Let me let you in on a little secret: comments are not indicative of somethings success. There is a reason videos can have millions of views and only like 100,000 comments. Loud minorities in comments means nothing in the grand scheme of things. We live in a heteronormative society and the closest to that in gay sex is a masculine top and fem bottom(not saying it is the correct or only way but it is what sells the most).
You however, seem love to project your disdain of fems as if everyone thinks like you lol when you can idk just not watch the video. Just like your favorite network you don't have to like or watch every show they put out. Did your man leave you for a fem or something? Cause that's what it's giving.