Neighbor

[aren88]

I have this neighbor who's always grabbing himself when we talk.

The other day, he was watering his plants and was definitely freeballing and sporting a semi while we were casually chatting. Didn't even bother hiding it.

He's a young dude, engaged to a woman, but I'm curious if he's sending some signals. Not saying he wants to fuck or anything, I'm just wondering if he probably has some curiosities. Anyone have ideas on how I could proceed with this?

Its pretty apparent to be honest, pretty much every time we talk, he's scratching his junk. Not the occasional scratch or adjustment, he reaches for his junk every few seconds.

 

[Notlikeskywalker]

I once joking asked a guy like that if he had crabs, he just said "nah, shaving rash".

 

[zeropointthree]

I don't know what do you exactly want to know about it.

 

[muslbud7]

Just mimic what he is doing. If he is interested you'll know after grabbing your junk a few times. Also, wouldn't hurt to say you are horny.

 

[ronin001]

I grew up in NY, personally I remember a few guys who subconsciously grabbed and adjusted their junk, when talking to others. I remember a coworker making a joke to a guy, as he was doing it. The junk adjuster, broke out in a laugh, as he did not realize he had touched himself. though he did it all the time

If you stop focusing on the neighbors his junk, when you talk, the situation , will probably eliminate itself. I have neighbors and we barely ever talk, other than a wave or a Hi. Is it a coincidence, that when he is outside, you happen to be outside ? Is he outside first; and rubs his balls and you magically appear, like a Jeanie from a lamp . OR are you outside and he magically appears to rub himself ?

As I love to give advice, be careful pushing boundaries, some once pushed, can not be reset to their original parameters. I leave you to figure out , what that means

 

[deleted703704]

My dad used to do it all the time
IE Play Pocket Billiards --- LOL

 

[Motion-of-the-Ocean]

Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar and an itch is just pubic lice. For some, every action is a sexual signal it seems .

 

[zeropointthree]

What is puzzling me is that everyone seems to be assuming that both (the author of the post and the neighbor) want something. But this is the "Ask a Straight Man" forum... Well

 

[SamMann75]

Never noticed my neighbor adjusting himself or notice anything else about his crotch. Then one very hot day he was working in the yard, he grabbed the hose and started rinsing his hands, then over his head... he stripped down and hosed himself off... from my distance you couldn't help notice how low his very thick cock hung. I watched him walk to the back door and an interaction with his wife before she grabbed it and tugged him inside.

After that everytime we talked I couldn't help glancing down to see if it was noticable... that's when I realized he was constantly adjusting himself. Finally I made a conscious effort to ignore my curiosity and not glance down... and I noticed that he stopped adjusting himself so much.

I don't know if he was even conscious about doing it or my glances, but maybe your neighbor is reacting to something you are doing?

 

[cofrader]

He's a young dude, engaged to a woman, but I'm curious if he's sending some signals.

Signal that he is using his tool to much with her?
He managed to get on a relation and engaged with a woman that means he can effectively comunícate his feelings and take the chance when he loves someone.
But with you you think he becomes shy with you and has to send rudimentary signals.
Don’t flatter yourself he is young and if you remember it was often no reason hardons. Perhaps what you consider a hardon is just him, I received stares and bad faces thinking I was hard but in time they realize it was just me.
Some men touches himself all the the time with no reason.
If you really want to know if your dead Schrodinger cat is dead be a man and ask him.

 

[jtheimpaler]

I have this neighbor who's always grabbing himself when we talk.

The other day, he was watering his plants and was definitely freeballing and sporting a semi while we were casually chatting. Didn't even bother hiding it.

He's a young dude, engaged to a woman, but I'm curious if he's sending some signals. Not saying he wants to fuck or anything, I'm just wondering if he probably has some curiosities. Anyone have ideas on how I could proceed with this?

Its pretty apparent to be honest, pretty much every time we talk, he's scratching his junk. Not the occasional scratch or adjustment, he reaches for his junk every few seconds.

In the U.K. it’s not uncommon for young men (particularly the type who favour matching tracksuits) to continually adjust themselves… or even put both hands in their trackers / trunks to either (I presume) keep their hands warm or check their dick hasn’t dropped off
I’m not talking every guy here, but it’s certainly not uncommon

tread carefully…. He may just make bad underwear choices

 

[twfarrell]

Could also be a nervous thing. It’s well known that when men feel nervous the body automatically begins to protect the parts of the body that are essential.

Or it could just be a pretty bad habit. We don’t know whether he does this always in his home and it’s must obviously more noticeable when he’s in public.

 

[Gj816]

I don't know maybe it's just me, but I don't pay any attention to my neighbors crotch. I guess I just figure we've both have the same equipment.

I work with a lot of men that are constantly grabbing their crotch. I don't read anything into it. Some are younger some are older. I guess they're doing it out of habit.

 

[jtheimpaler]

I don't know maybe it's just me, but I don't pay any attention to my neighbors crotch. I guess I just figure we've both have the same equipment.

I work with a lot of men that are constantly grabbing their crotch. I don't read anything into it. Some are younger some are older. I guess they're doing it out of habit.

I work in people’s houses and the other day a woman openned the door in her dressing gown with wet hair…. I think it’s a sign she wants my babies….

 

[deleted10814741]

In the U.K. it’s not uncommon for young men (particularly the type who favour matching tracksuits) to continually adjust themselves… or even put both hands in their trackers / trunks to either (I presume) keep their hands warm or check their dick hasn’t dropped off
I’m not talking every guy here, but it’s certainly not uncommon

tread carefully…. He may just make bad underwear choices

I heard that the act of doing this (hand down trousers amongst younger men) originated from gang culture - to signify there was a possibility of a weapon down there (an actual weapon )

 

[Mike hung]

Used to work with a dude who always unconsciously touched his junk all the time, when he was sat at break time he'd be chatting and shove his hand in his pants, the dude was straight, just a habit he'd formed and didn't even realise he was doing it unless someone called him out.
Hot weather I have to adjust myself anyway due to shit getting hot and sticky, probably nothing in it bro.

 

[Frozen Heart]

He is engaged to another person. Just ignore any real or imaginary signs and move on with your life.

 

[dreamer20]

He possibly has scabies:

Scabies | Symptoms, Diagnosis and Treatment | Patient

 

[Alex22876]

I have this neighbor who's always grabbing himself when we talk.

The other day, he was watering his plants and was definitely freeballing and sporting a semi while we were casually chatting. Didn't even bother hiding it.

He's a young dude, engaged to a woman, but I'm curious if he's sending some signals. Not saying he wants to fuck or anything, I'm just wondering if he probably has some curiosities. Anyone have ideas on how I could proceed with this?

Its pretty apparent to be honest, pretty much every time we talk, he's scratching his junk. Not the occasional scratch or adjustment, he reaches for his junk every few seconds.

nervous habit I am sure. There are people that say it is subconscious or something but I just think it is a lack of awareness and self control