, I don’t know how to explain it. It’s like he possessed me at some point so fully. But, I wouldn’t want to have to deal with that big penis all the time I much prefer your size. “But his dick felt better” you are saying, I repeated. "Yes, I mean honestly I felt everything; it was really intense but maybe because of the excitement of the situation too. I don’t know that I desire to do this again or if we ever do it has to be months from now. But, honey I am really sore, let me finish you off sucking you. I withdrew and she did make a facial grimace but I said just play with it as I want to talk. OK, as she started slowly jacking me. Were you shocked when Becky put her tit in your mouth? “She did”; my wife first questioned. "Oh yeah. To be honest I was getting fucked so deep and intense I hardly paid attention to anything else. It’s like he completely fills your being that you are not thinking or feeling anything else. It was nice though. Becky really was very kind and sweet. I mean didn’t you feel like we were all sharing. Maybe, instead I should be asking you what it was like to fuck her,” my wife laughed. I continued, “Does Elmer’s cock look better than mine?” “No I like how yours looks, well soft I guess his looks really impressive maybe intimidating, but your cock is better in appearance. I love yours honey, trust me. But, mine must look small to you now and you said it felt small. It does compared to Elmer’s but in a few days I will snap back. But, yes it’s a baby next to his she smiled, I mean his is twice as big, it's much longer, much thicker" she said very matter of factly and with that I came in a big squirt which she then put her mouth over my cock to complete the finish. I was pretty sure she said that to get me to cum like that time before, but it was also possible as it was simply true.

The next morning my wife said to me, “I think we shouldn’t do this again with them.” I love them both. We are all great friends and I think I will talk with Becky as we shouldn’t ruin things. I mean you are jealous of Elmer being so well-endowed and you shouldn’t be. It is best if this was a once in a lifetime experience amongst friends. Every woman wonders what sex might be like with a guy who has a really big penis. Now I know and that’s good enough. Agree?” “I guess you are right”, I said but secretly wanted it to happen at least once in a while again.
 
The entire episode of all that occurred with Elmer, Becky, my wife and me continued to be a sexual focus of mine. My wife I felt was rational about the whole situation, our friendships, our own relationship, etc. She was consistent in the focus of maintaining our friendships but not ever participating in any sexual adventures again.

We met Becky and Elmer perhaps a week and a half after our swinging adventure for dinner and discreetly my wife took the lead discussing her feelings. Becky and Elmer seemed to agree so I did publically as well. It wasn't too involved a discussion by any means and any further discussion about it was dropped. However, inwardly, this was not the case at all for me. I really didn't desire to fuck Becky again. I felt like it was silly for me to think I could even begin to satisfy her the way that Elmer could. I liked Becky, I thought her big tits were very exciting to touch and play with, but watching her reaction to my fucking her compared to Elmer hit home on the reality that sex was much better for her with him. Plus, if my wife felt the way she did about not repeating, it actually made that insecurity not much more of a thought. What stuck with me though was how Elmer had the ability to fuck so much better than me, was hung so much better than me, and although I had known this for some time, the way my wife responded made me think about his big dick fucking and pleasing her all the time. It was the greatest turnon for me to have seen her responses and it made me in an odd way appreciate my wife and find her even more sexy because of her participation. I even enjoyed how she compared our penises and the differences in sensations. She prettty much openly shared without it being something she found of any significance to desire or repeat. But, I did. I loved seeing her in such intensity sexually, and of course confirming that a skilled guy with a big penis does something for a woman that us normal sized guys doesn't do. Elmer's looks, height whatever were secondary. His power and prowess being so well endowed really was primary.

So, now it became a challenge for me, how could I convince my wife to do this again?
 
The entire episode of all that occurred with Elmer, Becky, my wife and me continued to be a sexual focus of mine. My wife I felt was rational about the whole situation, our friendships, our own relationship, etc. She was consistent in the focus of maintaining our friendships but not ever participating in any sexual adventures again.

We met Becky and Elmer perhaps a week and a half after our swinging adventure for dinner and discreetly my wife took the lead discussing her feelings. Becky and Elmer seemed to agree so I did publically as well. It wasn't too involved a discussion by any means and any further discussion about it was dropped. However, inwardly, this was not the case at all for me. I really didn't desire to fuck Becky again. I felt like it was silly for me to think I could even begin to satisfy her the way that Elmer could. I liked Becky, I thought her big tits were very exciting to touch and play with, but watching her reaction to my fucking her compared to Elmer hit home on the reality that sex was much better for her with him. Plus, if my wife felt the way she did about not repeating, it actually made that insecurity not much more of a thought. What stuck with me though was how Elmer had the ability to fuck so much better than me, was hung so much better than me, and although I had known this for some time, the way my wife responded made me think about his big dick fucking and pleasing her all the time. It was the greatest turnon for me to have seen her responses and it made me in an odd way appreciate my wife and find her even more sexy because of her participation. I even enjoyed how she compared our penises and the differences in sensations. She prettty much openly shared without it being something she found of any significance to desire or repeat. But, I did. I loved seeing her in such intensity sexually, and of course confirming that a skilled guy with a big penis does something for a woman that us normal sized guys doesn't do. Elmer's looks, height whatever were secondary. His power and prowess being so well endowed really was primary.

So, now it became a challenge for me, how could I convince my wife to do this again?

I can't wait for an update!!
Terrific writing!
 
Communication is the key in the lifestyle. Elmer and Becky had it right when they decided not to have any secrets. If you want to play again, you just need to discuss it with your wife.

I have an issue when guys ask how they "convince" their wives to play. You don't. It needs to be mutually agreed upon. You don't convince them. You discuss it and the two of you make the decision together.

Another option to consider is playing with a different couple than Elmer and Becky. Playing with close friends like that can, understandably, be concerning. All of our friends are in the lifestyle because that's how we've met them, so playing isn't an issue, but you have a different history and it might be best to let your thing be a one-night experience. Just find someone new to hook up with!