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Welcome to the site. I had a similar path to you - very very small flaccid size, actually even smaller at 1.5 inches and with a Big bush which covers most of it! I used to avoid any situation where others might see how tiny my soft cock was but once I got over that I found I actually enjoyed the contrast with a large or average sized flaccid cock. Viva la diference.
 
Hey man. Glad to hear that you've learned to become comfortable with your size. I'm about the same size as you. I'm also not into SPH, but very open about my size. I'm also totally open about nudity wherever it's appropriate, including open showers, which I've been using for years. It wasn't my choice to have a small dick, but it is my choice to be totally confident in situations where other men see it. Feel free to hit me up if you want to compare notes