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jeremyA

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I was just wondering if any other guys have had this happen and what they do about it.I would class myself as bisexual and have had one or two times when i wanked/sucked and generaly got nekkid with male friends.This one guy who I have had fantasies about for years is very very cute and funny, we finaly got down to erm... stuff and he hs the nastiest stub of a penis and well i wont go into deatials but it was not clean and he was clearly embarresed and so was I and it all ended badly and he has been avoiding me because of this and I feel terrible about it.I kind of wish it had never happend and I could go back to just fantasising about him.Thats it really, I didnt actualy say anything nasty to him about it but...maybe I am shallow.
 
jeremyA said:
I was just wondering if any other guys have had this happen and what they do about it.I would class myself as bisexual and have had one or two times when i wanked/sucked and generaly got nekkid with male friends.This one guy who I have had fantasies about for years is very very cute and funny, we finaly got down to erm... stuff and he hs the nastiest stub of a penis and well i wont go into deatials but it was not clean and he was clearly embarresed and so was I and it all ended badly and he has been avoiding me because of this and I feel terrible about it.I kind of wish it had never happend and I could go back to just fantasising about him.Thats it really, I didnt actualy say anything nasty to him about it but...maybe I am shallow.

If it walks like a duck, if it talks like a duck...its a duck.

In this case its a dick, and a dirty dick is a dirty dick no two ways about it. I wouldn't consider it shallow at all, also respectful that you didn't embarress him with it either.
 
I agree. You can do better. Find someone who has enough self-respect to keep themselves clean.
 
are you serious? it has nothing to do with you being shallow! you simply made an observation - an observation that was very much in your best interest. if the man wasn't a clean man, you are in no way obligated to wear a blindfold and pretend everything is splendid.

if anything you did him a favor by not continuing to pursue him sexually. perhaps this will make him situp and take notice of his physical hygiene and, speedily i hope, rectify the problem.
 
windtalkerways said:
Just goes to show though...when it
comes to friends...it's often best to
just keep it in the realm of fantasy.
i agree with that statement, but not for the same reason. the guy could have very well been clean! then what? there our theory goes - out the window.

the guy just should just take care of himself better
 
Why would anyone get to the point where they're whipping it out if they knows it's dirty? If I was him I'd have told you it wasn't a good time and make sure I was good and clean for the next time you offered. There's no excuse for not keeping your genitals clean anyway. That's worse than someone expecting you to kiss them that doesn't brush their teeth. Turning that down isn't shallow at all, it's just good sense.
 
I encountered this once. Nice guy, cute, smart, well dressed...and yet in the car I kept getting an (almost) whiff of something...later when I went to blow him, all he had to do was open his pants and take his thing out and it about knocked me over. DAMN!!!! Needless to say I held my breath and gave him a vigorous wank and then he took me home. Surprise, I never went out with him again.
 
You may do well to initiate your next encounter where you can incorporate a shower into the festivities!

Showering is good, clean fun!

:smile:
 
showering sounds like a good plan,some of my friends you would have to not bend over if you dropped the soap :rolleyes:
 
Like Sorc, I'm clean-obsessed. I won't get my lips around anything I know hasn't been showered first!!! Bitter experience has shown me that while a guy might look cute and talk the talk, doesn't mean he's got a beautiful, sweet-smelling cock in his pants! I always make sure they're clean first. Showering together is all part of the foreplay!
 
carter2006 said:
Like Sorc, I'm clean-obsessed. I won't get my lips around anything I know hasn't been showered first!!! Bitter experience has shown me that while a guy might look cute and talk the talk, doesn't mean he's got a beautiful, sweet-smelling cock in his pants! I always make sure they're clean first. Showering together is all part of the foreplay!
My number one peeve is a dirty hole but cheesy cock is right up there.
 
I havent actualy vanished I was just lurking.
and having problems with my PC blowing up.