Not good enough to be a top

[deleted8143341]

I've been feeling really insecure about my dick size lately. I have gotten responses from guys who tell me that it is too small or not really worthy of going in them (I'm a top). When I hook up with guys, it seems like hung guys are always the top priority. Other than that, I see a lot of guys having a preference for uncut dicks with lots of foreskin. I feel like my dick is very flawed. A lot of guys in my area have decent sized peckers, and not to mention, with lots of foreskin. It's so hard not to feel like you are so worthless next to a top with that kind of dick.

On top of all of that, I have a very small body frame so topping would make me look awkward and I don't look manly enough. Should I just embrace the fact that I'll never be a good top?

 

[deleted8493621]

I know how you feel. I have tried to top but I always cum immediately I enter a guy's arse. Your dick is beautiful, and I would love to worship it and suck it till completion. Don't be hard on yourself sexy man

 

[deleted3995701]

I'm mainly a bottom and I've sat on a fuck ton of cocks. Big dick fills me in a way that guys with average or smaller just can't and the sex is still good.

When I'm with a guy that had a average/smaller cock, they still hit my prostate, usually more often. They still scrambled my brains, one dude with a 4 inch dick had me drooling and braindead it was so good.

Don't worry about being a good top based on what others might think they want for size. Be a good person and fuck like you're getting paid for it. Enjoy sex and learn to laugh at how funny it can be.

I ain't got no dicks to play with today and all the cock sizes would be welcome.

 

[nhguy78]

I've been feeling really insecure about my dick size lately. I have gotten responses from guys who tell me that it is too small or not really worthy of going in them (I'm a top). When I hook up with guys, it seems like hung guys are always the top priority. Other than that, I see a lot of guys having a preference for uncut dicks with lots of foreskin. I feel like my dick is very flawed. A lot of guys in my area have decent sized peckers, and not to mention, with lots of foreskin. It's so hard not to feel like you are so worthless next to a top with that kind of dick.

On top of all of that, I have a very small body frame so topping would make me look awkward and I don't look manly enough. Should I just embrace the fact that I'll never be a good top?

A lot of that is societal expectations and has no basis in reality of what kind of top you are. I'm max 6" and I've made my husband cum handsfree.

 

[halcyondays]

Of course you're good enough. The fact that you are topping guys proves it.

Are those who judge you on your size and circ status even worth your time?

As for body size I'm 6'2 and have been topped by guys a foot or more shorter and small-framed. If I like the look out a guy I don't care about height or cock size. Most guys have cocks which are about average. It is what I expect. And enjoy.

I get that many guys shop for big dick. I have one. Don't let them make you feel less about yourself.

 

[titapetita]

Our dicks are pretty similar and I've always been afraid I wasn't enough to top anyone. Turns out my bf wants me to be the top in our relationship (even tho his dick is bigger) and he enjoys it and cums from me thrusting his hole. I've offered him to fuck other guys, bigger guys, so he can feel a big cock, but he has enough with mine.

So, you are good with your size. People can be picky and stupid, but if you go for it, you can perform like the rest of the cocks out there.

As for your frame, some people are into twinks fucking muscle, so, don't worry about it.

 

[chrisrobin]

I know how you feel. I have tried to top but I always cum immediately I enter a guy's arse. Your dick is beautiful, and I would love to worship it and suck it till completion. Don't be hard on yourself sexy man

I know how you feel about cumming a guy's arse as soon as you get stuck in, it happens and it has nothing to do with the size of your weapon. I've had big nobs screw me who didn't even get fully in before shooting their load and then feeling embarrassed because with the size they felt they should have lasted longer. For me I don't care, cum quick or cum after a whole, I just love the cum where it's delivered.

 

[deleted8493621]

I know how you feel about cumming a guy's arse as soon as you get stuck in, it happens and it has nothing to do with the size of your weapon. I've had big nobs screw me who didn't even get fully in before shooting their load and then feeling embarrassed because with the size they felt they should have lasted longer. For me I don't care, cum quick or cum after a whole, I just love the cum where it's delivered.

