New to bottoming, taking a big piece

[Ilikedogs66]

Hey guys, was wondering if you could help me out.

I am pretty new to bottoming, prior to my current boyfriend I had maybe done it once or twice, otherwise I always topped. The reasons for this is I have a nice dick (7 in BWC/thick) and I’m 6’7. Most people see this and think I should be the top, and I liked topping so I just went with the flow

Enter my wonderful boyfriend 10 months ago. He is 6’4, and has a 9 in dick (BBC). We started off with me topping, but he quickly “turned me out” by playing with my butt more and more. I know a lot of people think the taller guy should top, but my bf and I agreed the guy with the bigger dick should be topping in our relationship (and our heights are similar anyways).

I LOVE being a slut for that dick. Idk what it is, I just feel so proud to take it and not be a little bitch boy about the size (for the most part). We also agreed we’re going to keep testing my limits (deepthroating the thing, taking harder and longer poundings)

However, I’m finding it difficult to enjoy it and take it for super long unless I am in a position where he or I can jerk myself off. Obviously some positions it just doesn’t work to get at my dick. And then my dick goes flaccid, and I’m relying more on the prostate for pleasure. But god does that just get intense/I can only go for so long.

So long story short, any tips for helping me enjoy from pure anal? Is it a mind over matter thing, more moisturizing/lube down there, breaks?

Anyone who helps us might get a little peek at the action

 

[altaa_sa]

Botox

 

[sluT4_hungtops]

In my opinion there are several things happening all at once here. (speaking in generalities so please guys, dont try to pick apart my every word)
He brought out the bottom in you and he's still bringing more and more of it out. Many tops don't want you messing with your dick while they're fucking you silly. They want you to focus on getting the pleasure you derive from your hole, not your dick. He's testing your limits and going to be stretching them even more than he's going to stretch out your hole! (I'm not the only guy in here reading this and saying, "you lucky Son of a ..... I'd love to trade places with you!") He's likely going to teach you many more things, more than you ever dreamed! I think you should talk with him about the awesome sex you guys are having and amid that discussion mention some questions you've got. It is imperative that you keep the communication going when you have questions, concerns or if you are confused.

If you asked him, he'd probably tell you he gets an incredible rush just showing you all these new things. If you don't give him feedback on what drives you wild and what doesn't then he has no way to gauge how each new experiment is impacting you. That will lead to problems. He may do more of the kinds of things that don't turn you on and may overlook the things that do turn your crank! There is something to be said for prostate orgasms. Coming hands free is amazing and it can happen much more frequently if you let it happen. He may at some point bring toys into the mix or slings, etc. He may invite a fellow top over (or two or three) to join in the fun training you. He may decide to experiment with 3somes, 4somes, and moresomes!

Be open but be honest on how each experiment impacts you. He'll appreciate it if it is honest, sincere feedback and not simply a list of good and bad things that happened. The other issue is size. His XXL dick is going to take some time for you to get used to it. For awhile, focus on relaxing your hole and not worrying about your dick as much. If you feel your dick is being left out too much, let him know you need to get your nut too. He sounds like he is a guy that wants to bring you all sorts of pleasure. He may want to continue stretching you out to the point he can invite other tops over to double penetrate you or even fist you! Enjoy it all and know we are all terribly jealous of your good fortune.... I'm half kidding. We envy your opportunity here and I think many of us want to be here for you. So, please make sure you check back in VERY frequently and let us know how things are going.....and be sure to tell us all the sordid details......don't leave any of the hot stuff out. And if you find you need help, I bet a few of us would be willing to make the ultimate sacrifice and play 2nd string to spell you when you're in need of a break. (Just kidding....sort of lol) Have fun!!

 

[chrisrobin]

They want you to focus on getting the pleasure you derive from your hole, not your dick. He's testing your limits and going to be stretching them even more than he's going to stretch out your hole! (I'm not the only guy in here reading this and saying, "you lucky Son of a ..... I'd love to trade places with you!") He's likely going to teach you many more things, more than you ever dreamed! I think you should talk with him about the awesome sex you guys are having and amid that discussion mention some questions you've got. It is imperative that you keep the communication going when you have questions, concerns or if you are confused.
If you don't give him feedback on what drives you wild and what doesn't then he has no way to gauge how each new experiment is impacting you. That will lead to problems. He may do more of the kinds of things that don't turn you on and may overlook the things that do turn your crank! There is something to be said for prostate orgasms. Coming hands free is amazing and it can happen much more frequently if you let it happen. He may at some point bring toys into the mix or slings.
For awhile, focus on relaxing your hole and not worrying about your dick as much. If you feel your dick is being left out too much, let him know you need to get your nut too. Enjoy it all and know we are all terribly jealous of your good fortune.

