Nice Guy or Bad Boy?

[Wildbig]

All things equal, which do you prefer? Which are you most attracted to? Which are you most likely to pursue? Please explain.

 

[Jillang]

Easy, nice guy. I don't need all the drama that goes with "bad boys" plus I like slow and steady. If I want excitement or some kind of adrenaline rush once in a while I'll drive fast in the snow or something

 

[MickeyLee]

grown-ass man.


grown-ass man with a sense of humor.

nice guys are usually passive aggressive in disguise
bad boy have more issues than readers digest
*shudder*

 

[Kotchanski]

Guy who can't be summed up using only two words!

 

[Mercurygirl]

Nice guy in public, bad boy in bed.

 

[julesq]

I am SOOOOOOO with Mercurygirl.

 

[deleted803568]

Let me translate. When questions like this are asked, there's code language being used. When people say "nice guy," they really mean unassertive and lacking confidence.
The REAL answer is nice guy with charm and confidence. Bad has nothing to do with it.

All things equal, which do you prefer? Which are you most attracted to? Which are you most likely to pursue? Please explain.

 

[Wildbig]

I appreciate the translation, but I was really getting at the appearance, and to a lesser degree, attitude. But I really wanted your opinions, not mine. And part of that is the definitions of each.