Totally agree Chrisrobin - was with a horny mate in the woods a few weeks ago - he was playing with my arse and fingering and such, then he started on pushing his cock up inside me and immediately he filled me with cum - it was amazing actually and super horny - I shot immediately too

 

[chrisrobin]

Totally agree Chrisrobin - was with a horny mate in the woods a few weeks ago - he was playing with my arse and fingering and such, then he started on pushing his cock up inside me and immediately he filled me with cum - it was amazing actually and super horny - I shot immediately too

Its the ability to be able to take cock, get a guy so worked up he cums as soon as his head is in that is really wild, a cum filling doesn't always need to involve a lot of fucking and yes, knowing he';s cum in you no wonder you spunked as well - hands free?

 

[deleted8493621]

yes!

 

[18wheeler]

I’ve never been fucked by a man… yet. But my dildo is only 6” and the best feeling part is the 1st few inches inside me……. I’m sure your cock feels amazing.

 

[chrisrobin]

yes!

Hands free, right on mate, perfect way to spunk

 

[chrisrobin]

I’ve never been fucked by a man… yet. But my dildo is only 6” and the best feeling part is the 1st few inches inside me……. I’m sure your cock feels amazing.

A lot is made of size, how thick how long and how far in the guy can penetrate you but you're right, just his cock head inside can do the trick and can feel awesome

 

[deleted18388141]

those who said all that non sense to you are really pathetic!
I feel people are derranged nowdays! how dare they tell you such stupide non sens;
I got huge dicks and very small dicks.. I never made a preference to be honest!
because if we speak about size, i guess donkeys would have the big one.
I had a very good relation with a guy under average zise, it was good! it has nothing to do with size... just confidence! and connexion and fun...
give anyone who dare to say that this answer ; or maybe you are too wide that it's a question of what might fit you... how about a bottle of wine, i pay.
give them no importance
live your sexuality, let no one look up upon you that s really sick

 

[nhguy78]

Keep this conversation watched. Come back to this when you find a size queen or you see others on this very website who say "bigger is better." The guys who responded here are beautiful people.

 

[CraigS41]

I know how you feel. I have tried to top but I always cum immediately I enter a guy's arse. Your dick is beautiful, and I would love to worship it and suck it till completion. Don't be hard on yourself sexy man

I have the same problem when trying to top. I tend to cum as soon as I get all the way in, a few times on the way in, and it's frustrating to say the least

 

[deleted18388141]

I have the same problem when trying to top. I tend to cum as soon as I get all the way in, a few times on the way in, and it's frustrating to say the least

Is it an excitement thing?

 

[EverettW]

I've been feeling really insecure about my dick size lately. I have gotten responses from guys who tell me that it is too small or not really worthy of going in them (I'm a top). When I hook up with guys, it seems like hung guys are always the top priority. Other than that, I see a lot of guys having a preference for uncut dicks with lots of foreskin. I feel like my dick is very flawed. A lot of guys in my area have decent sized peckers, and not to mention, with lots of foreskin. It's so hard not to feel like you are so worthless next to a top with that kind of dick.

On top of all of that, I have a very small body frame so topping would make me look awkward and I don't look manly enough. Should I just embrace the fact that I'll never be a good top?

Have you considered bottoming?

 

[CraigS41]

Is it an excitement thing?

I honestly don't know. There has been only twice, many years apart where I was able to really enjoy being inside a guy's ass and actually fuck for several minutes (Which seemed like a VERY long time)

 

[deleted18388141]

I honestly don't know. There has been only twice, many years apart where I was able to really enjoy being inside a guy's ass and actually fuck for several minutes (Which seemed like a VERY long time)

Maybe it s something the doctor could help you out with.. sometimes it s mechanical or ober sensitivity