I agree that maybe the crux of the matter is you are so used to being a top where its your cock in focus you now have the same view as a bottom. A bottom needs to please a top, to give a top all the pleasure it can get from screwin g a tight butt balls deep, your focus should be on how you give that pleasure, and once there you'll find you dont lose your erection, and if you tell him your cock needs a bit of fun as well I'm surfe he'll help out if needs be.
The main thing is to concentrate on enjoying that great feeling of a guy you love or fancy filling your body with his hard cock, and, eventually cum!
My fuck buddy called this morning, nice thick dick and 7.5 - 8". He took me over the sink, undressed me and then did the deed, nibbling my neck and breathing deep, his hands found muy cock and balls and nipples and then, at his climax both hands pulled me in close for deepest penetration and yep, my cock spurted spunkd, my sphinctre felt his cock tense as he shot his load inside me, awsome, and while I concentrated on enjoying his cock, his body on mine, my cock acted with spontinaeity.

 

[nottsbottom]

I took my first XXL dick recently. 9.5 and thick, I was genuinely quite worried. In most scenarios I'm able to jack myself off whilst getting fucked but Jesus the intensity of the pounding and the size just turned me into a braindead moaning machine.

In my personal preference it doesn't bother me if i cum or not, the sensation of being pounded is what i focus on and pleasing the top. To repeat above, focus on the pleasure that doesn't involve your cock, figure out way to make him squirm and find the best position for you both. (mine was legs up behind my head but results may vary)

I was very close to coming just from the pleasure alone, I'm hoping next time i reach that point. When you figure that out with your partner you'll be inseparable

Also i don't think it'll be regular for me I'm still aching! (in the best way)

 

[DaveNorth]

Vaseline, dear.

 

[Fiffiboy]

Hey guys, was wondering if you could help me out.

I am pretty new to bottoming, prior to my current boyfriend I had maybe done it once or twice, otherwise I always topped. The reasons for this is I have a nice dick (7 in BWC/thick) and I’m 6’7. Most people see this and think I should be the top, and I liked topping so I just went with the flow

Enter my wonderful boyfriend 10 months ago. He is 6’4, and has a 9 in dick (BBC). We started off with me topping, but he quickly “turned me out” by playing with my butt more and more. I know a lot of people think the taller guy should top, but my bf and I agreed the guy with the bigger dick should be topping in our relationship (and our heights are similar anyways).

I LOVE being a slut for that dick. Idk what it is, I just feel so proud to take it and not be a little bitch boy about the size (for the most part). We also agreed we’re going to keep testing my limits (deepthroating the thing, taking harder and longer poundings)

However, I’m finding it difficult to enjoy it and take it for super long unless I am in a position where he or I can jerk myself off. Obviously some positions it just doesn’t work to get at my dick. And then my dick goes flaccid, and I’m relying more on the prostate for pleasure. But god does that just get intense/I can only go for so long.

So long story short, any tips for helping me enjoy from pure anal? Is it a mind over matter thing, more moisturizing/lube down there, breaks?

Anyone who helps us might get a little peek at the action

Hey guys, was wondering if you could help me out.

I am pretty new to bottoming, prior to my current boyfriend I had maybe done it once or twice, otherwise I always topped. The reasons for this is I have a nice dick (7 in BWC/thick) and I’m 6’7. Most people see this and think I should be the top, and I liked topping so I just went with the flow

Enter my wonderful boyfriend 10 months ago. He is 6’4, and has a 9 in dick (BBC). We started off with me topping, but he quickly “turned me out” by playing with my butt more and more. I know a lot of people think the taller guy should top, but my bf and I agreed the guy with the bigger dick should be topping in our relationship (and our heights are similar anyways).

I LOVE being a slut for that dick. Idk what it is, I just feel so proud to take it and not be a little bitch boy about the size (for the most part). We also agreed we’re going to keep testing my limits (deepthroating the thing, taking harder and longer poundings)

However, I’m finding it difficult to enjoy it and take it for super long unless I am in a position where he or I can jerk myself off. Obviously some positions it just doesn’t work to get at my dick. And then my dick goes flaccid, and I’m relying more on the prostate for pleasure. But god does that just get intense/I can only go for so long.

So long story short, any tips for helping me enjoy from pure anal? Is it a mind over matter thing, more moisturizing/lube down there, breaks?

Anyone who helps us might get a little peek at the action

I know in my case I now always use a 12 inch very thick squirting dildo when I jerk off. It was not easy to put it up my ass at first but now I can easily shove it in. Go slowly and get your asshole stretched every day and you will see you won't have a problem.

 

[Fiffiboy]

Hello. And believe me my asshole is really super super small and super tight. But but getting it stretched every day for a week it will really loosen up and you will have no problem taking huge thick cocks up your ass. If you would like to see how small and tight my pussy is I have a photo

 

[Fiffiboy]

Hello. And believe me my asshole is really super super small and super tight. But but getting it stretched every day for a week it will really loosen up and you will have no problem taking huge thick cocks up your ass. If you would like to see how small and tight my pussy is I have a photo

 

[Fiffiboy]

I also trained my mouth and throat with the same dido. .love to suck on it after I fuck myself with it

 

[hiter]

Hello. And believe me my asshole is really super super small and super tight. But but getting it stretched every day for a week it will really loosen up and you will have no problem taking huge thick cocks up your ass. If you would like to see how small and tight my pussy is I have a photo

Welp, drop pics

 

[woodyq]

I took my first XXL dick recently. 9.5 and thick, I was genuinely quite worried. In most scenarios I'm able to jack myself off whilst getting fucked but Jesus the intensity of the pounding and the size just turned me into a braindead moaning machine.

