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So, I posted an ad looking for a roommate to find an apartment with. I hit it off with one woman, and we've been hanging out a lot, and found an apartment that we're in the process of locking down. In conversation, I mentioned a story related to LPSG when I was a more active member. I didn't want to mention the site, because I thought it would be in poor taste, but she insisted, and I didn't give the name, but I told her it was a site for well-endowed men. She didn't focus too much on that, because the story itself was interesting.

I'm obviously not looking to sleep with my roommate (don't shit where you eat, you know) but I'm wondering if when we're hanging out at local bars or when friends come over, if word will circulate, from your experiences if you've confided about size to a woman you're friendly with. Any women reading this who've been in situations like this, I'd especially welcome your opinions on what is running through your head when someone you're friendly with, who you won't have sex with because it would be a bad idea, mentions this.
 

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I was just thinking about you the other day. Hope all is well. In answer to the question, it depends entirely on the type of person she is. I am very discreet about sensitive issues and things that really are not the business of anyone else. But I have been on the receiving end of others lack of discretion and/or becoming chatty after a few too many drinks, my best friend from school loved to talk about my dick in bars after a few too many and I simply asked him to stop as in most cases his announcements were inappropriate and embarrassing.
Wishing you and your new roomie the best!
 

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Well, all I know is that the next time we hang out, we promised to dish dirt on all of our ex's. I can also think of a previous girlfriend who admitted to me that she went around telling all of her friends about my size (of course, we slept together, she didn't simply hear about it). To be honest, I wouldn't really mind it if she did mention it because I am pretty busy between work and other projects, and don't put in the amount of effort I'd like to find a new partner. The women I know tend to be about 5 years younger than me, and pretty immature and fun-loving and kind of alternative (I loathe ascribing to them the term "hipster").
 
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First off if a guy told me he was hung I wouldn't believe him and just think he was trying to embellish himself to have sex with me. Not that that would somehow sway me. Guys who've said that with girls in earshot are usually just having a laugh, you know, "Boy the water is sure cold in that toilet" type of thing. To then speak about it later with my friends just isn't going to happen. That is, unless you're a jerk/perv and I tell them you came on to me and alluded, bragged about, having a big dick. But if you're a cool guy, I'm becoming friends with you, I'm not going to say a word. I'm just going to think it odd you revealed to me you visit such a forum. Not that you visiting it is odd, to each his own, it's just why the hell would you tell someone you just met such personal info? To be honest I think you'd freak me out with such a comment and I'd have to question on whether being your roommate is such a good idea.
 

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Well, of course, that makes sense. I didn't want to mention it. I agree exactly with what you said, Mercurygirl. I hemmed and hawed, until she basically made me blabber on, because we were talking about bi-curiosity, and I blabbed that I had an encounter from a site. She wanted context....

However, now she said to me the other night while we were hanging out that "I'm just putting this out there, we're going to hook up at some point" - I basically said that may not be a good idea because of my shining star who burns out quick pattern in relationships/hookups. The truth is I want to hook up with her, as well. I don't know if she thinks the comment was true or false. I think she doesn't care about it, tbh, from getting to know her. I think she is saying that not because of any comment of my size but because we're both nerdy eccentric young gentry and the chemistry is quite apparent.
 

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I have told female friends before
I'm not 100% sure what you are asking tho
if it freaked her out or if she wanted it I don't know I had been friends with her for some time tho it wasn't like I had just met her