I’d love to have a brother like that. No inhibitions or insecurities. Goals.
Nude bonding
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I’d love to have a brother like that. No inhibitions or insecurities. Goals.
Yup! ALL guys need "brothers" like that, but there are so many restrictions on what it is to be a "man" that it can be difficult. Men need that intimacy desperately.
I believe we change it with our own behavior.
1) When you are one on one with a guy friend, take a little risk and directly ask him how he's doing. Rub your hand up and down his back to ease tension. Every once and a while, give a guy friend a bear hug with your arms around his waist.
2) When and where it's appropriate (the locker room, changing into bathing suits, etc,), don't be afraid to show one's naked self to a guy friend . Don't hide one's cock, don't do a towel dance -- just talk and look directly at your friend.
1) When you are one on one with a guy friend, take a little risk and directly ask him how he's doing. Rub your hand up and down his back to ease tension. Every once and a while, give a guy friend a bear hug with your arms around his waist.
2) When and where it's appropriate (the locker room, changing into bathing suits, etc,), don't be afraid to show one's naked self to a guy friend . Don't hide one's cock, don't do a towel dance -- just talk and look directly at your friend.
Well said HotBulge! I'm always relaxed about giving my mates hugs and the like..and if I've been to a gym / pool / sauna with them, I never act shy, I just strip totally, never hide with a towel - it should, and is, the most natural thing. I've even m
One of my 'fantasy' holidays would be having enough money to take about 20 of my good male friends on a holiday to somewhere warm and tropical. I'd have a large private villa with pool, jacuzzi, steam/sauna, communal showers, etc. I'd pay for the entire thing - the only condition is that we would all be totally naked 24/7 for the entire time we are there. I'd have a group undressing event and then that would be it - no clothes until we leave two weeks later.
No expectation that sex would or must take place, but again, no issues if it did either - so long as it's all consensual and out in the open for all to enjoy. I just want a full on male bonding holiday. I've mentioned it to a select few and they would totally do it (even if I didn't pay)....and some of I've seen nude already - but most I've not, but would like to.
The nearest I go to this was in Italy about 20 years ago, me and three mates spent 10 days there - hired a private home with a pool - the weather was so hot we were nude often - ti wasn't planned that way, but the second night - too much wine and a dare to swim naked - we realised well, now we've done that, what's the point in being dressed. The home owners dropped in one afternoon (husband and wife) and caught the four of us nude - they laughed - and said good on you all for being so relaxed.
Now to win that lottery!
One of my 'fantasy' holidays would be having enough money to take about 20 of my good male friends on a holiday to somewhere warm and tropical. I'd have a large private villa with pool, jacuzzi, steam/sauna, communal showers, etc. I'd pay for the entire thing - the only condition is that we would all be totally naked 24/7 for the entire time we are there. I'd have a group undressing event and then that would be it - no clothes until we leave two weeks later.
No expectation that sex would or must take place, but again, no issues if it did either - so long as it's all consensual and out in the open for all to enjoy. I just want a full on male bonding holiday. I've mentioned it to a select few and they would totally do it (even if I didn't pay)....and some of I've seen nude already - but most I've not, but would like to.
The nearest I go to this was in Italy about 20 years ago, me and three mates spent 10 days there - hired a private home with a pool - the weather was so hot we were nude often - ti wasn't planned that way, but the second night - too much wine and a dare to swim naked - we realised well, now we've done that, what's the point in being dressed. The home owners dropped in one afternoon (husband and wife) and caught the four of us nude - they laughed - and said good on you all for being so relaxed.
Now to win that lottery!
I wish I had my own place with a private, fenced-in pool and an outdoor grill. I'd love to have some friends over to grill out and swim. Me and a friend would strip down and jump in, hoping others would follow suit, but I wouldn't require them to be naked. Add in some horseplay. An outdoor shower that can fit a few guys would be nice too. If a group jerk off happens, that's a plus.
Heck, I'd be fine with a few hugs though. Men don't hug each other much in general. It's sad. We need to just accept that people care about each other and it's healthy.
Heck, I'd be fine with a few hugs though. Men don't hug each other much in general. It's sad. We need to just accept that people care about each other and it's healthy.
totally agree men don't hug enough. Most of my close mates are gay and we're all very big on hugging...I get a longer, tighter hug from them than from most of my str8 ones (except two). Also I've noticed that in the summer if we have our shirts off somewhere, a shirtless hug with any of them lasts just that little bit longer. As if there's a bit more connection when our bare skin is pressed against the others. It does't have to be sexual at all, but it makes more of a connection which is lovely.
Actually, it looks like your friend himself posted it publicly...
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&sou...FjAAegQIARAB&usg=AOvVaw2tBp8VXKcxeUcvT9WYbWfB