In my personal preference it doesn't bother me if i cum or not, the sensation of being pounded is what i focus on and pleasing the top. To repeat above, focus on the pleasure that doesn't involve your cock, figure out way to make him squirm and find the best position for you both. (mine was legs up behind my head but results may vary)

I was very close to coming just from the pleasure alone, I'm hoping next time i reach that point. When you figure that out with your partner you'll be inseparable

Also i don't think it'll be regular for me I'm still aching! (in the best way)

hopefully you recovered by now hahaha

 

[nottsbottom]

Just about! Here's a cheeky pic of the encounter

 

[DaveNorth]

Just about! Here's a cheeky pic of the encounter View attachment 191772811

Boasting!

 

[WilliamG]

Also i don't think it'll be regular for me I'm still aching! (in the best way)

Well I could use that kind of regular!

My dick goes completely soft when I bottom. I used to be concerned about it (too many fake porn images). But after finding out the cum still pours out of me when I do cum on the bottom... Mission accomplished.

 

[Alex Sommers]

Just curious. Is it really typical for one guy to be the top and the other the bottom in a relationship? I wouldn't think the size of the guy or the size of the dick would matter much. It seems more gay men prefer bottoming to topping.

My preference is topping, but if I was in a relationship -- I'd consider bottoming as I don't feel one of a couple should expect to be a strict top -- unless his partner prefers it that way.

 

[nottsbottom]

Just curious. Is it really typical for one guy to be the top and the other the bottom in a relationship? I wouldn't think the size of the guy or the size of the dick would matter much. It seems more gay men prefer bottoming to topping.

My preference is topping, but if I was in a relationship -- I'd consider bottoming as I don't feel one of a couple should expect to be a strict top -- unless his partner prefers it that way.

Personally if i were to be in a relationship I would prefer to be the bottom for the majority of instances, but i think once you are in a serious relationship options should be explored with each other, both giving and receiving to figure out what makes each other tick

 

[robl76]

Just curious. Is it really typical for one guy to be the top and the other the bottom in a relationship? I wouldn't think the size of the guy or the size of the dick would matter much. It seems more gay men prefer bottoming to topping.

My preference is topping, but if I was in a relationship -- I'd consider bottoming as I don't feel one of a couple should expect to be a strict top -- unless his partner prefers it that way.

Depends on the relationship and how it works out between a couple.

Most of my relationships, we've both been versatile and liked doing it either way. I had one relationship where I was almost exclusively bottom as he often found it too uncomfortable taking me - and we tried a few positions etc.

Now in relationship where I am exclusively top. But we do have the occasional threesome or group sex, so I still get fucked occasionally. I only really like being fucked in two situations:

1. In the middle between two guys (Another guy starts fucking me while I'm fucking. This is super horny.)

2. Pinned down flat, face down and fucked. If he's got big strong arms to hold me down so I can't go anywhere while he's fucking me, the better.

I will try other positions but have to be super horny and ready for it.

So I think for me it's mostly about mood and position. I enjoy being a top though for the most part.

 

[huntervey23]

Hey guys, was wondering if you could help me out.

I am pretty new to bottoming, prior to my current boyfriend I had maybe done it once or twice, otherwise I always topped. The reasons for this is I have a nice dick (7 in BWC/thick) and I’m 6’7. Most people see this and think I should be the top, and I liked topping so I just went with the flow

Enter my wonderful boyfriend 10 months ago. He is 6’4, and has a 9 in dick (BBC). We started off with me topping, but he quickly “turned me out” by playing with my butt more and more. I know a lot of people think the taller guy should top, but my bf and I agreed the guy with the bigger dick should be topping in our relationship (and our heights are similar anyways).

I LOVE being a slut for that dick. Idk what it is, I just feel so proud to take it and not be a little bitch boy about the size (for the most part). We also agreed we’re going to keep testing my limits (deepthroating the thing, taking harder and longer poundings)

However, I’m finding it difficult to enjoy it and take it for super long unless I am in a position where he or I can jerk myself off. Obviously some positions it just doesn’t work to get at my dick. And then my dick goes flaccid, and I’m relying more on the prostate for pleasure. But god does that just get intense/I can only go for so long.

So long story short, any tips for helping me enjoy from pure anal? Is it a mind over matter thing, more moisturizing/lube down there, breaks?

Anyone who helps us might get a little peek at the action

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2. Do what you feel?
3. Ask your boyfriend, what he does.